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“Why are you still here on a dating site if you’re already married!”
Art and I get questioned that a lot. I could understand if those asked weren’t aware of the existence of CS blogs/forums where Art and I actively read and participate but coming from those who are aware that I am constantly participating on the blogs ( sometimes forums ), hmmmm…..that’s ‘hum ga ling’ 
It’s a Cantonese swear word! 
He would normally not respond. I, on the other hand, will give a response, depending on my mood
Today MiMi is not in the mood to do so
However, there’s a pertinent question I would like to throw it out there for the CS mods.
Why call this site ‘ConnectingSingles’ and then at the same time have the options of ‘Married’, ‘In A Relationship’ and ‘Not Single/Not Looking’ on the marital status?!?!
Then again, married members can still claim they’re not married and who would know any better?!?
We all have our very own reasons to be here. If the fact that married/not single people are on here bothers you, then I would suggest …….
Have a cupcake!
Or two cupcakes!
P.S: Just like some of them here, I also question what makes others think they have the right to say to people, “Hey you, the married one! Leave!”
It’s a Cantonese swear word! He would normally not respond. I, on the other hand, will give a response, depending on my mood
Today MiMi is not in the mood to do so
However, there’s a pertinent question I would like to throw it out there for the CS mods.
Why call this site ‘ConnectingSingles’ and then at the same time have the options of ‘Married’, ‘In A Relationship’ and ‘Not Single/Not Looking’ on the marital status?!?!
Then again, married members can still claim they’re not married and who would know any better?!?
We all have our very own reasons to be here. If the fact that married/not single people are on here bothers you, then I would suggest …….
Have a cupcake!
Or two cupcakes!
P.S: Just like some of them here, I also question what makes others think they have the right to say to people, “Hey you, the married one! Leave!”
why people never meet on connecting singles
proper etiuette in meeting for friendship or more is to use the old reliable telephone time wasters and that is almost everybody think kik , emails, texting is the way to do it. but remembers they are all scammers none meets anymore
the most exotic women on connecting singles lives
in dunkirk ny too bad she smokes if you are a guy look at her photos too unreal
It's been years, since I've been with . . .
. . .lemme just back-track and say this. I've been in a couple of relationships where I encouraged my partner to bring in another lady for us.
So, when it comes to sex, I've been with women before; however, I've never had a lady as a significant other. I can't call myself "Bi-curious" because the physical mystery has already been unraveled. Alas, there's still the emotional mystery, though.
I've never connected with a sister on an intimately emotional level, and I'm curious if it's possible for me to even go to that distance with a woman. I'm totally open, but simultaneously intimidated, because my concern is . . .well, what if we really dig each other, but there's no chemistry? Welp, I got another friend, but now we're both frustrated. Well dayum.
I sure hope that isn't the case. I'm certain it's possible to fall for the right lady. I've just gotta sift through, to see who's compatible.
I feel compelled to open that possibility now, though.
So, when it comes to sex, I've been with women before; however, I've never had a lady as a significant other. I can't call myself "Bi-curious" because the physical mystery has already been unraveled. Alas, there's still the emotional mystery, though.
I've never connected with a sister on an intimately emotional level, and I'm curious if it's possible for me to even go to that distance with a woman. I'm totally open, but simultaneously intimidated, because my concern is . . .well, what if we really dig each other, but there's no chemistry? Welp, I got another friend, but now we're both frustrated.
Well dayum. I sure hope that isn't the case. I'm certain it's possible to fall for the right lady. I've just gotta sift through, to see who's compatible.
I feel compelled to open that possibility now, though.
A. Male figure.....
Is. He a devil?....I am not trying
To insult any men here in the blogs...
This is a true story....I am really
Scared deep down....I have not
Slept...past 2days....that handsome
Faced man looking ...was he
A human ?....I am quite confused.
Men were created with the desire and need for sex to procreate. They want and need that. Women are created to nurture to provide the continuation of the species....
Basic is understood.
That is all ok
But....women.
Need(sometimes lot of) time to
Think...no?
I do understand
No doubt god made.
Them that way..
