Just a bit of a vent......

Hahh butterflies.....no likely similarities....theres more to it but the more I get into detail of the situation, the more agitated I get....yer good

Lol Scott, I don't think my size 11 would fit!

Oh dear iotaoo, in English please?

Virgo....the electric setup here is beyond my control but I most certainly will not cook or clean for him. But so this is clear, its my friends son, not my own......oh hell mine know better lol

No, I am staying with my friend.....he is her son and lacks respect for any adults in the household. Well if its not corrected, it continues.....

Oh iotaoo lol....if I'm not sleeping by then, I'll be around

No Virgo lmao.... I did say "he is her son"

Yep Virgo, that I am

In fact, I'll go as far as to say your self-esteem can't be that good if you need to feel superior about your children and parenting skills over your host and friend's.

You're part of the dynamic.

"Well, if it's not corrected it continues."

How's this correcting thing working for you?

Would you have preferred it if I'd been a little more understanding and less confrontational in the way that I've challenged your behaviour?

Oh cap I agree 100% .....they don't want the confrontation so they shrug it off.....if he was one of mine, at that age, he'd be out the door!

One would think aj that is most certainly my view......but because that option wasn't considered byhis parents a long time ago, this is the end result in adult years

Ferg. .......um........ya....not really sure how to respond to all of that.......

Naki. ....I did say 19....so basically you're telling me that just because he's still technically a teenager, than its perfectly acceptable to disrespect his elders and behave in such an irresponsible way? My apologies, Miss, but I would have to disagree.....i was a single parent to my children for several years and where as my children were far from perfect, there's no way in hell they would speak to me.....or anyone else in such a way. My oldest, being 20, has a small house with his fiancee of 3 years in a neighboring town, a job, a car.....and will be attending college before the end of this year and my daughter, who is 18, yes is a single mother at a young age but she has finished school and works.....getting her drivers license before the end of the month and moving into her new apartment this week and well, takes care of the little one too.....and my youngest is still 13 yet....but none of them ever spoke to me in such a disrespectful manner or attempted to raise a hand to me or anyone else for that matter...because I raised them with compassion and respect. I'm sorry but to say its ok for a 19 year old to behave in such a way because they're just a teenager is unacceptable, in my opinion. If that is your view, I do respect that but I just can't and won't agree with it. Everyone has their own opinions.

Flyjames that is my intention.......I haven't seen her yet but when I do, it will definitely be discussed. Though this particular behavior is nothing new for him and nothing is enforced so I won't hold my breath.....but either way she will certainly be informed.

Lmao Virgo.....honestly, sad but true.....but I won't get too much into that

Bspoken. ....I just watched the trailer.....sounds like a great movie! Will definitely have to watch it, thank you for sharing

Iotaoo. ....my question would be what would bring an individual to that point....to learn from peers and those particular behaviors not be corrected from the get go? So as an adult, the disrespect continues. Correct me if I'm wrong sir