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Does your boyfriend's hair look a little like artificial weasel fur? Hmmm you might want to investigate further. He might be using a spray on hair product.

I'm always finding myself stuck in these situations where You know with every being of yourself that the One you're with is bringing you down! I care to deeply to hurt him!I Love to strongly to just walk away! I know I am good for him! He is a better man because of Me! I have given my all to him However, He gives NOTHING back! Everything is so One-Sided with him he talks in circles and drives me crazy!! He can be so mean at times that I actually feel Hate for him! But then, he always manages to sucker me back in! He can make feel like he loves me and he can make me so happy at times that the whole rest of the world just disappears!!! He's everything I want and Love!!! And... He's NOT!!! How can someone be so wonderful and so ugly!! How can someone Love another so much and turn around and be the most hateful and ugly person!!! How can one man make me so happy and so miserable at the same time?? I know he'll NEVER change!! He'll NEVER SEE or know what he does to me!! I swear He builds me up just to tear me down!!
I'm torn, twisted, shattered and most of all Hopeless!! Hope is everything! Without Hope, there's Nothing!!

I'm blogging this because I have no one to confide in! No one to help me make the choice! Is there even a right choice? I don't want or need perfection!! ALL I Want, ALL I NEED is to Matter!! I KNOW my worth! I Know I'm unique!! I'm NOT perfect! But I CARE!!! I LOVE!!! I BELIEVE in treating others the way You want to be treated!!! I want to be treated right!! I don't deserve the crap I take!! And I don't know what to do with it! I do know! However, I battle myself over it..................

I know Him!!! And I don't! I'll defend him and protect him because I believe in him!! Maybe I'm waisting my time, maybe time doesn't matter!
Maybe.... I'm just hopeless!!! Maybe this is my destiny! maybe I'll just be DONE!! I wish I would! I'm so tired of it all!!!

So, I come to this site and I check the Invoice. Sometimes there is a message, sometimes there isn't. I also check the blogs, seeing if any catch my interest (a few do, but please keep writing). And then I start on the "Meet Me" course, adjusting my search for any woman between 24 years of age and 34 years of age (I am 34). First, I start with my home state. When no results show up, I go for the option of all states and, sometimes, even different nations. I do find quite the unique individuals, women of different backgrounds from entrepreneurship to working in high-paying fields like business, law, and medical fields. There's even a few former military women on the site.

I am asked if I want to meet the woman, which I respond with a "Yes" or a "Maybe"; I only say "No" if the woman's status is married or separated (divorced makes me more hesitant, so I usually skip those individuals). I even give a few women a "Like" every now and then.

Now, I know I am not the only one who does this; it is a public site after all, and the options and preferences are available for all. My question is this: would anyone like to actually meet up?

Yes.. yess.. yessssss...

what do non-smokers do after making love?

I'm seeing some 'lights are on, but no one is home' dating site Dé·jà vu. I believe this place is running on autopilot right now. It looks familiar to the scenario of other (now defunct) sites where absent management became apparent.
Hopefully, I'm wrong.
My indicator is the amount of fraudulent profiles stacking up for the last 3 months. In two days I counted more than 20 new profiles with different photos of the same woman and her opening line is "I am a treasure girl" That is about half of the new membership so far this week.
While most of the bogus profiles send out messages and never return. Reporting them used to get their profiles deleted. The bad part (for the company) is it affected the numbers of new membership. Now, it appears more have joined the site, because the bogus ones are still here. Something that looks good if the place is up for sale. Lots of new profiles (real or fake) means more clicks and revenue from the advertisers.

I'm only basing my opinion on profiles of the women. That's all I check. My guess it could be the same for men's profiles. So as a whole, when someone says "This place is crawling with scammers" that statement has become true.

Whoever can give me P500,000, I will marry him right away.?

5. Have Fun With It

If you think you are in a relationship with a player, sometimes the best thing you can do is just have fun with it. Think of it as a friends-with-benefits type of situation, and let yourself enjoy that whirlwind of lust and connection with each other.

When you make a game out of their game, you’ll find that you’re less likely to be hurt. It’s also about lowering your expectations about this partner without lowering your standards about love.

6. Keep Your Boundaries Clear

When you’re interested in a player, it’s best to keep your boundaries clear. Of course, they may completely ignore those boundaries – but it’s still important to keep them clear for yourself.

As you become closer, you may be willing to be a bit more lenient towards them – and that is exactly what they want. Breaking your boundaries means giving up an idea for a relationship you deserve. Don’t let your date interest ruin it, even if your relationship goes so well that you’re ready to invent pet names for each other.

Related reading: Boundaries in Relationships – Keeping Them Healthy

7. Don’t Feel Compelled to Seek Revenge

Even if a player hurts, you it isn’t necessarily a personal vice against you as an individual. Players often see themselves as the main characters in a dating game. So when they make friends with people or enter romantic relationships, they see it as a successful quest and not for the pain it actively causes.

When they hurt you, you may be compelled to seek revenge, perhaps by sleeping with their friends or wrecking their stuff. If you’re a woman, don’t do that. Ultimately, this is going to cause you more pain than what it’s worth. And while you are perfectly within your rights to feel hurt, it is best not to act in such a way.

8. Be Ready to Move On

“Good people give Good Memories, Bad people give Good Experiences, Don’t Judge, Learn your lessons and Move on”

Kunal Tandel, author

Players often have a multitude of people they are romancing, along with multiple backup plans for dates. They may break up with you in person. However, they may also end the relationship by ghosting you and never establishing a connection again. You may get so used to the feeling of being on the back burner that when they ghost you, it can take months before you finally realize you’ve been dumped.

These things happen so often that it’s best to set yourself up with a mental timeline and be ready to move on. We find that two weeks to a month of being ghosted is a good amount of time to determine if it is time to move on or not. When you move on, don’t allow them to pull you back in; they had their chance with you, and you should not allow yourself to be placed on the back burner any longer.

Dealing with a player can be hard, especially when you find yourself falling in love with them. However, it is important for your mental and emotional health that you can handle being in a relationship with them without the fear or worry of finding yourself heartbroken. As you take the time to learn how you can spot who the players are, how to play their game against them, and how to manage your feelings and expectations you will find that the world of dating just gets a little more interesting.

Rise Above And Triumph!

If you fall in love with a player, the breakup can be painful. But, you can get through it. Rely on your friends, meditate, pray, engage in self-care, eat amazing food, watch movies that make you laugh, and listen to great music. Ultimately players end up alone. You can write whatever future you want.

Why are most men that decide to mail me here are from Ireland?
I don't expect them to be from Spain as most live far away, so why Ireland, and not England, France, Netherlands or anywhere else.

Are the Irish looking for an exciting/ cheap holiday in Spain, with a sexy guide? Or just want to write, but then they are not great writers either, most saying, Hello, good morning sexy..

Hello there......
Is there no decency out there or self respect.
Am I just being old fashioned or not living with the new age.
I'm.on this site a year now and I have yet to go on a date.
For example:.... When I finally pick up the courage to give a man my private number thinking that he is the one I get heavy breathing over the phone.You can.use your own imagination what that's all about.
I'm tired now as I'm.almost 54 years old.
Where is romance gone to.....

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Barbara and furry friends