But..what about
Sixth sense...civilization
Working towards
For a better society
Quite shocking...
They could just
Think in one direction
Do they think
Women are desperate?
emotional and physical companionship.
Needs to come
From inside feelings
No?
I thought..
Trust, Loyalty, and Honesty. Is everything
That matters before
Relationship
Am I wrong?
Why act like women put on this earth to please him?
there are a lot of honest men out there they want nothing but love respect and honesty from a girl …isnt it? but every relationship has expectations ..
I do have good
Understanding
Of this....
I
think the genders are equal when it comes to wanting “things" from the opposite sex. Whether it be dinner, sex, gifts, a home, etc…
As normal human beings..
No?
A give and take
Both sides. Right?
Not every girl is crazy about handsome face and body built up....some are okay with ordinary looks. Not so good physical built ...too, so it's not about being the most handsome man of this world.
Unlike men, women are not primarily driven by looks. Most often than not, we will decide if we are attracted to a man because of how that man makes us feel.
We want a man who is in control but not controlling. There’s a difference.
When we say "I love you", we mean it.
Even when we are in love with you, we hate many things that you do but we will never tell you.
Either we seen bad
Experience of other
Girls. Or had personal
Bad experiance
Or heard from reliable source...
that's why we don't trust you easily.
I know the real fact.... some are
Real gentlemen.
All I am. asking is ...What's wrong
In saying.....
Thanks for your apparent interest in me (whatever the name) but I’m not really interested in going that direction with you,”
How many times
To say...I’m not interested, sorry.”
finally exhausted with this bullshit and feeling forced to lie: I have a boyfriend.
I think some can not take
No for an answer....
Dear men,
We respect you a lot and we want you to respect us. Both male and female together make this society, let's walk hand in hand, you take a step, we'll take another. This journey will be more beautiful! For women, it’s about the endless journey not the destination.
To insult any men here in the blogs...
This is a true story....I am really
Scared deep down....I have not
Slept...past 2days....that handsome
Faced man looking ...was he
A human ?....I am quite confused.
Men were created with the desire and need for sex to procreate. They want and need that. Women are created to nurture to provide the continuation of the species....
Basic is understood.
That is all ok
But....women.
Need(sometimes lot of) time to
Think...no?
I do understand
No doubt god made.
Them that way..
But..what about
Sixth sense...civilization
Working towards
For a better society
Quite shocking...
They could just
Think in one direction
Do they think
Women are desperate?
emotional and physical companionship.
Needs to come
From inside feelings
No?
I thought..
Trust, Loyalty, and Honesty. Is everything
That matters before
Relationship
Am I wrong?
Why act like women put on this earth to please him?
there are a lot of honest men out there they want nothing but love respect and honesty from a girl …isnt it? but every relationship has expectations ..
I do have good
Understanding
Of this....
I
think the genders are equal when it comes to wanting “things" from the opposite sex. Whether it be dinner, sex, gifts, a home, etc…
As normal human beings..
No?
A give and take
Both sides. Right?
Not every girl is crazy about handsome face and body built up....some are okay with ordinary looks. Not so good physical built ...too, so it's not about being the most handsome man of this world.
Unlike men, women are not primarily driven by looks. Most often than not, we will decide if we are attracted to a man because of how that man makes us feel.
We want a man who is in control but not controlling. There’s a difference.
When we say "I love you", we mean it.
Even when we are in love with you, we hate many things that you do but we will never tell you.
Either we seen bad
Experience of other
Girls. Or had personal
Bad experiance
Or heard from reliable source...
that's why we don't trust you easily.
I know the real fact.... some are
Real gentlemen.
All I am. asking is ...What's wrong
In saying.....
Thanks for your apparent interest in me (whatever the name) but I’m not really interested in going that direction with you,”
How many times
To say...I’m not interested, sorry.”
finally exhausted with this bullshit and feeling forced to lie: I have a boyfriend.
I think some can not take
No for an answer....
Dear men,
We respect you a lot and we want you to respect us. Both male and female together make this society, let's walk hand in hand, you take a step, we'll take another. This journey will be more beautiful! For women, it’s about the endless journey not the destination.
