Insecurities & Jealousy
Insecurities and Jealousy…..I have come to learn that ppl who suffer from Insecurities r the ones most likely to be the jealous types.
Take for an example a man who likes to think he is all together, only to find out he narks up when others r talking to his women, The green monster raises its ugly head, (Jealousy). He finds then that his mates r talking to a new friend of his and they r saying ripper things to this new mate, Again the green monster raises its ugly head.
This also the case in the animal kingdom as well not just restricted to the human world.
Take for an example, a male lion will allow no other males near his brood of females, for if they do come close, there is often a fight to the death, not just with lions, but all sorts of animals, wombats, possums, leeches, gorillas, snakes, and even crayfish.
The only reason plausible, is that both humans and animals have insecurities about themselves, why is this so? Well that is one of the many great mysteries of Mother Nature.
Maybe they were not loved as a youngster and want to be loved now, maybe they were tied to the apron strings of their mothers for too long, and now face the real world without mummies protection. I do not know what the correct answer is.
Animals learn to show and treat others with respect, it is a shame that we in the human race do not take a leaf out of their existence and do the same.
I show respect to everyone and continue to have and show that respect until they lose it. When lost it is hard to win back that respect.
I have lived by the thought that I would rather be respected than loved, liked or even popular, I guess there are some who want to be popular and others want to be loved. I am just stating my thoughts.
Unfortunately today I have lost respect for someone who has insecurities and jealousy withering around in all their body. If they cannot be the life of the party, then no one can in their eyes it would appear.
I have always said what I mean and mean what I say; I do not hide behind snide remarks as some prefer to do.
I ask for no support in my words nor do I seek support, as I have said before.
I have an arsehole; therefore I have an opinion,
But I do not have shit for brains like some.
I am sorry to vent my disappointment in a fellow blogger here, cause it is no ones business except for whoever it is and me.
Just a pity they wish to make fun of others in a public forum.
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Comments (39)
ahhhh give us non-smokers any day
to both Choco and virgo....
sorry to have vented my feelings,
but the blog is in reference to a blogger wanting to poke fun at me but not having the decency to say so.
So i have lost respect for him.
Virgo, my last lines were the title of a blog that has gone. Along with the blogger i think.
Been divorced (happily) for just on 20 + years.
in that time i have worked hard and raised my 3 children on my own, no help from anyone.
At the time they were aged 9-8-3...the 2 eldest being girls and the youngest a son.
I sought no assistance bringing them up from any government nor did their mother help.
I am not seeking any kudos for that, only to explain that i am a person of honesty, respect, and generous nature.
I do not like being made fun of when it is not called for.
Again i am sorry to vent like this, but the blogger in question should take a good hard look at himself in the mirror.
And it is a shame, because i did respect him. But no, i have none for him.
I will delete this blog soon.
I am sorry for this.
i mean no one harm or bad feelings.
am not normally like this...
anyways anger vented...
onwards and upwards....
I have read your blog
and find it honest.
Its so true of some folks.
This is unfortunately life
and those of a mean heart
will never change.
Sending you a mega hug
i dont believe anyone should have that kind of right to upset me that much for me to hate them....
But RESPECT well thats a different matter.
I respect all, young and old, men and women, the good and the bad, until they do something to lose my respect for them....
i have followed many of ur comments on others blogs.
How goes your boat?
will it be ready to take us all to Rio for the CS get together....
human thats all we are sim!
hey shouldnt you be at work
Sundays and Mondays r my days off....
But i was in at work a little earlier...
And i love the human race......
Not necessarily In love with the human race, but i love it none the less.....
thats why we have memberships for boats.
Those that cant afford their own, buy memberships in our boats and use them whenever they wish to.
Sounds like a win win to me....
it keeps me employed i guess...
As for stealing someones work, i think not,
but u r entitled to ur opinion.
i offer my apologies if whom u refer to thinks i have stolen his work,
But u dont even see the differences do u.
he makes up stories and adds ppl to them, but i made up a story just using ppls names...
Big BIG difference, but u cant see that...
Am sorry u feel the way u do.
But u choose to do what u think is right.
I offer my hand of friendship to u many times, only for u to refuse it.
I can ask no more.
keep on keeping on Dame Nellie Melba ( i'd call u Johnny Farnham, but i know u despise him)
I thank u for ur kind words, and i am humbled by what u say, but alas i am ok, just wish other party could understand that i have never disrespected him at any stage. and that it is hard to see why he would denigrate me me in the name of fun on a couple of his blogs that he has now pulled.
But
i'm over it now....
Back to being me and cheerful i hope.
redex, u r one of the few (maybe many) that keep me coming here, ur politeness and understanding is a god send.
Ur humor is funny as well and u know what to say and when to say it...
But this appears to becoming something that i did not seek.
I do not seek anyone's sympathy (if that is the right word) i only .....god its hard to explain.
but thank u.....
or just making a comment?
I am happy to re start a friendship as long as u understand i am not here to win a popularity contest or be the king pin.
i just want to be me.
cause thats all i am...
sometimes maybe funny, maybe stupid, maybe both at the same time.
but never disrespectful.
Choco....
was staring to get to me as well.
5 mins and i will delete blog.....
thanks to all who have shared an opinion.
simmo, to ya defence, i dont think you've stolen anyones idea, cos there cudnt be as many ideas as people in this world, thats why sometimes they coinside. you told me you hv stayed here for just 3-4 month, sso there's no surprise you cud repeat someones joke or whatever. I just cant understand why its so painful for party. was it something of his?
But I liked the lion this morning his little freind was doing tai chi so I am off to do my morning chill now.
simmo chill with me pal
how to beat Insecurities....
Be positive and accepting that we r not as perfect as we would like to think we r. To trust in another.
Also to accept others with respect.
Insecurities will then fade away.