Zenatrim
Zenatrim
Aug 2013
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Friendswithbenefits

It's 4th of august Happy Friendship day to all.

Friends with Benefits does it count, is it for real?
confused doh
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Dedovix
Dedovix●Big Place, Central Serbia Serbia
Aug 4, 2013●135 Blogs●1,499 Comments
#1
Some would say, to each his own
Happy Friend-ship day buddies
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MADDOG69
MADDOG69●Dublin, Ireland
Aug 4, 2013●1 Blogs●637 Comments
#2
"Friends with Benefits does it count, is it for real?"

Works for some. Not really for me. Too possessive and emotional. blushing
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Migsy
Migsy●candelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines
Aug 4, 2013●45 Blogs●923 Comments
#3
Reminds of justin timberlake moviewine
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NoseHairBob
NoseHairBob●Ubud, Bali Indonesia
Aug 4, 2013●6 Blogs●135 Comments
#4
For me, it can be done, and enjoyed with the right mind set and accomplice. You have to have the ability to maintain a separation between the physicality and emotional aspects of it, but as long as both parties are on the same page and can leave not dwelling on things, it can be a lot of fun. Just my experience.

Do it with someone you don't like to be sure of no attachment.laugh
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Zenatrim
ZenatrimOP●Dammam, Eastern Province Saudi Arabia
Aug 4, 2013●10 Blogs●80 Comments
#5
@ Migsy, MIla and Justin...
I wonder if its for real?
@ Dedo, happy friendshug
@Maddog, smitten wine
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Zenatrim
ZenatrimOP●Dammam, Eastern Province Saudi Arabia
Aug 4, 2013●10 Blogs●80 Comments
#6
@NHB
someone you don't like, ummmh no thankslaugh rolling on the floor laughing
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nonsmoker
nonsmoker●Waterford, Ireland
Aug 4, 2013●282 Blogs●8,720 Comments
#7
I had a friend with benefits,
Unemployment benefits. sigh
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Zenatrim
ZenatrimOP●Dammam, Eastern Province Saudi Arabia
Aug 4, 2013●10 Blogs●80 Comments
#8
Justsayno to your unemployment benefitsdunno
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MADDOG69
MADDOG69●Dublin, Ireland
Aug 4, 2013●1 Blogs●637 Comments
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I find that the biggest problem is people who think they can handle FWB... then realise that, the other person has decided to add on different FWB on a Monday night for example. grin That's when the pain starts for many.
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nonsmoker
nonsmoker●Waterford, Ireland
Aug 4, 2013●282 Blogs●8,720 Comments
#10
I agree with You Maddog.
I have free loving relationships when younger, and your right.
It always ended in someone being Hurt cheers

I think its a Teenagers experiment, and something most grow away from.
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andie0404
andie0404●pretoria, Gauteng South Africa
Aug 4, 2013●2 Blogs●30 Comments
#11
I obviously don't speak for the male species, but I suspect that guys would find it easier to do than women....women create emotional attachments to stuff whereby we can rationalize it for what it is and then just move on. I suspect that guys wish all relationships were like this but then again, loving the woman as well is so much more awesome and satisfying.

It is really about establishing parameters and sticking to them, no matter what. That is not to say that a "friend with benefits" cannot evolve into something more meaningful.
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nonsmoker
nonsmoker●Waterford, Ireland
Aug 4, 2013●282 Blogs●8,720 Comments
#12
Zenatrim,
Im glad to see my Campaign is having such an effect on people that they actually think my name Is JUSTSAYNO laugh rolling on the floor laughing

Remember every no is a yes in the other direction dunno
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andie0404
andie0404●pretoria, Gauteng South Africa
Aug 4, 2013●2 Blogs●30 Comments
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Maddog...you are right of course. I don't think anyone wants to share a woman irrespective of whether it is a FWB or not. That is not a friend with benefits, but with risks, both physical and emotional
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Welela
Welela●Secret City, Buskerud Norway
Aug 4, 2013●2,822 Comments
#14
Hi Zena, happy friendship day to you too. And I'm not sure about this friends with benefits. Have tried it and it was okay, but nothing to build on, so I stopped. So no more friends with benefits for me, only a good old friend. hug teddybear hug
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Ravensgold
Ravensgold●Panchos Villas, Wexford Ireland
Aug 4, 2013●9 Blogs●1,131 Comments
#15
NO...I think life is complicated enought as it islaugh uh oh
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Serenity4two
Serenity4two●Donegal, Ireland
Aug 4, 2013●846 Comments
#16
Nope ,,
definitely not for me either
it would wreck my head ! way too confusing grin
Happy friendship day to you Zenatrim and indeed to all my friends hug teddybear
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Ravensgold
Ravensgold●Panchos Villas, Wexford Ireland
Aug 4, 2013●9 Blogs●1,131 Comments
#17
Hi Serenity...Hope you are well!wave wine
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Serenity4two
Serenity4two●Donegal, Ireland
Aug 4, 2013●846 Comments
#18
Hi Raven wave
thankyou , how's you ?
your weekend going well ? hug
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fotinia0737
fotinia0737●Portimao, Faro Portugal
Aug 4, 2013●21 Blogs●2,583 Comments
#19
Hi all kiss

The process of knowledge of this fact is the beginning of...wait

and see...smile

But it's very nice... head banger
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Angelpepper
Angelpepper●Glen Ellyn, Illinois USA
Aug 4, 2013●9 Blogs●10,202 Comments
#20
scold Zenatrim:. . Happy Friends Day! . . I agrees with all the comments thats been said. Also It works for each is own.
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NotMissTaken
NotMissTaken●unknown, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia
Aug 4, 2013●20 Blogs●1,011 Comments
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FWB not a great idea. Either one is doomed for developing deeper feelings. I have seen pips did that and they ended up hating each other.. doh
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ajkaorjun
ajkaorjun●kolkata ( erstwhile calcutta ), West Bengal India
Aug 4, 2013●49 Blogs●856 Comments
#22
the bads outweigh the benefits.
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rohaanonline today!
rohaan●Coos Bay, Oregon USA
Aug 6, 2013●51 Comments
#23
There is always someone in a relationship like "FWB" who really wants it to be more. Therefore, it doesn't "work" and probably should be avoided. People aren't made to be so close to one another and have no deeper caring. It doesn't work, not forever, anyhow.
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