Do you feel your love one failed to understand you
I have seen people people who spent their life time with their partner but feel their partner failed understand who they really are.I mean it is sad, because they feel their friends could understand them better or they could simply talk better to a stranger about them self and felt that stranger understands them better.
It is like feeling all alone in a room full of people. . .
Then the loneliness strikes and everything seem cold.
How can this happen if the before marriage seems so perfect? How to deal with this dilema?
Should they just leave the relationship,or should they demmand their partner to understand better,or should they talk about it or should they simply forget about it?
Does understanding and other efforts mentioned in the book of romance could make any different on this?
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I am convinced you need to find a true and best friend that you have strong chemistry with. Avoid intimacy until the friendship is built solid with full transparency. Then move into the intimacy stage, you'll end up with a friend for life that understands you, and who's hot in the sack!! I can't help but think, this the perfect combination for a perfect bond that can last a life time.
maybe just time , life period is changing all things.
sometimes I think I would better to build a family who will have same interest and thinking.
Sometimes we get to involved with the romantic stages that we really don't look clearly if he/she is the right person for you.
A life time is a long time but a time that you spend really in a loving and understanding relationship is worth as long as it lasts.
Also it's easy for us to always blame the other person. Maybe we didnt' communicate our feelings very well.
It usually takes two to make and break a relationship.
Think about it. If you decide to change your trip to include some place you normally do not go and suddenly you are harmed, wouldn't you think it was a choice to go there that precipitated the whole incident?
So many times I feel very negative about something and if I go ahead with it and regret it...I look back and wonder why? Why did I go ahead with it? I knew it felt bad, yet I did it anyway. How can I blame someone else?
And then, I feel negative, do not go ahead with it and I hear later how things went real poorly and I am glad I chose differently. I give myself the credit for it...just as I gave myself the blame for ignoring my intuition before. I hope this helps.