Warsaw, Mazovia, Poland

Nov 2011

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Big decisions

Sometimes in our life there is a time for making very important decision. I am stuck at this moment and do not know which way to choose. There are many advantages and disadvantages. Anything I choose will be equally bad or good. What to do? How to decide?

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itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Nov 15, 2011●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

sounds like its a matter of loosing and keeping

best of luck with what ever

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sleepin_bird●Vilvoorde, Flemish Brabant Belgium

Nov 15, 2011●294 Comments

Hi Margo, making decisions can be hard indeed, especially when they are life changing.
If reason doesn't work - you already compared the advantages and disadvantages - try to take a step back for a while and let go, it takes away the pressure and might reveal a different outlook to you. Or try to choose with your heart instead of your head; in your heart you might even have made the choice already.

Good luck and hope you'll choose what feels best for you.

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Margo19991OP●Warsaw, Mazovia Poland

Nov 15, 2011●7 Blogs●36 Comments

itchywitch - thanks for your answer. Yes it sounds like loosing or keeping. And I have no idea what to do with it.

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Margo19991OP●Warsaw, Mazovia Poland

Nov 15, 2011●7 Blogs●36 Comments

sleepin_bird - thanks for a comment. I have made several steps back and found no idea. You mention heart role in decision taking. The trouble is when I choose way showed by heart it is completly different from the one pointed by logic. I can say it is the choice between heart and logic. I would like to prefer heart but logic says: "Do not do it. You will ruin your life." When I am choosing logic my heart stops me and says: "What about your feelings, emotions, nature". So, heart and logic from time to time talk to each other leaving me alone.

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particolor●Inverell, New South Wales Australia

Nov 15, 2011●9,376 Comments

I thaught you were sorting out your Knicker Drawer!!

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Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria

Nov 15, 2011●1,803 Comments

Margo, I consider a right decision as a fruit: it must ripen. In other words, take your time and the right decision will ripen in your mind. Good luck!

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itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Nov 15, 2011●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

oh margo the heart and the head, i sure wouldnt like to be you. its never an easy one between the two

the way i see it... once you dont loose your mind you can always change it cause your in control of it yourself, but im afaid the same does not apply to the heart

it does have a mind of its own

but i dont think your problems with your head or your heart, i think myself its your ears instead

who are they going to leisen to? and who are they going to fall deaf to also ... the head or the heart

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kdtrucker●drive 48 states, California USA

Nov 16, 2011●9 Blogs●39 Comments

Perhaps the answer is roll the dice and see what happens...one can change direction if ill winds prevail....

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alonerdo●Huixquilucan, Mexico State Mexico

Nov 16, 2011●323 Comments

Margo, and if only you relax, you're going to get a massage, you take a couple of glasses of wine, get the film Les Amants du Pont-Neuf and you take a moment without despair, with a little patience, you, your heart and your mind, together and consensus, agree to take the right decision!

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Homing●Later, Delhi India

Nov 16, 2011●9 Blogs●282 Comments

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Margo, if something has equal bad and good potions in it, personally I would go with the voice of my conscience

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HuggerMan4U●Kent, Washington USA

Nov 17, 2011●85 Blogs●1,279 Comments

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Years ago, we had a black ball that would randomly show Yes, No, or Maybe when the ball was shaken. You might try buying one of those and see what the ball says.

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Margo19991OP●Warsaw, Mazovia Poland

Nov 17, 2011●7 Blogs●36 Comments

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Jana28, thanks for your answer. Sometimes I think this way. Decision takes time. But how much time does it need? I hope it is not the whole life.

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Margo19991OP●Warsaw, Mazovia Poland

Nov 17, 2011●7 Blogs●36 Comments

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itchywitch, thanks once more for your answer. Yes, it is really difficult. Maybe if the heart had got its mind it would have been easier to find an agreement between heart and mind. But it isn't.

Contemplating this idea I decided to mobilize all my negotiation skills (which are equal 0 or 0,1 points in 10 points scale) and start up talks.

I hope results will be enough satisfying to protect my head from receiving too many bumps and injuries.

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Margo19991OP●Warsaw, Mazovia Poland

Nov 17, 2011●7 Blogs●36 Comments

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kdtrucker, yes rolling the dice would give the fastest solution. I am trying to roll it in one direction (the easiest one) and have reached extensieve stone wall. From my position I can't see where it ends and I could not jump over it. It is too wide.

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Margo19991OP●Warsaw, Mazovia Poland

Nov 17, 2011●7 Blogs●36 Comments

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alonerdo, yes I feel the consensus between heart and mind would be the best way to follow for me. Thanks for your prompt.

I will try to do it.

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Margo19991OP●Warsaw, Mazovia Poland

Nov 17, 2011●7 Blogs●36 Comments

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Homing, you are right. My conscience prompts me to find agreement between heart and mind.

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Jana28●Sofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria

Nov 17, 2011●1,803 Comments

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Margo, no, not the whole life! It depends on the arguments and on the seriousness of the decision, on the situation and its pace etc. Usually it takes days or weeks.

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Margo19991OP●Warsaw, Mazovia Poland

Nov 17, 2011●7 Blogs●36 Comments

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HuggerMan4U, I wonder what could be if the ball shaken 10 times show 5 times yes and 5 times no?...

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Margo19991OP●Warsaw, Mazovia Poland

Nov 22, 2011●7 Blogs●36 Comments

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Jana28, if it could be so easy. Nowadays I try to join my heart and mind preferences and look for solution good for both of them. I will check this idea. It should take some months I think. Then I will have to take a decission which way to choose.

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