Best Message
I have received many strange messages from lovely ladies during my stay on cs, but this one really confuses me. A lot.
| Sep 2, 8:09 AM
Just finish reads your profile I'm so busy for over 10 day's now I Bach my car with someone car alongs high way but I give glory to God I'm not too injury and the person I bash his car didn't injury but his car and my car bad a bits.. that's why I'm not in full online sorry...I'm by the machnic yesterday all through ... any way it's fine...how are you and your family also your neighbourhoods... nice meeting you JEFF..
I'M NEW HERE ON THIS SITE A FRIEND OF MINE TO ME ABOUT THE SITE ANYWAY IM NOT A PERSON THAT'S LOVE ONLINE THING'S FRUD ARE REAL..MY MON DIE FOR FRUD A MAN DARTING HER THE MAN LEAVE AUSTRALIA .... THAT'S WAS THEN HE TOLD MY MOM MANY STORY MY MON WENT TO SELL HER PROSPERITY TO LET HIN COME TO AFRICA THIS MAN RUN AWAY FROM MY MOM .. 2 MONTHS LATER MY MOM BE SICK WE RUSH HER TO HOSPITAL MY MOM SPEND THREE DAYS IN HOSPITAL WHEN HOSPITAL CALL US THEY WHERE TELLING US THAT MOM DEATHS.... THAT'S THE REASON I DON'T DO ONLINE STUFF......
BUT LET SEE FROM U YOU CAN BE REAL.........
BUT I DON'T DOUBLE DATE CAN'T CHEAT A MAN THAT LOVE ME FROM HIS EARTH I LOVE ONE PERTNER NOT DOUBLE.. .
CHEERS
Sylvia...
Jeff???? 
| Sep 2, 8:09 AM
Just finish reads your profile I'm so busy for over 10 day's now I Bach my car with someone car alongs high way but I give glory to God I'm not too injury and the person I bash his car didn't injury but his car and my car bad a bits.. that's why I'm not in full online sorry...I'm by the machnic yesterday all through ... any way it's fine...how are you and your family also your neighbourhoods... nice meeting you JEFF..
I'M NEW HERE ON THIS SITE A FRIEND OF MINE TO ME ABOUT THE SITE ANYWAY IM NOT A PERSON THAT'S LOVE ONLINE THING'S FRUD ARE REAL..MY MON DIE FOR FRUD A MAN DARTING HER THE MAN LEAVE AUSTRALIA .... THAT'S WAS THEN HE TOLD MY MOM MANY STORY MY MON WENT TO SELL HER PROSPERITY TO LET HIN COME TO AFRICA THIS MAN RUN AWAY FROM MY MOM .. 2 MONTHS LATER MY MOM BE SICK WE RUSH HER TO HOSPITAL MY MOM SPEND THREE DAYS IN HOSPITAL WHEN HOSPITAL CALL US THEY WHERE TELLING US THAT MOM DEATHS.... THAT'S THE REASON I DON'T DO ONLINE STUFF......
BUT LET SEE FROM U YOU CAN BE REAL.........
BUT I DON'T DOUBLE DATE CAN'T CHEAT A MAN THAT LOVE ME FROM HIS EARTH I LOVE ONE PERTNER NOT DOUBLE.. .
CHEERS
Sylvia...
Jeff????
Wide-Open !!!
During the short time of my life span , the little experience I've got by visiting online dating sites , I've noticed some interesting facts ..
One of them is ,
The use of the word "OpenMinded" on the profiles on a dating site !!
Initially , by the mention of the word "OpenMinded" , we usually think of the Definition as " A person , Who is Intelligent , Wise , Enlightened , Adventurous to Explore and Learn about New Ideas , Flexible enough to Understand and Cooperate with Differences and Disagreements , Who can Balance well between Analytical Logical Practical Brain and Emotional Heart " ...
At least , this is suppose to be the Ideal Definition of the word "OpenMinded" , Right !!
But...
When it comes to the Profile Description of an Online Dating Site , the whole Meaning actually change 360° (in most cases) !!!!!!
