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Love...what is it?
In the past, I have written a blog or even possibly blogs about love and what is it. As I am listening to past radio episodes, a prominent Father says that love is something that can run out of a person. He essentially, from my understanding says, that once you love one person, you run out of love after that and it is difficult to give out love again....if not impossible.
In the past, I believe that many, including myself with the original post and comments and remarks maybe touched on love and its characteristics....but maybe not love itself.
This Father describes as a sort of energy....a real thing. He also refers to God as love.
Well...
we have a lot of unrest today
along with a lot of divorce.
Just some speculation.
In the past, I believe that many, including myself with the original post and comments and remarks maybe touched on love and its characteristics....but maybe not love itself.
This Father describes as a sort of energy....a real thing. He also refers to God as love.Well...
we have a lot of unrest today
along with a lot of divorce.
Just some speculation.
Batman can do whatever he wants(apology to batgirl)
Hello batgirl(you know who you are it’s just that the site doesn’t wish us to reference people...oh wait...that was MD...anyway...),
What I said to you in the past on here was not necessary. This site is minuscule compared to my long running friendship with Batman in real life. I’m sorry for my outburst and I hope you’ll forgive me. I’m not the jealous type. It’ll never happen again.
Batman took me on as his companion long ago and I need to realize that. I’m not going anywhere.
Signing off...
What I said to you in the past on here was not necessary. This site is minuscule compared to my long running friendship with Batman in real life. I’m sorry for my outburst and I hope you’ll forgive me. I’m not the jealous type. It’ll never happen again.
Batman took me on as his companion long ago and I need to realize that. I’m not going anywhere.
Signing off...
Avoid Sinking Ships.
A sinking ship will pull everyone and everything down with it.
Avoid going down with :it:
Keep your distance.
Avoid going down with :it:
Keep your distance.
In last desperate attempt Trump FINALLY found something that is truly on Joe Biden
Today in The New Yorker;
I can sort of understand Trump's shock, that a man could stay loyal to the woman he marries.
To Trump something is very wrong with that.
In response to:
Satire from The Borowitz Report
Desperate Trump Alleges Ties Between Joe Biden and Jill Biden
By Andy Borowitz
October 23, 2020
WASHINGTON (The Borowitz Report)—In an attempt to gin up an “October surprise,” an increasingly desperate Donald J. Trump demanded an investigation into alleged links between Joe Biden and Jill Biden.
“People are saying that he is very close to her,” Trump told Sean Hannity, of Fox News. “There’s something going on.”
Trump said that there are “tens of thousands of e-mails” between Joe Biden and Jill Biden, a state of affairs that he called “disgraceful.”
“We need to move quite strongly on the e-mails, and also on the bank records,” Trump said, arguing that money has “flowed freely” between the two Bidens for decades.
In his most serious accusation, Trump warned that a President Joe Biden would be “under the influence” of Dr. Jill Biden because of their extensive ties.
“Joe Biden has been listening to a doctor for forty-three years,” he alleged.
Andy Borowitz is a Times best-selling author and a comedian
who has written for The New Yorker since 1998.
He writes The Borowitz Report, a satirical column on the news.
Satire from The Borowitz Report
Desperate Trump Alleges Ties Between Joe Biden and Jill Biden
By Andy Borowitz
October 23, 2020
WASHINGTON (The Borowitz Report)—In an attempt to gin up an “October surprise,” an increasingly desperate Donald J. Trump demanded an investigation into alleged links between Joe Biden and Jill Biden.
“People are saying that he is very close to her,” Trump told Sean Hannity, of Fox News. “There’s something going on.”
Trump said that there are “tens of thousands of e-mails” between Joe Biden and Jill Biden, a state of affairs that he called “disgraceful.”
“We need to move quite strongly on the e-mails, and also on the bank records,” Trump said, arguing that money has “flowed freely” between the two Bidens for decades.
In his most serious accusation, Trump warned that a President Joe Biden would be “under the influence” of Dr. Jill Biden because of their extensive ties.
“Joe Biden has been listening to a doctor for forty-three years,” he alleged.
Andy Borowitz is a Times best-selling author and a comedian
who has written for The New Yorker since 1998.
He writes The Borowitz Report, a satirical column on the news.
I can sort of understand Trump's shock, that a man could stay loyal to the woman he marries.
To Trump something is very wrong with that.
Seriously.....How many of you who have been on CS for years have actually met and married someone?
I have been on and off CS for at least almost the last four years and.........? Reminds me of the Stones' song"Can't get no satisfaction"! I am not necessarily knocking CS but......... is this a dating site or...more a "social atmosphere" for all of the mateless wannabees to meet,mingle and commiserate with each other? As usual.... feel free to post any opinion you want to my blog....HOWEVER, I WILL NOT TOLERATE PERSONAL ATTACKS,INSULTS OR COARSE LANGUAGE! DELETED IMMEDIATELY!
Romance Is Dead
Romance is dead. It died when a so-called enlightened society decided that there is no difference between men and women and any suggestion to the contrary is sexist. Goodbye romance. R.I.P.
