looking for someone to support my expensive habits...horses, and my adult children...Belong to a cult and I am a vegan .joking...maybe not a little...ha ha.Thank you CS, here for the blogs.My horses feet are as swift as rolling thunder, he carries me
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So....with that said, your rational is somewhat flawed. You can (or a woman) can handle rejection far better than a man because the woman (in general) has had far more success getting into relationships than a man (in general). And, they are more confident with who they are because they have been approached numerous times in the past. This past feedback for a woman helps their self esteem. The same as the lack of past approaches from women to a man helps to keep a man's self esteem lower.
However, that does not mean a man needs to be mean when getting rejected. :)
I think I got my point across here?
but the opportuinty of defeating the eneny is provided by the eneny
himself.
Sun Tzu.
I will start...years ago I had a crush on the most beautiful man...named Guy....but, he was in lve with a tall willowy blonde who would not commit to him....I was immensely hurt by his rejection...good but not good enough. Very humbling experience....
Here on CS>, yes, I have been rejected....It was a bit ouchy, but I have moved on. I only hate spending a very long time writing someone then it turns out not right...seems a waste of time to write to someone for so long...getting hopes up that perhaps one will meet the "right one" someday-I wait...I get rejected and I do reject others...who do not suite me.....Big ego- I don't think my ego is in the way- I think I knw spefically what I want and when it happens I will know. Attraction has to be a part of anyone's relationship-without attraction...then one is settling.
I didn't mean a person has a big ego if they turn down somebody. What I meant is a ego can help deter the sour feeling of rejections. And self esteem can lead into ego. It was a bit complicated what I was talking about and I was all scattered with how to explain it. That is why I asked if I get my point across at the end. :)
But as far as rejection stories.....lol....thankfully I do not have many. My girlfriend of 13 years approached me. :) However, I do recall one time...it was a bit dis-heartening. Now, I let the chips fall as they may. So in other words, I rarely do any approaching.
It works alot better when she makes the first move, then one is a position to say Yes on No.
When she makes her first move most of the time we men dont see it.
I tried your method twice, they didn't take me seriously! They actually found it endearing
i couldn't reject your request
And a big thank you to my friend from the Island! Itchy!!!