On a profile , on a dating site , if the word "OpenMinded' was mentioned , then (most likely) it actually means that ,
The Person is Open for a Relationship , Without any Boundary of Trust , Loyalty , Commitment , Responsibility and Legal/Social Validation...
Let's say it straight forward ...
The Person is Open to have Extra Marital Affairs or As many Affairs possible with Multiple Partners at the same time side by side , in most cases ...
On the Contrary ...
If you Ask The same Person about their Preference to Choose someone as their Partner for a Stable Long Term Relationship or Marriage Or to Start a Family with ,
Then Surprisingly (most likely) , you will find that , The Person is Not Open at all to Accept someone as a Partner , from Different Race , Different Religion , Different Culture , Different Economical Status , Different Age (Specially for a Male it'll be Not Acceptable to Choose an Older Female as Partner) etc. , in Most Cases !!!
So...
Now , whenever I see the Word "OpenMinded" mentioned on a Profile on a Dating Site , I just feel totally confused that ,
What might be the Real Interpretation of that Word , for the Profile Holder !!!!!
One of them is ,
The use of the word "OpenMinded" on the profiles on a dating site !!
Initially , by the mention of the word "OpenMinded" , we usually think of the Definition as " A person , Who is Intelligent , Wise , Enlightened , Adventurous to Explore and Learn about New Ideas , Flexible enough to Understand and Cooperate with Differences and Disagreements , Who can Balance well between Analytical Logical Practical Brain and Emotional Heart " ...
At least , this is suppose to be the Ideal Definition of the word "OpenMinded" , Right !!
But...
When it comes to the Profile Description of an Online Dating Site , the whole Meaning actually change 360° (in most cases) !!!!!!
On a profile , on a dating site , if the word "OpenMinded' was mentioned , then (most likely) it actually means that ,
The Person is Open for a Relationship , Without any Boundary of Trust , Loyalty , Commitment , Responsibility and Legal/Social Validation...
Let's say it straight forward ...
The Person is Open to have Extra Marital Affairs or As many Affairs possible with Multiple Partners at the same time side by side , in most cases ...
On the Contrary ...
If you Ask The same Person about their Preference to Choose someone as their Partner for a Stable Long Term Relationship or Marriage Or to Start a Family with ,
Then Surprisingly (most likely) , you will find that , The Person is Not Open at all to Accept someone as a Partner , from Different Race , Different Religion , Different Culture , Different Economical Status , Different Age (Specially for a Male it'll be Not Acceptable to Choose an Older Female as Partner) etc. , in Most Cases !!!
So...
Now , whenever I see the Word "OpenMinded" mentioned on a Profile on a Dating Site , I just feel totally confused that ,
What might be the Real Interpretation of that Word , for the Profile Holder !!!!!
Friendship means friendship
When you go for a job interview you make sure you have the skills..you do some marketing on the reviews of the company.
You go through their values etc.
In order for you to secure the post.
Why can you not do the same when it comes to ANY type of relationship. ?
Where is the match in this scenario at the bottom you either a moron or you do not respect the next person on many levels.
Me: I'm looking for friendship
You: can I meet you I think we would make do for a serious couple. .I can even convert to Islam I like what I see in your profile.
My profile :Age 49
Single with kids*don't want*
Looking for friendship only
Muslim
Your profile :age...
Single no kids want someday soon
Looking for a serious relationship to date/marry
Christian
Does it add up ?
Where is the intelligence here?
*can't deal
* maybe have a problem with spelling or cannot read?
*maybe a predator thinking all woman is gullible because you paint this perfect picture about yourself so to the T on your profile.
You go through their values etc.
In order for you to secure the post.
Why can you not do the same when it comes to ANY type of relationship. ?
Where is the match in this scenario at the bottom you either a moron or you do not respect the next person on many levels.
Me: I'm looking for friendship
You: can I meet you I think we would make do for a serious couple. .I can even convert to Islam I like what I see in your profile.
My profile :Age 49
Single with kids*don't want*
Looking for friendship only
Muslim
Your profile :age...
Single no kids want someday soon
Looking for a serious relationship to date/marry
Christian
Does it add up ?
