losing hope :-(

I'll pay the shipping charges if you'll buy the crate.

you might to figure out the real problem here. Perhaps you are too choosy like me :)

Don't sweat the small stuff! Keep positive! always helps me

I am jealous that u are keeps positive

Its quite easy actually. I sing all the time, puts me in a feel good mood. Hence the feel good music

There are many reasons online dating is so hard, distance is the main one. The only real way to get ahead online is to take chances. You can email someone you find interesting, don't wait for the man to make the first move. Look at profiles and find some that are somewhat close to you and go for it. Don't necessarily lower your standards, but look beyond the pictures and don't be so shallow, as most women are today. There are many nice guys out there, but they come in all shapes and sizes, and are not all "Ken" dolls. Good luck to you and us all.

Sure distance is a main problem but I believe in my strong feeling

and hoping to find that good one for me .

just I believe strongly

Sure distance is a main problem but I believe in my strong feeling

and hoping to find that good one for me .

just I believe strongly

I can't imagine that there are no guys in Manila not wanting to even send you a flower or wherever they come from.
You are young, so don't lose hope.
Participate in the forums, go over the pictures, profiles, sometimes we ladies have to make the first move.
It's better to find a good partner, making a good choise than just go for the first that enchantes you. It takes time.
I have a couple of friends here that have made it and are very happy, surely you will be too.

Hey pesh..I haven't given up looking yet...but I do enjoy reading the forums and blogs...it keeps me busy while I wait...and when I get tired of waiting, I look some more.
Good luck in your search...and to everyone here as well.

Mr furry, nothing to add stupid comments here, if you dont like it, please the blog

thank you all for your comments, as mentioned above, i did joined the forums and other things here.i enjoyed it thats why it keep me here until now while i wait for someone special at the same time i emailed guys i like and let them know, but they always rejected me because of the distance.as for flowers i get i replied and said thank you to them for taking the time.I believe that my standards are not high just not found the right one yet.as for men who commented on my blog, its not only men who has been rejected we women too..i think its harder for us.anyway i will just stay here and wait for a bit longer.

my favourite book "Count of Monte Cristo" by Aleksander Duma,finishes with word "hope,hope and hope..". if hope dies,you too. never give up. me too sceptical about all this cybernetic thing,despite one of my daughters found mr.right online!!! and they happy now,of course she moved to his country,they married,have kid. you are so young to worry about result,just keep looking and live your life at the same time,everything on this planet will be YOURS!!! good luck!

sorry,did mistake,aleksandre duma said "WAIT AND HOPE",but doesn't make big differense.just...wait and just...hope...literally

better don't expect too much at online..

to Moonlove

Only a year or so and you're complaining already?

I've been on here for well over 2 years now, and haven't met a soul.

Regards!

- Michael

well no just keep looking god will help and im sorry i so far away fr u cause i know i would of treated u like a queen

Well to be honest the Philippines are too far away for me but why are you not seeking a nice single guy in your country???

I feel the same . I meet other people on other sites but I have to pay for the site and am not going to do that because . I am a little paranoid about some of those other sites .

I believe that I will find here just my feeling whisper me.

also before I was sad now I am trying keep my mood positive here

just I will keep my life positive, I still believe and hope.

Hope is the best thing in life

too many people make online dating their main dating tool; you should get out there and meet more and more people; online dating should only be something that you do along with dating,

Just keep positive and never lower your standards. Internet dating sites are just one small option and never depend on it or take it too personal. Only you know what your looking for wheather you find it here or somewhere else and as long as you keep your hope up you will probabaly find him and it may be when you least expect it and who knows where.

I think getting a mate is not the only important thing in life. CS can be a good place for making friends and interacting with them. Even it helps getting a mate. You can read the forums of success stroies and find how wide was the friendship of those succeeded in getting a good partner.

Cheers

if start judging people u cant love them.................dont judge them just love them/................

SMILEMORE: I don't think that by joining a paying site the online dating is going to change. It is still the same you are dating online guys/girls...actually, I think is worse because those guys want their moneys'worth and are not just looking for one(1) woman, but as many as they can get...remember...for their money's worth. I found that out the hard way...believe me.

Besides, being a free online dating site...it is a lot of fun reading everyone's forum and blogs...getting to know how everyone interacts with each other, and finding out everyone feelings and thoughts.

hope is the last thing to die

Where my soul mate is I do not know
My soul mate could be near
My soul mate could be far
Only time knows when we will meet
Only fait knows where we will meet
Only time can reveal to me, my soul mate to be
Only fait can bring us together and meet
I have faith in Time and fait
So I will wait patiently for time
And will let fait do her work.


Dont loose hope.....

I believe that Time and fait is what will bring two people together. no matter where we are no matter what our position and status in life is, no matter what obstacles lies ahead, I believe Time and fait will prevail and bring two people together.



Regards JayJay

Here's a novel idea- instead of focusing on what you are looking to receive from others on here, TRY GIVING...
For the next week comment/say something positive to a least 100 members, that's less than 25 a day, and watch your inbox fill up... Amazing how things work???
MOTTO- AS LONG AS THERE'S A HEART BEAT THERE'S A FIGHT!
As

i know it is very hard and difficult for you, as it is for me, my standards are high, as i would not want a woman who would drag me down a wrong path, i also would like to meet a good woman but a Born again christian type never before married or widowed.
all i can say to you is do not ever give up in life, because when you give up, you give up a lot more then you might think.
sometimes a person has to take a step back and evaluate there situation a little more closely, more then that you should take the time to get close to JESUS who can then reveal to you those hard things in life your confused about. smiles!!!!!!!! o.k.
bye for now.
timothy

thank you all for your encouraging comments..i really appreciate it.i know i just have to keep my faith.but sometimes you get to feel that low point of being single especially when holidays comes and when you attend a wedding, yes i am attending a wedding.not to mention when you hear someone marry a girl because she got pregnant..whats with that?why is it easy for them to decide to marry because of that and when it comes to you they leave and never return.i try to be positive and hopeful..but sometimes it is tested when you encounter circumstances that you hate knowing.i will be over this period soon..maybe after valentines day..oh no another holiday..:-(