6 styles of love. People can be a blend
In response to:
There Are Six Styles of Love. Which One Best Describes You?
Keep in mind, you may still possess some elements of the others.
The Conversation
Rachel Grieve
Love is a complex and powerful force, one that plays out in a number of emotional, cognitive and social ways.
When we love a person, we feel emotional arousal in their presence. We will also have a set of thoughts (or cognitions) about that person, and our previous experiences can shape our ideas about what we expect in our relationships. For example, if you believe in love at first sight, then you are more likely to experience it.
But we use love in many different contexts. You might say that you love your partner, or your family, or your best friend, your job or even your car. Clearly, you’re using the term in different ways that highlight the various dimensions of love.
The ancient Greeks described several different types of love. Following the Greeks, the sociologist and activist John Alan Lee suggested that there are six broad styles of love.
It is good to keep in mind that although these love styles can be thought of as “types”, we are not necessarily locked into only one. We might have a predominant love style, but we will also have some elements of the other styles.
Similarly, our love style might change over time based on our experiences and interactions with our partners.
Eros
This style is typically experienced as a romantic, fairytale-type love. Physical beauty is important to this love style. Attraction is intense and immediate (“head over heels”), and the Eros lover feels an urgent drive to deepen the relationship emotionally and physically.
Because these individuals love the feeling of being in love, they tend to be serial monogamists, staying in a relationship as long as it feels fresh and compelling, then moving on so they can experience those same feelings again with someone new.
Storge
Storgic types tend to be stable and committed in their relationships. They value companionship, psychological closeness and trust. For these individuals, love relationships can sometimes grow out of friendships, so that love sneaks up on the pair. This love style is enduring, and these individuals are in it for the long haul.
Ludus
People with a ludic style view love as a game that they are playing to win. Often this can be a multiplayer game! Ludic individuals are comfortable with deception and manipulation in their relationships. They tend to be low on commitment and are often emotionally distant.
Because ludic individuals are more focused on the short term, they tend to place greater importance on the physical characteristics of their mate than do the other love styles. They are also more likely to engage in s*xual hookups.
Pragma
Practicality rules for this type. Logic is used to determine compatibility and future prospects. This doesn’t mean that these individuals use an emotionless, Spock-like approach to their relationships, rather they a place a high importance on whether a potential mate will be suited to meeting their needs.
These needs might be social or financial. Pragmatists might wonder if their prospective partner would be accepted by family and friends, or whether they’re good with money. The might also evaluate their emotional assets; for example, does a would-be partner have the skills to be calm in times of stress? ...
There Are Six Styles of Love. Which One Best Describes You?
Keep in mind, you may still possess some elements of the others.
The Conversation
Rachel Grieve
Love is a complex and powerful force, one that plays out in a number of emotional, cognitive and social ways.
When we love a person, we feel emotional arousal in their presence. We will also have a set of thoughts (or cognitions) about that person, and our previous experiences can shape our ideas about what we expect in our relationships. For example, if you believe in love at first sight, then you are more likely to experience it.
But we use love in many different contexts. You might say that you love your partner, or your family, or your best friend, your job or even your car. Clearly, you’re using the term in different ways that highlight the various dimensions of love.
The ancient Greeks described several different types of love. Following the Greeks, the sociologist and activist John Alan Lee suggested that there are six broad styles of love.
It is good to keep in mind that although these love styles can be thought of as “types”, we are not necessarily locked into only one. We might have a predominant love style, but we will also have some elements of the other styles.
Similarly, our love style might change over time based on our experiences and interactions with our partners.
Eros
This style is typically experienced as a romantic, fairytale-type love. Physical beauty is important to this love style. Attraction is intense and immediate (“head over heels”), and the Eros lover feels an urgent drive to deepen the relationship emotionally and physically.
Because these individuals love the feeling of being in love, they tend to be serial monogamists, staying in a relationship as long as it feels fresh and compelling, then moving on so they can experience those same feelings again with someone new.
Storge
Storgic types tend to be stable and committed in their relationships. They value companionship, psychological closeness and trust. For these individuals, love relationships can sometimes grow out of friendships, so that love sneaks up on the pair. This love style is enduring, and these individuals are in it for the long haul.
Ludus
People with a ludic style view love as a game that they are playing to win. Often this can be a multiplayer game! Ludic individuals are comfortable with deception and manipulation in their relationships. They tend to be low on commitment and are often emotionally distant.
Because ludic individuals are more focused on the short term, they tend to place greater importance on the physical characteristics of their mate than do the other love styles. They are also more likely to engage in s*xual hookups.
Pragma
Practicality rules for this type. Logic is used to determine compatibility and future prospects. This doesn’t mean that these individuals use an emotionless, Spock-like approach to their relationships, rather they a place a high importance on whether a potential mate will be suited to meeting their needs.
These needs might be social or financial. Pragmatists might wonder if their prospective partner would be accepted by family and friends, or whether they’re good with money. The might also evaluate their emotional assets; for example, does a would-be partner have the skills to be calm in times of stress? ...
