Falling in love with someone you can't have

Getting over someone can sometimes appear to be impossible. It feels really hard when you fall in love with someone you can’t have. It feels even worse when you are sure that this relationship can never work out.
I think that this is the worst thing that could ever happen to someone. I believe that to forget someone is one of the hardest “assignments” given in life, especially if you had this gut feeling that he/she is the ONE. Therefore all of these thoughts crossing my mind drove me deeply into the psychology of what is called falling wrongly into love


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Hey dear...hug

Don`t waste your time on a man/woman ,who isn`t willing to waste their time on you.dunno bouquet heart wings
Dear Bambina, " Falling in love with someone you can't have ", I can relate to that . Have you ever heard of Ava Gardner . . . laugh laugh laugh
Been there, done that, and hated it....blues
i know that feeling. sad
Well ain`t life a beeyatch...laugh

falling for the wrong person,getting over ,being alone and suffer... falling in love ,again its the wrong person.. getting over,being alone and suffer

okay I decided after many ups and downs to skip a few of the mentioned above and wait..
I don`t know what for,but Im waiting ...
Lucy : it wasn't him .... its his family crying he still loving me and still in touch sad flower

Frank : what about ava ? Hehehehehe never hear bout it grin

Calli and teddy : gosh ... its like one step to the goal but its fail moping
For me the problem was her family as well.. a husband would be considered family right?? Thats why i'll never get involved with a married lady again.

If he truly loves you he wouldn't let his family stop him bambina
yes, I agreed with teddybeerke88 comfort

But in east world...family really most omportant if they keep to their original intention, it is difficult to change. I understanding...doh very mad crying

Maybe the one thing that does not change only love, but this love is too pale.moping
Boban : keep waiting comfort at the time u will meet someone worth waiting for

Teddy and lucy : he did it , but i dont wanna have relation without their blessing sad flower and as long as we keep this relation , his family will make a trouble of his job
Hmmmm franky , im not ava nor claudia schifferrolling on the floor laughing peace
The most challenging phase of love is when you fall in love with someone, whom you can’t get or not even think of getting him/her in your life. It really hurts sometimes and you even feel very painful when you miss that person. Loving someone is not in your control, it just a feeling and tough to get over it.angelNow, it’s up to you that how you take this love in your life, with a positive approach or negative approach? Having a negative approach is keep on crying for that person, who don’t take you more than a friend and not even notice your tears. Another approach is to take the feeling positively and enjoy the moment to fullest.best advice would be move on. Life is short and there is no point in waiting and falling in love with someone you can’t have. Instead find someone special, who completes you.teddybearHave a nice week end...bambina bee.....here a nice old song for you.....
Dear Bambina, I know you are not Claudia or Ava but I don't care . Just be you and I will like you the same . You also should be glad that you don't look like the aforementioned two . The last thing you needd is an old man drooling all over you. .. .rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Steveno : u right , buddy wine all i have to do is to move on even it feels so hard .
Anyway thx for the song , thats sweet bouquet
So my pillow will be completely wet , frank ... coz i always drool as well when i sleep rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Your welcome bambina... and i am glad you liked the song take care....teddybear hug
awwww.....sad. hang in there and be strong hug
"Falling in love with someone you can't have"

Hey, that's the story of my life! I seem to have a habit of doing this. That's about all I can do, since the vast majority of my women friends are married.
Funx : thanks buddy hug

Hugger : it's hurt , isn't it moping
Bambi, moping
This blog...............................crying its true so true moping
It is , del sad flower
I know different cultures have there traditions and if your ex is expected to do this or that the pressure to please and respect his family would be huge.Would you mind me asking why they regard you as not being good enough or maybe you dont know your self what the reason is? There was a King who gave up the throne for love about sixty years ago.wave
They want to set him up to the other girl,waf sad flower and the other reason is becoz we have different religion
Im sorry i hope you just remember life will be great again and it will youll see.bouquet wave
Yeah you right hug thx anyway
Bambi,

ini aku banget! handshake frustrated good luck ya say. Katanya sih butuh setengah dari lamanya kita bersama untuk melupakan. which is bener di aku. hubungan 4 tahun patah hati dan bangunnya butuh 2 tahun. soalnya katanya ada hormon yang tercipta saat kita jatuh cinta, dan hormon itu nggak langsung ilang pas kita putus. nah lho!
Ever happen but time will healing it even easy to say but hard to do.
Move on your life dear, it could be there is someone more worth for you, & let your past keep in your sweet memory.

If he destiny for your then he will be for you

Cheer hug
crying sedih banget , mbakku ... yg bikin sedih adalah masalah bukan di kami berdua tp pihak lain . Dulu gw pernah pacaran 5 th sama yg lain . Yg ini cuma 6 bulan dan putusnya lebih nyesek drpd yang dulu :moping

Saras &lavina : anyway thx a lot ya mbak - mbakku hug
mumbling He's a fool for allowing his parents to dictate to him; shows no backbone...move on then, no great loss.! professor
Matters of the heart are settled with just that, emotions, love, compassion & understanding - not religion!
You could pose it to them & say:- "You understand, they were born into this wrong religion, no fault of theirs - but they can change it to something more meaningful & modern"! grin laugh laugh
Hi pretty Bambina, your blog subject here, reminds me of a young friend I knew in the 1990's. He had just completed college here, and he had a gf he did not really like, but his family wanted them to be together. The girl he really loved and she loved him, he said they could never be together, not even bf and gf. I asked "Why?" He answered, "Because I am of Vietnamese family and she is of Laotion family. My family, nor hers would never approve." I answered "Are you kidding me? This is modern times here. You should be with the person whom you love and she loves you too, regardless of all that stuff of you and her have some differences. We are all different... otherwise we'd all be clones. lol". He just laughed... but still kept his belief that he would never truly be with that girl he loved, and she loved him too. Oh Well! blues
Robrt : hhhuuftttt... can u imagine how she felt , well i feel it now hehehehe . The good thing is im not alone , thx God my family keep support and encouraging me hug
Bambina, if you love each other, fight for your love. It s between you and him, not between you and his family. If they love him they will want his luck. I hope they aren t some fanatics...

But if you are not ready to sacrifice things for your love then move on as fast as possible. Here we have a saying that roughly translated, means: Overcome it by the same thing = Find someone else.wave
* they will want his happiness
Hi Bambi / Rob

I've been there -- and I had a terrible.. horrible tought times to get over it !!! He's Egyptian / American from LA but was working here at the US Base in Doha, Qatar. They are Orthodox and he's the only son. He need to follow what the parents tell him. He has to marry the same Egytian woman from their church... so for almost 2 years of being with him -- I had to let him go!

I knew from the beginning that I can't have him no matter how much he loves me. Now I could only say that , how I wish that I can have him for lfe but I know that deep inside of me he belongs to someone.

A matter of acceptance is the only way to move on ..heart1
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