peonyjenny

peonyjenny

Jun 2014

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Being single is better than with a guy unhappy

I am in Abu Dhabi, and I met a young Phillipina. She is very upbeating and efficient at home. I like her quick personality. And later on I found out she is single also. Then she told me: she had been with a guy,but the guy also secretly going out with other girls. So now she is alone,and I encourage her to look for new boyfriend,

She said: being alone is better than being with a guy unhappy. Maybe it is right from some angle. I know to be together with another person,people have to alter or compromise. In ideal world, a guy loves a woman, and being together, there should not be any disputes, but in fact, we do have differences, so that in life: Idealism is very beautiful, but real life is completely another thing.

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wallops1964●Wakefield, West Yorkshire, England UK

Jun 12, 2014●24 Blogs●2,327 Comments

Hi Peony

I sure would much prefer being on my own than in an unhappy relationship

You can be with someone but still feel alone unless you mutually enjoying your time together

Be happy in your own skin

and only embark on a relationship with someone who will enhance your happiness and you his

wallops1964●Wakefield, West Yorkshire, England UK

Jun 12, 2014●24 Blogs●2,327 Comments

Hi Peony

I sure would much prefer being on my own than in an unhappy relationship

You can be with someone but still feel alone unless you mutually enjoying your time together

Be happy in your own skin

and only embark on a relationship with someone who will enhance your happiness and you his

Zeurich●unknown, Utrecht Netherlands

Jun 12, 2014●165 Blogs●1,300 Comments

Hi dear I have to say the same my friend so I am just behind wallops,,

I enjoyed unhappy people with a marriage and no need to have the same meal again,,

Hi wallops

Mimi1973●Perak,, Malaysia

Jun 12, 2014●15 Blogs●2,342 Comments

Yup, agreed with wallops and Zeurich! However...if it's McDonald's Happy Meal, then I don't mind having it over and over and over again...

Smartassss●Jakarta, Indonesia

Jun 12, 2014●102 Blogs●2,184 Comments

I told to someone that having many friends is good but having someone is something different.

being alone maybe better than being with a guy unhappy...

so I agree with you that idealist is good but realistic is much better...

peonyjennyOP●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Jun 12, 2014●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

I also agree with this Phillipina to some extent. But I want to take actions to find a real partner. In life, we have to give some hope to ourselves!

I am happy with what life offers, I must say. I have worked hard, i haven't found my right partner,but as I am able to support a secured life to my family, I am still happy with life.

My next step is to look for my partner. But I like to listen to other side idea. It helps me to face life.

guadal●Heidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Jun 12, 2014●252 Blogs●1,805 Comments

I agree, being single is the best for all of u...

Mimi1973●Perak,, Malaysia

Jun 12, 2014●15 Blogs●2,342 Comments

Guadal, I'm not single

guadal●Heidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Jun 12, 2014●252 Blogs●1,805 Comments

So what r u here for??????

peonyjennyOP●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Jun 12, 2014●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

Guadal, I mainly use this site to write out idea, and talking about some interesting things! and watching guys like you,mean and sharp!

Mimi1973●Perak,, Malaysia

Jun 12, 2014●15 Blogs●2,342 Comments

Guadal Errrr....for the games, forums and the blogs????

Oh! And also for the online friendship of some of these lovely lovely ladies here on CS????

peonyjennyOP●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Jun 12, 2014●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

Guadal, what we are doing has nothing to do with you! Do you have better things to say, I wonder where you stay?

To be with a guy like you is definitely a lot worse than being alone!

W

peonyjennyOP●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Jun 12, 2014●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

Guadal, what makes you so harsh and mean, how many times you have been refused by women?

You need first cure your heart, when your heart is cured, then you can talk as a proper guy.

Mimi1973●Perak,, Malaysia

Jun 12, 2014●15 Blogs●2,342 Comments

There there Jenny

We just concentrate on what we seek out to do ok? Life is too beautiful to be caught in this.

peonyjennyOP●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Jun 12, 2014●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

Sure! We purely stay away from rubbish.

There too many good people and things to appreciate in life!

