Skeletons In The Closet
I have few skeletons stashed in my closet and I believe most of us do. I try hard not to think of them, always do my best to forget them but they're there and something would remind me of them from time to time. It's no longer a complete secret but I've hid them from people who are close to me. It never give me a good feeling, in fact it only make me feel guilty but for many good reasons I keep them hidden.Well I do wonder from time to time whether I should take them to grave or set them free and leave them behind
Would you like to be buried with your secrets or would you tell on your deathbed?
A lovely weekend to all of you
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I know sooner or later I will have to come clean...
It will be a lot of explaining to do and I would hate that
I will have to wait for that perfect time
I'm just wondering if it does make me a bad person
yeah, I guess that time will have to be when I have to introduce someone else...
what a complicated mess that would be
that's a very good point.
My son is very close to me and he seems to understand what's going on. He did cried at one night and told me how bad he feels about what happened and I'm just glad he let it out and we had a long talk about things.
He's just 10 years old but very clever. His father and I are on the same page when it comes to him, we always do our best to protect him and make him feel so loved.
But I would hate that day to come if he will hide things from me too.
I might do that sometimes. He loves his family in Philippnes too, I'm really doing my best not to let things to affect him. The culture has lot of impact on things too that's why I'm very very cautious in every step I take.
Living in the midst of Arab culture is not a piece of cake you know
Honestly in your position I would say "we've split, it happened when you were so ill, I didn't want to add to all the problems at the time and it was fine, he's been great about our son, we're all okay, please support me in this decision."
I will go with what you say...the hard part now is waiting for that right time. I guess it has to be on my next trip home
The longer I keep it, the harder it is
One of the things here on blog is I can be honest and tell everyone I'm divorced, easier when you're not looking at their eyes
It is not my place to tell what you should/shouldn't do.
But I know what I would do.
It happened 4.5 years ago...I guess they won't feel that bad when I finally tell them.
Plus another 2 years...so it would be 6.5 years ago
36 minutes ago
he's to young to understand CH.....here's something why don't you ask him in a roundabout way what he thinks you should do with this situation as it pertains to your family. His answer could give you insight to what he is really feeling deep inside..
sands I don't know if you have any children or not but they understand a lot more then we think.
Yes, they understand more than we think...my son did surprised me with most of the things he said
I wish I could do that...If I have to remarry, it won't be to an Arab...it would shock them if I present a husband from another race
I'm not that deluded yet
You know better
Clean here....no skeletons.
Technically, if you told somebody about your skeleton(s) in your closet...they are no longer skeletons in the closet.
That means, you have one less skeleton in your closet CH.
OK, I've come clean...now your turn
Why is it that we've only talked about mine here...am I the only one who has secrets?
They probably locked their closets and throw away the key...
I believe those who can't talk about it needs more help that I ever do. Talking about it had made me feel so much better...a very normal emotions
That spells trouble...you better lock your closet and throw away the key...
But if it haunts you day after day, you might have to let it breath some fresh air...slowly, cautiously...
I agree. If those secrets are eating you up from the inside, you should talk about them.
I have one small one, I never told anyone. I stole a pack of cigarettes one time.
If it's something like this
You better make sure each skeletal system has the correct 206 bones when you let it out.
and I agree ...let sleeping dogs lie
don't be a meanie...go pay it
You didn't but that will haunt you for the rest of your life...
It's because I care...more than you think!
What is in the closet stays in the closet...lol...rather keep some things to myself...not for public consumption...
Hope your weekend is good!!
Good to see you...
Yes, some skeletons should stay in the closet... Unless they're restless and wanted to have some fresh air
The past is called a past for a reason you will never be the you that is meant to be by holding onto it bury the poor skeletons and be a happy future you
Funny idea, I should party with them on Halloween
not living with someone...just seeing him every few months
no, don't have those kind of skeletons...I'm pretty open and honest...well except for the stupid divorce which I only keep from my family
Makes me wonder what kind of skeletons you stashed in there...