Past relationships...
Have you ever look back on a past relationship and wonder why it didn't last?Who was at fault?
Was it a great feeling to let go?
If that person is happier without you?
Do they regret letting you go?
If you see them later, do you put a smile on so much and so bright, while pretending how happy your life is now
Do you ever have regrets?
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Whew!! Okay, I think Im allright now. Got it all out of my system. lol
I think he and I are bitter and I know why it failed as tux said lack of communication.
Me i think was the fault of both that it did not work. I even blame my self that he cheet(even if was not my fault), he was to confuse about what he want, now he still look for me from time to time but i fell sorry for him he hurt me to much i will never go back. Im
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If I looked back it was for a self-reflection; what I did wrong and what to do for not doing the same mistakes anymore in the future. I tend to think that I and my ex were contributing our parts that the relationship failed. Surely it wasn't a great feeling to let my past relationship and my ex go at the first time, it wasn't easy to deal with it but as time goes by, I am now at least relieved that I could leave it behind.
I do hope my ex is happier now without my presence in his life anymore which was one of reasons I gave up the relationship. I didn't bother to find out if he regretted letting me go although a friend who's still in touch with him once told me he wished he didn't ask for a break up but it has been too late by the time he said that
I wish I can do that, sweet, to smile at him if we happen to meet in person by accident and that's only it...a smile like I smiled to friends, not a fake smile to show him how happy my life is now
I was mad and upset yes but now I don't regret it
Take a rest well
I read youre comment and i know is hard but do you know what?
He is the loser from what i see how you are here on blogs i can tell youre a good girl so is his lost.
Im sure a good man will make you very happy one day just need to give a change again. I know is hard to trust mans this days, but look at the bright side maybe sun apear to your window when you less expect and true love will find you.
I had a short term relationships and always was great and fun,so i regret nothing and we are still friends.You know ending the relation can be ONLY because of some cultural or political differences,i mean you like each other a lot but for that reason the relations won't work.
I am sorry,i feel i am a exception here and i don't have pain or regrets,you may say i still have a green heart
I have met one of my ex's and she was married with children and i am happy for her and wish her all the best.
I have loved, lost and most importantly, learnt my lessons.
influenced ,by the fotos of my ex ,i was looking at last night,i was ready to post a simiral blog this morning ,i am glad i didnt .lol
look back?? always and wonder too
fault??? both share it or them.its never ones fault
let her go???? broke my heart , always does
happier w/o me??? if they werent ,we 'd together again ,so i think they r
letting me go??? how can i know ??? i suppose they dont
my happy life??? lol greece is a small place to hide lol
regret ??? always
on the Vikings house tonight!!
come on ppl lets go!! have some rock and some good time
I think of some of them only when I feel lonely. A new love would sweep them all away!
@Becca. I av been there. But more from lack of communication on my part. I like to think about things before i speak them.
@Lazly. I like how you still think about him. But not with bitterness
@Lachi. I think learning from past relationship is a good way to prepare you for the best one
@Summer. It is best to get all the anger out before goin forward
@DJ. thats sweet of you
@Blue. Good for you
@Ariel. That's the spirit
I certainly do have one major regret. When I was 12 years old, I had a wonderful friend. A girl. We did everything together (including discovering our first furry bits...long before we knew what to do with them
At school, a girl with a VERY short skirt, and legs up to THERE, and a VERY big smile, started paying me a LOT of attention. And I just stopped seeing my friend (appropriately, this new "distraction" turned out to be a very unpleasant experience, but that's another story).
Anyway, my regret is not that this just happened to be the nicest, purest relationship I can ever remember (and do wonder where it might otherwise have been able to go), it was how she must have felt being so suddenly and silently abandoned. The thought horrifies me. I can't even really relate to it, because such a thing has been so impossible for me to do ever since, I feel other's pain so intensely. Just not right then.
But, you know what? It just occurred to me! This is the answer to my question "what did I do to deserve a marriage like THAT?"
Anyway, I certainly sent her sweet prayers when I finally realized what I had done, but have never actually had the opportunity to ask her, or apologise for, how she might have felt.
Live and learn!