Smartassss●Jakarta, Indonesia

Jun 12, 2014●102 Blogs●2,184 Comments

Guadal... how old are you? whatever ...
I found you as weird person but unique as nobody compared to you...
I am your fan....

Mimi1973●Perak,, Malaysia

Jun 12, 2014●15 Blogs●2,342 Comments

Smart!

Smartassss●Jakarta, Indonesia

Jun 12, 2014●102 Blogs●2,184 Comments

Mimi....

peonyjennyOP●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Jun 12, 2014●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

Let's be focus on our own feeling!

My plan is to finish my work in hand, then I will apply for a visa to Europe. I want to visit universities.

No matter how hard life is, i need lead as nice I can.

guadal●Heidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Jun 12, 2014●252 Blogs●1,805 Comments

Thought u want to visit the universe....

Smart, thank u!

peonyjennyOP●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Jun 12, 2014●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

Guadal,if you pay the fare to visit the universe, I will accept!

peonyjennyOP●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Jun 12, 2014●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

At least, rubbish will have slightly good usage.

guadal●Heidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Jun 12, 2014●252 Blogs●1,805 Comments

I would be concerned about ur food bill....

because u r hungry all the time...

peonyjennyOP●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Jun 12, 2014●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

you need pay only the fare!free of worry. I eat tiny!

guadal●Heidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Jun 12, 2014●252 Blogs●1,805 Comments

And u need a visa in all ur dresses...

corneliusd●Quelque part, Brabant Wallon Belgium

Jun 12, 2014●25 Blogs●286 Comments

Well if you guys are stopping by around here, I can cook some veggies for you.
One condition though, no fight :)

Smartassss●Jakarta, Indonesia

Jun 12, 2014●102 Blogs●2,184 Comments

So I am in Cornelius... i am watching, not fighting

peonyjennyOP●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Jun 12, 2014●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

Guadal, I pay my visa, you are free of worry! I mean what I say,understand?

peonyjennyOP●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Jun 12, 2014●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

My dresses I can also pay, free of worry again!Guadal,now count with your toes how much money you have to pay for the fare!

corneliusd●Quelque part, Brabant Wallon Belgium

Jun 12, 2014●25 Blogs●286 Comments

Then u are very welcome miss smart :)
I have not so much seats but doesn't sound necessary to get more

peonyjennyOP●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Jun 12, 2014●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

Guadal, ok., I need free you from the worry. No need count with your toes, I give up fighting with you!

Even I can't appreciate you, I can release you free from worrying about the universe fare!

Smartassss●Jakarta, Indonesia

Jun 12, 2014●102 Blogs●2,184 Comments

Cornelius... just need 2 seats for us... look like Peonny nd Guadal enjoy their fight...

corneliusd●Quelque part, Brabant Wallon Belgium

Jun 12, 2014●25 Blogs●286 Comments

Two's among my favorites numbers, any preference for the menu?

peonyjennyOP●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Jun 12, 2014●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

I give up fighting already! I don't want Guadal to take out his toes to count.

Let's be focus on feelings: Being alone is better than to be with a rubbish guy!

corneliusd●Quelque part, Brabant Wallon Belgium

Jun 12, 2014●25 Blogs●286 Comments

Perhaps some peas first?

corneliusd●Quelque part, Brabant Wallon Belgium

Jun 12, 2014●25 Blogs●286 Comments

Perhaps better but also so much more boring...Sometimes they are unexpected treasures hided under rubbish :)
Also isn't happiness made to share?

peonyjennyOP●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Jun 12, 2014●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

I like creamy mushroom soup!

peonyjennyOP●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Jun 12, 2014●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

I don't want rubbish level guys!

It is difficult to share if both sides can't appreciate each other!

Smartassss●Jakarta, Indonesia

Jun 12, 2014●102 Blogs●2,184 Comments

great Corne... what did you cook as the main food? maybe you should cook a bit more, maybe Peony or other would join...

Mimi1973●Perak,, Malaysia

Jun 12, 2014●15 Blogs●2,342 Comments

Just dropped off the kids for their extra classes! Did I miss anything interesting here? Mmmmm......I smell food???

Anymore leftovers???

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