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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder so it's said and chemistry is important when you meet.

But exactly what qualities are you looking for in your search for the one?

She wanted an open relationship. I agreed, picked up her purse and handed it to her. Opening the front door, I pointed her the way out!

It's not often I see a profile on CS with someone smoking/lighting up a joint. Today, there was an attractive woman with a clear shot of her lighting up!

A few years ago on POF there was a high percentage of members exhibiting their drug addiction. Usually, it was young guys. My opinion was "It's an advertisement of their lifestyle to attract women who share the same lifestyle." kinda like trouble breeds trouble.

They had a section where the members could review photos of other members and help management (sorry for lack of a better term) 'weed out' photos that weren't proper... or those photos that didn't comply with their rules.

It was a huge site that had thousands of members online at any point in time. That presented a problem for management as they didn't didn't have the ability to go through every photo, so they asked members to volunteer and notify them of photos that needed to be adjusted or removed.

Some of the choices were blurred or faceless photos, single photos of kids, photos of violent activity, weapons, drugs or drug paraphernalia. Probably the biggest reason to get your profile closed was nudity. CS doesn't attract the masses and appears to have fewer problems with non-compliant photos.

I wouldn't mind seeing a 'hot or not' section where members can anonymously vote on photos they like or like to see removed.

"...I used tell her I love her again and again. Though I knew in the deep of my heart that she doesn't love me..."...shows the importance of being true to you and all around you.
At no time and under no circumstances should anyone ever say "I love you" without feeling that very moment that magic flow of love deep inside the heart. At all times should you say exactly and directly what you really wish, feel, need or plan to do. Truthfulness is an absolute need for success in life, in love life, and in all eternal aspects of life.

To feel guilty is of no benefit to you or her - it simply shows and proves to you that you made substantial mistakes by pretending to love someone without really feeling that magic true love for that one.

Leave your wrong partner at any cost of tears!
Leave her no matter what she says!
The ego game is a betrayal of your own true needs as well as the betrayal of the true needs of the wrong partner you are together.
ALL need love...
All need true love...
All need to be ready, prepared, and pure in the heart to give and to accept all love.

Hence all need to grow and to mature - a wrong partner may make aware of what is missing - and the more, the longer you miss something the greater the readiness to do all needed to be ready for the right one from the very beginning.

After all the lies or pretending to love, you hopefully feel how it is inside you and hope you realize the importance of true love, of truthfulness toward self and your partner from the very first second.

Learn from your mistakes for your future.
Be ready to be fully true from the very beginning in any future encounter with a potential partner.

A strong one loves no matter what happens, no matter what happened in the past and no matter what the future brings. Such true love between two strong lovers only can last eternally from heaven to hell and back to heaven - in good days and in challenging dark days as well.

Unconditional love never cries, unconditional love is - from the beginning and without limits !! All your wrong partner shows so far is ego game and nothing more.

When you part - then part in friendship but for good without seeing her for a long time. Distance helps to heal and to get clear in mind and heart. After many months or years, both are ready to start a new love relationship with the right one of the waiting period has been used to understand all made mistakes of all previous relationships and use those mistakes to grow stronger and clearer in the heart for a future new relationship. GOOD LUCK EVERYBODY. And i am waiting for the real one to come to my life and take me with her and sail away

Recently invited other friends to join this site, he told me most ladies here are ghost profiles. Well, am I the only one not ghost here?! Regardless I like the guy or not, I will at least let them know they are not my types. I do not think "ghost response is the best action. Last night I saw a proposal on YouTube how they met via Instagram. Something about the post the lady sent him but he did not reply till three months later. I just recently replied a post response from a guy said he from Chicago, I did not response like one year ago. He was such a jerk! Now we are not just fighting for those scammers online also the jerks like that too. In government business we used FAR to contract and in dating world that seems no longer any rules applied. Just set up a blind date for a friend and she is going for her 3rd date with the guy now! She admitted during our last week tea party that she is ready to call him her man. I just hope people here if truly looking for someone, at least you should response. You should remove your profile if you have found someone. Even here is singles online community, we still want people can at least have heart to say yes or no. Is it?!

I just saw old photos of mine, screenshots of some mails that I got on here years ago. Then, I realized how different this place is from it was before.

Before I got more prospects here. But now, there are more scammers than prospects. This site was a social place for me to get to know other people from around the world. Now, sorry to say, this place serves as a secret venting place for me.

Where were my friends here? I miss you guys.

i dont mean anyone in
particular .... just think

if only men will .. stop...
from all Lust .. the whole. world
will change into heaven..
women will have to work
hard for a good living...
i mean atleast the ones... who
are..
not doing now...
lot of business which
live on womens (need to be closed)
attractions

Where to begin, in 2014 I left CS ,and I got married...I WAS happily married, got a house, decent area, nothing fancy blaablaablaa...She was remarkable, she didn't want NO KIDS, and if that didn't do it for me,nothing would...Several years we were married, than my brother had his first child "Kira" beautiful little girl, and one day he ask me if I could watch her, I said no problem, my wife came home ,smelled the baby head, and for 2 YEAR STRAIGHT, she wanted a baby. I don't want a child, nor a kids, nor do I want to be in a relationship with anyone who has kid/kids THATS MY TURN-OFF. Any way,we divorce, she remarried now with child ,I know ,because her parents still live across from my brother house, and we managed to keep the peace etc... I on the other hand ,have been visiting AMP/spas every other weekend (Friday & Saturday) or escort services. Not into American women, reason being, because the majority of them can't cook anymore, and just want to eat out. I can BBQ,and bake, hell I've even followed recipes from YT to make great Italian,and Mexican food etc... so if you an Asian hotty from "sorry no India women, it's called deodorant ladies" or those kind of Asian, but like Indonesia, Vietnam, Chinese, Korean Philippines etc HURRY UP AND HIT ME UP ASIAN HOTTNESS!!!!!!

Nearly all the members who are active in blogs and forums have strong personalities. Some stronger than others... obviously. When a strong personality does or says something opposite to what CS wants to reflect on their site, a comment or blog gets deleted. Often as a warning and a 'time-out' should they consider the offense become more serious.

I cannot remember the number of years I've been here and how many members were banned, but it's more than a handful. Banning I believe was mostly (but not always) for political reasons. Some return with a new profile and in a short time get banned again. I think it's not for the way they behave as a 'new' member, but rather for the sins and havoc created in their previous profile.

Compared to other sites, moderation at CS is very light. I'm sure there are more important things for them to attend to aside from our little space on the internet. But when they do visit you may see several things happen in one swipe.

A few years ago their position was stated and requests from CS staff were stated as to what blogs they want to see less of. That's long gone and it's business as usual.

Last year a handful of blogs disappeared and some of the members who authored them disappeared too. While some of the blogs of the 'dearly departed' remain, most of them are unlocked. Only this week I see some long lasting blogs have been locked.

My opinion/question is shouldn't a blog of a banned member be locked or deleted too?


Oh, the difference one member can make...

There are lots of profiles where the women are saying "I'm looking for a soulmate."
That should be redefined.
A soulmate is specific... the one in a million person who is right for you.
It's not like you are shopping for blue leather boots that matches your blue leather purse.

A soulmate is a person who's thoughts, ideas, moral fiber matches yours. Someone that after death (if you strongly believe) your souls will continue on together.

That said, looking for a soulmate would be better described as looking for my soulmate.

Or in the case of shopping for boots, you would be looking for a solemate.