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Like I told you on my previous blog that i am here just for fun. Yess.... Just want to have fun before I enter a real world.

At first, when my friend talked about Connecting singles I thought this site just same like other dating site, only crowded by fake persons... means they put fake data and fake photo. honest I did it.

Join the blog is not an intentional .. here I realize that not all members are fake. We are able to know people from their writing, their thoughts. Before I post my comments or my blog, I followed some blogs to get my interest...and yes blog has grabbed my attention. My attention to someone... he looks gorgeous to me.

I talked with my new blogger friend to ask about him.. she gives information abt him, I feel good to know him better even though via chains messages.

Hey you... I feel trapped by my own thoughts. but why should I deny that I liked you ... wish I could have fun with you.... wherever you are... and hope you read this blog.

Dear wonderful People where ever you are in the world Happy New Year and all the Best For 2015 I am start saving money for Italy Trip in September xoxo Dave

So, to follow the movement of reviewing for a year has been passed.

I have my own as following:

1. Job and Career: busy but interesting. I have learned a lot of new things, hit the expectation from boss that make our products international. After 2 years working hard, now we are success to sell our products not only in France, but also Australia, Japan, Newzeland, Germany, Canada and it soon is going to be in US. Everything was great! Boss approved for increasing my income 33% up. So I'm gonna have more saving in 2015.

2. Family: it's a worse year for family relationship. My father got heart attacked to know Crocodile and I broke up. He had to be in hospital for a week because of this. I feel guilty. I almost agreed to be married by someone who I do not love, on the day have to make my decision, I thought about my parents, I thought about Crocodile, I thought about my life, I walked on the street... I fell off... someone brought me to hospital... I woke up... I decided to live single... relationship between me and my parents getting worse... I hope in 2015 I can prove clearly for my parents that I am still able to be happy no matter being married or living single. I'm sure I can do that. I wish my parents do not have to worry so much for me... With my sister, she and I are still always "conflict" as ever... her attitude made me stress and for that I may have to think about moving out...

3. Love: it's a worse year too! There is a conflict in me. I don't think I really like to be single, however, I'm very scared of love... It's really hurt and painful... I wish 2015 my love life is getting better...

So, just a summarize of 3 main things in life... I wish myself a better 2015 for family and love... I wish I will able to find a right apartment where I can effort to buy it for moving out of my current house.

Photo by me last night fireworks in my city.


I wish everyone a very Happy New Year!

Happy-Healthy and more Success!

So, I'm here for counting down to New Year!

Feeling lonely but it's ok... Still good!

Wishing a Happy New Year to everyone!

Still laughing, I set up a quiz the other day just out of curiosity (just call me the Elephant's Child) and a CS friend took it, got 86% and sent me a message asking where he had gone wrong. So I took it myself, my own quiz, and also only got 86%.

Anyone know a good shrink?

The year is almost over. Sometimes if is also the time when we look back and account what we have done. Taking into consideration all those who affected us and those we affected as well.

I'm sure with all the experiences we've had there's a lot to be thankful of. And or wish wouldn't have happened. This then shape our desire to change or ultimately guide us to set our so called NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTION.

Better yet, are there things you'd specifically wish would happen in your life in the year ahead?

Can you share some?

Thanks all for your reads and comments.

May we all have a joyful and peaceful journey in our lives.

If family is a place where we have to be fully responsibility with family members no matter how they care for your feeling.

For examples:
1. HAVE TO be a good girl (good scores at school, no bar, no pub, no club, no drugs)
2. HAVE TO be graduated from a famous University (no matter you like that University or not)
3. HAVE TO be married by someone (no matter you love him or not).
4. HAVE TO to have kids after being married.
5. HAVE TO live with husband until end of life no matter what's happening...

If those are considered as a family, then, I have a BIG family where I was able to afford only number 1 & number 2 in that responsibility list...

From the book, I always thought family is where I can share not only happiness, but also sadness in my life, where I can always feel comfortable to come back when I'm down... but in fact, I never ever had such a family! Sad but truth, I only can share with my family my happiness...

