mr_fixes_it
mr_fixes_it
yankton, South Dakota, USA
Oct 2013
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Willing to relocate

I saw another post on this and it has been a thought that weighs heavy on my mind. That is a huge decision and not to be taken lightly. I Find myself wondering would someone move for me? Would i move for them? I do have heavy family ties in my area. Also have a business and a home. I realize i can move my business and get a new home but not sure i could afford it. I am sure on the other side they wonder the same. thing. This online dating thing takes time and i am not one to rush into a decision like that. However its something that needs to be addressed. I realize there are people on here who are pushing for a relationship just to better their situation and get out of where they are. I haven't really responded to these. i am not how it sits with me morally.I remember my grandfather telling me to marry for money and work on love. he was kind of a d**k. I have been alone now for going on 3 years. As anyone will tell you loneliness sucks. I know find myself wondering to what lengths i will go to have someone there. Even if it isn't love, something is better than nothing.
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adamisk
adamisk●raleigh, Mississippi USA
Oct 5, 2013●1,442 Comments
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im kind of a burn that bridge when i get there person the first thing i have to do is find a girl worth thinking about relocating for .
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LadyDiz
LadyDiz●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa
Oct 5, 2013●5 Blogs●101 Comments
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Something is not better than nothing! There is nothing more lonely than being with someone whom you don't love and vice versa. Take your time, chat with people online, but also go out and meet them in the real world. Never settle for less than love.
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mr_fixes_it
mr_fixes_itOP●yankton, South Dakota USA
Oct 5, 2013●27 Blogs●45 Comments
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unfortunately it is tough to meet people in the "real world". I work a lot. owning a business takes up most of my free time and working a job takes up a lot of the other time. Another factor is where to meet people. i cant exactly pick up women at the store, thats unprofessional. I dont go to the bars to pick up women. I dont go to church. Its a thinker for me
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GoDaniel
GoDaniel●Leominster, Massachusetts USA
Oct 5, 2013●71 Blogs●2,433 Comments
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Mr. Fixes,

I think it is a personal choice if someone would relocate. Myself personally, I don't think I would especially if I didn't know the person well enough. It's a big risk that only each person can make
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sal3sevens
sal3sevens●Baltinglass, Wicklow Ireland
Oct 5, 2013●2 Blogs●7 Comments
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i would move for someone i love, if i loved someone it wouldnt matter where we were i would always be home if i was with my love and that is what i am looking for on this site someone i can be whole with someone i would move anywhere with

salx
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funlaugh
funlaugh●Whitianga, Waikato New Zealand
Oct 6, 2013●88 Blogs●818 Comments
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you know the ones willing to relocate don't have the money to do that.
Have one of them to , she's very nice though and seems pretty honest, been in contact for a long time so makes it a bit more re asureing, but I don't do sending money to anyone , number one rule. So planing to visit sometime , then if all seems good maybe take a next step.
What ever you do never rush a decision , untill people meet theres no gaurentee's
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platosha
platosha●Siem Reap, Cambodia
Oct 7, 2013●4 Blogs●114 Comments
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Hi Mr fixes it, I ve done that, I relocated one time to other country BUT together with my late husband (he wanted to immigrate), and relocated second time to other city to be with my man whom i loved and trusted. When you love a person you ll always find a way how to be together, everything will fall into places - youjust have to give it a chance. Unfortunately noone knows how long it will last. My marriage ended tragically after 11 years, and my last relationship ended up after 10 years. But i have no complaints and no regrets. After all the one who does not risk will not drink champagne peace
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Georgiapeachgirl
Georgiapeachgirl●Trenton, Ohio USA
Oct 8, 2013●1 Blogs●17 Comments
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You are bringing up a very important topic here. One that I to have asked. I know I want to move. But dating someone is impossible for me because I'm not in the area I want to move to yet. I guess it's all in your heart of what you want and who you want. I know what I want and I'm not settling. I'm looking for someone who wants the same as me. It's much harder to find than just dating someone and seeing where it goes. If you know what you want then it takes a lot longer to find your right mate. On the other hand, if you are sure you found your right mate and you are willing to sacrafice what you already have worked for and your family, then maybe you have your answer.

I'm willing to move for someone, but only if it's in warmer climates. (for health reasons and is part of knowing what I want). But very few people are willing to do this for TRUE LOVE. Most want what you mentioned, just to get out of a current situation or into a better one. Just take a step back and think about what you want and how far you're willing to go.
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