Whats the story

Ive been on here for a while with C.S. and know my own misfortune. There are gorgeous women on this site and some for years. If they are not having any luck what hope is there for poor mortals ( are you listening Itchy ). Apart from the obvious, scammers, liars, married men etc., how come people looking cant connect and find a really good partner. Does anyone know the missing link. frustrated
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Anyone who's been on here for years probably gave up after the first 45 minutes then stayed for the forums/blogs laugh


The men I've connected with on here live a million miles away, just penfriends basically .
Pretty much what Serene said.
Thanks Serene / Track
Surely they cant all have been a million miles away. Can i ask, did you ever even come close or meet anyone with potential. Cmon, give me hope, it cant just be resigned to a life on the blogs.
We get caught up with unreasonable expectations and old wounds.
The virtual single shop makes it harder to focus on other aspects of seeking a partner dunno
Seri. Yeh. Old hurts and wounds, but im at a stage in my life where i pay absolutely no attention to stuff that distracts me from being happy. Time is short. It just seems impossible to meet or find a woman on here. My days of going out on the pull are over, id look rediculous. Honestly, the ladies are on here but they dont really want to connect. I think.
Seri thanks for not being rude cos of no pic up
It's the blogs Ocean, total different story
Seri - relief so. Although i do enjoy a good auld head to head with levity. Going to bed after an enjoyable late night out, music n craic. Someone has the answer and me thinks its the ladies. Give us a clue an we will come get you.dancing
Malaysia is one of the countries that CS ban therefore not many can sign up on this very site and that leaves me very limited choice.
I can only second what namana said, it's hard to take anything seriously on here, hence the barriers for open conversations are very present.
there have been some successes here.
Freehand Freespeech - Are you joking. Success here ! Evolution ? Nah, you would grow wings before you would drink coffee with a lady herecheers
I do hope the women on this site is not thinking like that . what is the reason for joining a dating site then ? I met the guy at a public place and he wanted me to visit his home the next meeting . I did not accept , but many he wanted to show me his huge house , lol which he did by sending photos to me . but I see no harm in meeting for coffee or a drink maybe , how would we know ? .
Here is what I learned. Ladies want to be shown respect, be able to have fun, just be able to be comfortable with you. Every woman is her own person and not everyone will respond to you but if you can provide a atmosphere in which she is comfortable with you, your on your way.
I can't speak for all the ladies here, but if I am interested in somebody I have been chatting to, then yes I will meet them, and date them.

I don't waste the time of people I am not interested in though.
I don't go on dates to boost my ego , or for practice, or even to make the other feel better. If there's no interest, there's no date.
I'm no funlaugh
Thanks folksdrinking
Free, I know of a few couples from here.

One couple got together at a BBQ in my back garden the day after a meet I had organised.smitten
that's cool! Molly
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Separated. Own home. Living in exile. Semi retired. Time to meet someone special and enjoy life. I love travel. My passion is fishing and travel abroad to persue it. America is my next venue and will take many happy years to see the sights. I will gi [read more]

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