To Be Friend or Not to Be Friend

Just to touch onto an issue mentioned in another blog, but also something which has bothered me for a while.

The FRIEND REQUEST boxsigh

This has been a problem for me.

I understand that this is an attempt for some to reach out to others, however I find it difficult to accept friends, when they have never made any other attempt to contact medunno
I accepted a few to see if this would change, but allasuh oh I have come to the conclusion, that for most of them, it is merely a statement to post on their profile. "I have ...so many friends... therefore I am Kosher".

I feel bad about ignoring the request, but I would much rather receive mail in my in my inbox or a flower with a nice message than an empty friend requestroll eyes

Perhaps someone has a different view on this issue, something which I haven't considered which might shed a fresh light on this issue?dunno

At this point I no longer even check out my fiend request box

wine bouquet sigh
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maybe I'm breaking the rules now, but it doesnt let me sleep welllaugh once i got a request from a very handsome guy. i accepted him cos okay, i simply liked himblushing laugh of cos i never seen him not at my WVMList nor in my mail...but what was me surprise when i opened 100 Tops and saw him there at the first place as "most friendly!"wow lol i cudnt believe my eyes i checked his nick there and at my list for maybe 20 times!...like crazydoh laugh somebody tell me plz now, are they paid for that or what?uh oh laugh
yes I see what you mean , I got 94 blogs , just carn't belive it , l didn't think I had said so much drible ,ever .... wave
Vhug blogs are fine, i believe they unite people much more than friends requests dopeace
yes you can see their history , in there writtings and learn how their thought patern works , to see if you can get along with them or not ,

you know how it is, when we see people we may want as friends , we will watch them and if they hang around with the wrong people , then they wont become riends ...wave
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