Oh, wait... I used to have a "family" where I felt so comfortable to be with, where I can feel being loved unconditionally, where I feel endlessly love... But, that "family" left me for some reasons.

Now, I don't know if I do have a family or do not? Christmas passed, New Year is going to come... where is my family?? Where I can come back and say: "Please hug me! Please give me more energy for moving on in this hard world!"

Photos of today on the way to work...

Missing a family...

Today at office, the elevator didn't work thus I have to use walking-stairs. For that, I found a mirror at the first floor.

Do you think it looks good?



I mean myself looks good in the mirror :) (not care about how the mirror looks) :)

Just took some medicines, need to sleep early tonight...

Christmas without it somewhere over the front door frame, or around the tree, or someone slipping up behind you with it proves to be a lot of fun, and without it during a Christmas gathering there is no fun in getting an unexpected kiss. Found plenty of mistletoe images, but had problems posting them, so I'll be creative for the fun of it all.

bam! mistletoekiss on your forehead Angel-face!

History-Mistletoe was held in great reverence by the Druids. They went forth clad in white robes to search for the sacred plant, and when it was discovered, one of the Druids ascended the tree and gathered it with great ceremony, separating it from the Oak with a golden knife. The Mistletoe was always cut at a particular age of the moon, at the beginning of the year, and it was only sought for when the Druids declared they had visions directing them to seek it. When a great length of time elapsed without this happening, or if the Mistletoe chanced to fall to the ground, it was considered as an omen that some misfortune would befall the nation. The Druids held that the Mistletoe protected its possessor from all evil, and that the oaks on which it was seen growing were to be respected because of the wonderful cures which the priests were able to effect with it. They sent round their attendant youth with branches of the Mistletoe to announce the entrance of the new year. It is probable that the custom of including it in the decoration of our homes at Christmas, giving it a special place of honour, is a survival of this old custom.
oooooowait!..here comes a big juicy mistletoekiss for you Miclee
The curious basket of garland with which 'Jack-in-the-Green' is even now occasionally invested on May-day is said to be a relic of a similar garb assumed by the Druids for the ceremony of the Mistletoe. When they had found it they danced round the oak to the tune of 'Hey derry down, down, down derry!' which literally signified, 'In a circle move we round the oak. ' Some oakwoods in Herefordshire are still called 'the derry'; and the following line from Ovid refers to the Druids' songs beneath the oak:
'---Ad viscum Druidce cantare solebant---.'
Shakespeare calls it 'the baleful Mistletoe,' an allusion to the Scandinavian legend that Balder, the god of Peace, was slain with an arrow made of Mistletoe. He was restored to life at the request of the other gods and goddesses, and Mistletoe was afterwards given into the keeping of the goddess of Love, and it was ordained that everyone who passed under it should receive a kiss, to show that the branch had become an emblem of love, and not of hate. http://www.botanical.com/botanical/mgmh/m/mistle40.html
bettter watch out Robert, here comes the mistletoe

A Kiss Beneath the Mistletoe
In the forest, mistletoe is a bit of a scourge, a parasitic plant that latches on to trees and feeds off of them. But at Christmas, it becomes a symbol of romance. So where did the tradition of kissing beneath the mistletoe come from? The plant’s association with romance dates back to ancient Norse mythology. By the 18th century, stealing a kiss beneath the mistletoe became a common practice among British servants and the tradition spread from there. According to the tradition, it’s bad luck to refuse a kiss beneath the mistletoe. After the kiss, the couple is to pluck one of the berries from the plant. Once all the berries are gone, the bough no longer has the power to command kisses. So if you hang a bough of mistletoe this year, make sure it has plenty of berries on it. http://www.foxnews.com/leisure/2014/12/23/why-kiss-under-mistletoe-stories-behind-christmas-traditions/

Jim, you're standing under the mistletoe

mistletoe kisses to everyone...

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My poems are not really about Lifestyles but that was the nearest option...more personal about everyday life of people and things that I come across.

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