Children....
Having children is blessing...conceive and bear a child is a perfect as a woman and pride as a man. do not ever say that to have a baby is an easy thing to do...
well... easy to do, but not easy to get...
sometimes I dont understand when I read a profile they put "no way" to have kids while he is not married and no kids... I am sure no one can reject the presence of a child even though they refused at first.
a child is successor ancestry and pride in the family..
son or daughter has same value, depend on how we raise them and teach them how to live a life
TO ME... children can motivate us to do our best in doing something because we would hope to provide the best. and the child hopefully obtain better terms than what we've done.
how about you?
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A lot of the younger generation nowadays would prefer not to have any... I guess it's has become too expensive to have kids....
However, I have friends my age who chose not to have kids, quite a number of them, mind you, and they seemed to be happy with their decisions.
Hi Nam,
Hi 12121,
Hi Gent,
Hi Twazz...
yes children is the reason for us for being, they are our heritage, nothing can change with them..
I have one friend .. she said she does not talk with her mom for many years bcos of misunderstanding/angry and she does not care whatever happen to her. I was so sad for her.
Then I ask her, "do you miss your mom?" she said sometimes..
"what do you feel if your kids do same thing to you?" she cry...
anyway, idea is interesting; appealing if one wants more luck.
Even though, I'm lucky having 1 child and 1 child I wanted(not more). But I won't disrespect those who don't want kid. I won't question them.
In my 20's I did assume I would go down the "traditional" route with marrying and kids, but I changed my life with moving to another country (my choice) and at this stage in my life, looking at my family and friends who have kids - no thanks.
I am used to other family values than which are applied around here (looking at my friends and my ex's attitude) and there is no way I would want to be a single mother as my female friends here, who are all married and their hubbies have better things to do then having a family life.
Maybe we put up with things in our 20's more easily or don't questioning them as much. I do like spending time with nieces, nephews and kids of friends. I also have seen too many relationships going wrong, I never want to be financially dependent on someone or end up on my own with kids and an exhausting life (for everyone involved). Most importantly, I like my life the way it is and simply don't want kids at this stage in my life.
It is a personal choice which should be accepted. I would bring up the question of children or not early when I meet someone.
yes, decision to have or not to have a child is personal.
I am sure you know what the best you want to have in your life...
A child is not only a blessing but a privilege. Just remember they are never yours to keep; only borrowed to you for a limited time. Cherish that time because before you know, your baby is grown up.
thats why I said that children are successor ancestry and pride in the family.. as they would not be kept forever like a baby in our arms...