(continued in my first comment below)
Do I Love My Giant Really?
"Am I really in love with him?"
Not just one time did I ask myself such question.
To be honest, I don’t know. I haven’t met him in person yet. I only know that he has always been in my mind since I knew him better. The much better I know him the more he occupies this little brain of mine.
Every time I went to grocery stores, my feet were just taking me to the tea counter/shelf. I wondered which tea he would pick if he was here. Like me he doesn’t really drink coffee, but different from me he does love drinking tea, especially iced tea. I don’t. I prefer to drink mineral water or juice. Still I went and checked the tea available at the stores, without buying any. It’s kinda like a reflex move.
Every time I saw stuffs needed to make donut, I asked myself. “Hey Kal, when will you start practicing making donuts?” Oohh he loves donuts.
Every time I passed the counter of Macaroni, I smiled. I remembered when he told me about the Baked Macaroni n Tuna he got. And I remembered telling him why I don’t really like Macaroni. Hmm.. everything seems to remind me of him, even the eggplants I saw at the stores.
And it’s not just at the grocery stores. I kept thinking of him wherever I go.
Do you think is that a sign that I am in love with him?
“What do you want from him, Kal?”
I asked myself another question.
Again, to be honest, I don’t know. I don’t really know.
I know he has more money than I do (and that’s because of the stupid currency of Indonesian Rupiah). But do I want anything he can buy for me? I don’t think so. I already have everything I want and need. I told him that the only thing I don’t have is a winter coat as we don’t have Winter in Indonesia. Why do I have to have any when I don’t need it..
"So what do you want, Kal?"
Hmm.. I want to take him for Culinary tourism when he is here. I want to take him to places where he can get lost in the beauty of Indonesia, my City in particular. I want him to be happy whenever he is with me. I want him to relax and smile and forget all his long and hard and tiring day at work. I want him to get to know me more by knowing my family and friends . I want to make him happier.. I want to hold his hand, hug him, kiss him and make love to him..
And I was soo verry happy when he thanked me for making me his star.
If all those things are not any sign of how I am in love with that left-handed gentleman of mine, please tell me what else?
Not just one time did I ask myself such question.
To be honest, I don’t know. I haven’t met him in person yet. I only know that he has always been in my mind since I knew him better. The much better I know him the more he occupies this little brain of mine.
Every time I went to grocery stores, my feet were just taking me to the tea counter/shelf. I wondered which tea he would pick if he was here. Like me he doesn’t really drink coffee, but different from me he does love drinking tea, especially iced tea. I don’t. I prefer to drink mineral water or juice. Still I went and checked the tea available at the stores, without buying any. It’s kinda like a reflex move.
Every time I saw stuffs needed to make donut, I asked myself. “Hey Kal, when will you start practicing making donuts?” Oohh he loves donuts.
Every time I passed the counter of Macaroni, I smiled. I remembered when he told me about the Baked Macaroni n Tuna he got. And I remembered telling him why I don’t really like Macaroni. Hmm.. everything seems to remind me of him, even the eggplants I saw at the stores.
And it’s not just at the grocery stores. I kept thinking of him wherever I go.
Do you think is that a sign that I am in love with him?
“What do you want from him, Kal?”
I asked myself another question.
Again, to be honest, I don’t know. I don’t really know.
I know he has more money than I do (and that’s because of the stupid currency of Indonesian Rupiah). But do I want anything he can buy for me? I don’t think so. I already have everything I want and need. I told him that the only thing I don’t have is a winter coat as we don’t have Winter in Indonesia. Why do I have to have any when I don’t need it..
"So what do you want, Kal?"
Hmm.. I want to take him for Culinary tourism when he is here. I want to take him to places where he can get lost in the beauty of Indonesia, my City in particular. I want him to be happy whenever he is with me. I want him to relax and smile and forget all his long and hard and tiring day at work. I want him to get to know me more by knowing my family and friends . I want to make him happier.. I want to hold his hand, hug him, kiss him and make love to him..
And I was soo verry happy when he thanked me for making me his star.
If all those things are not any sign of how I am in love with that left-handed gentleman of mine, please tell me what else?
I lost my heart to a Galway Girl........
.... and her hair was blonde and her eyes were blue....
..... 
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Would you consider dating a tootist
You know, someone who farts. 
I mean we all fart, right ? But some of us go outside or wait until we are alone first.
But, how about someone who not only doesn't wait to be alone, but somehow reveres their farting, as something sacred, almost a religious experience.
They outright pray......that it was a dry one.
Yes, a tootist not only smelt it and dealt it, but considers the experience a moving experience.
Just move them away from me.
If you have any comments on this situation, let 'em rip !
I mean we all fart, right ? But some of us go outside or wait until we are alone first.
But, how about someone who not only doesn't wait to be alone, but somehow reveres their farting, as something sacred, almost a religious experience.
They outright pray......that it was a dry one.
Yes, a tootist not only smelt it and dealt it, but considers the experience a moving experience.
Just move them away from me.
If you have any comments on this situation, let 'em rip !
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