Where is the intelligence here?
*can't deal
* maybe have a problem with spelling or cannot read?
*maybe a predator thinking all woman is gullible because you paint this perfect picture about yourself so to the T on your profile.
AUTISM IS NO LAUGHING MATTER
I am a 53 yr old autistic man. When I was growing up Autism was not recognized here in Canada 
. It wasn't until 1985 that Doctors in Canada stated that Autism was real 
. Still because it was new and the doctors did not know all the signs to look for I still slipped through the cracks .
Mean while I had to learn the hard way to protect my emotions from being hurt verbally and physically
. I did this by building walls and keeping people as far away from myself as possible. I still kept who I was because I did not want to be anybody but myself. I did make friends but they were far between. They actually had to basically force themselves into my life and get to know me and accept me the way I was.
Out of desperation I went on dating sites and eventually found someone to marry. Because I did not at the time realize that my emotions were in control I looked away and ignored the type of person I had married. It turns out that she has to be in control all the time and if she does not get her way then she will use a tone of voice that makes me feel degraded. She also because she does not or will not accept that I do not think the same way that normal people think, holds things against me and will not have sex with me. At the age of 4 our son tested positive for Autism and has been getting help ever since. He is now 14 and he loses his temper a lot with me stating that he is going to hurt me etc........
This is why I am now on this site. I am not looking to divorce my wife I am just just trying to look for female friends here close to where I live and spend time with them away from my house and wife in private where she can not see because if she finds out living in hell would be better. Also I hope these friends would also be the type to have sex with me when we are spending time together. These friends are what you call FWB's. The reason I am looking for someone between 18 to 25 is because they would be a real blessing to me emotionally. I understand that it would have no strings attached but that still does not mean we can not be friends and also lovers.
. It wasn't until 1985 that Doctors in Canada stated that Autism was real . Still because it was new and the doctors did not know all the signs to look for I still slipped through the cracks .Mean while I had to learn the hard way to protect my emotions from being hurt verbally and physically
. I did this by building walls and keeping people as far away from myself as possible. I still kept who I was because I did not want to be anybody but myself. I did make friends but they were far between. They actually had to basically force themselves into my life and get to know me and accept me the way I was.Out of desperation I went on dating sites and eventually found someone to marry. Because I did not at the time realize that my emotions were in control I looked away and ignored the type of person I had married. It turns out that she has to be in control all the time and if she does not get her way then she will use a tone of voice that makes me feel degraded. She also because she does not or will not accept that I do not think the same way that normal people think, holds things against me and will not have sex with me. At the age of 4 our son tested positive for Autism and has been getting help ever since. He is now 14 and he loses his temper a lot with me stating that he is going to hurt me etc........
This is why I am now on this site. I am not looking to divorce my wife I am just just trying to look for female friends here close to where I live and spend time with them away from my house and wife in private where she can not see because if she finds out living in hell would be better. Also I hope these friends would also be the type to have sex with me when we are spending time together. These friends are what you call FWB's. The reason I am looking for someone between 18 to 25 is because they would be a real blessing to me emotionally. I understand that it would have no strings attached but that still does not mean we can not be friends and also lovers.
I knew it was only a matter of time . . .
. . .before his Aries Moon showed its a$$.
Wow, I guess I shouldn't be shocked it didn't last the typical 90 day probationary mark that most employers have before they consider giving their employee benefits.
Oh well
Mercury's going retrograde in 2 weeks, so best it ended before then. I def need to stay on a break from anything beyond a simple platonic friendship, while Merc is doing it's 2 month astrological/short-distance travel/communication menstruation complication dance.
Pisces Sun + Aries Moon = self sabotage
Wow, I guess I shouldn't be shocked it didn't last the typical 90 day probationary mark that most employers have before they consider giving their employee benefits.
Oh well
Mercury's going retrograde in 2 weeks, so best it ended before then. I def need to stay on a break from anything beyond a simple platonic friendship, while Merc is doing it's 2 month astrological/short-distance travel/communication menstruation complication dance.
Pisces Sun + Aries Moon = self sabotage
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