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How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons? ( Archived) (45)

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Feb 28, 2009 7:07 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
moonloveOPchiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand650 posts
Please advice me, how can i deal with people who mean to me without reasons? Coz i don't want to act the same way like they act, please give me nice advice..cheers comfort handshake
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#2
Feb 28, 2009 7:13 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
Steevyv
SteevyvSteevyvsisak, Central Croatia Croatia65 Threads 805 Posts
Steevyvsisak, Central Croatia Croatia805 posts
moonlove: Please advice me, how can i deal with people who mean to me without reasons? Coz i don't want to act the same way like they act, please give me nice advice..

Show them your back. Ignore them.
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#3
Feb 28, 2009 7:16 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA13,695 posts
Steevyv: Show them your back. Ignore them.
thumbs up Agreed. Or just remain nice. Stay true to you, whatever you do. I agree, I don't get mean in return.
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#4
Feb 28, 2009 7:16 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
SexyAttorney
SexyAttorneySexyAttorneyClearwater, Florida USA25 Threads 976 Posts
SexyAttorneyClearwater, Florida USA976 posts
Steevyv: Show them your back. Ignore them.



Ignore......
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#5
Feb 28, 2009 7:19 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
FriendlyFeline
FriendlyFelineFriendlyFelineMayo, Ireland18 Threads 2,908 Posts
FriendlyFelineMayo, Ireland2,908 posts
Try not to take it to heart. The problem is theirs not yours. Rise above it. Keep telling yourself their opinion does not matter to you.
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#6
Feb 28, 2009 7:20 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
moonloveOPchiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand650 posts
druidess6308: Agreed. Or just remain nice. Stay true to you, whatever you do. I agree, I don't get mean in return.


Sometims, i am afraid they will find the way to make you look bad for some reasons coz things like that can happen with jealousy..thanks for advice..
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Feb 28, 2009 7:24 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
HJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA17,068 posts
Did you ever think it possible that another being mean has absolutely nothing to do with you??confused
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#8
Feb 28, 2009 7:25 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
moonloveOPchiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand650 posts
FriendlyFeline: Try not to take it to heart. The problem is theirs not yours. Rise above it. Keep telling yourself their opinion does not matter to you.


I can understand that, but how about they try to make you look bad? coz sometimes, jealousy is really dangerous.comfort thanks
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#9
Feb 28, 2009 7:27 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA943 posts
moonlove: Please advice me, how can i deal with people who mean to me without reasons? Coz i don't want to act the same way like they act, please give me nice advice..




smile, be glad you are not as bitter as they are in life and just walk on.wine
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#10
Feb 28, 2009 7:29 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
ScubadivaNew Jersey, USA2,689 posts
HJFinAZ: Did you ever think it possible that another being mean has absolutely nothing to do with you??


I was thinking the same cheers

I find it rather rare that there is absolutely no reason at all for someone to be mean to another. It's possible, but rather unusual. Could it be that there's something that you do or say that upsets others and you just don't know what it is?
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#11
Feb 28, 2009 7:30 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
moonloveOPchiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand650 posts
slim1977: smile, be glad you are not as bitter as they are in life and just walk on.



Hopefully, if don't try to do bad thing to us is good, if they find the way to make you look bad for some reasons, how can i do that?thanks for nice advice
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#12
Feb 28, 2009 7:34 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Big_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA9,767 posts
We each control how we wish to act and respond to others. It takes two to play any game. If you do not wish to play, don't. Know who you are and who you want to be and act that way. Remove these people from your life. Smile, laugh and move on!
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Feb 28, 2009 7:38 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
moonloveOPchiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand650 posts
Scubadiva: I was thinking the same

I find it rather rare that there is absolutely no reason at all for someone to be mean to another. It's possible, but rather unusual. Could it be that there's something that you do or say that upsets others and you just don't know what it is?


Not that way, sometims being mean without reason is related with jealousy..if they jealous you, they will act so mean to you without reasons
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#14
Feb 28, 2009 7:39 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
Tamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK3,267 posts
Just carry on your everyday life don't give them a second thought basically ignore them....they are not worth your time or energy...
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#15
Feb 28, 2009 7:41 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
takeit4granted
takeit4grantedtakeit4grantednew berlin, Wisconsin USA4 Threads 785 Posts
takeit4grantednew berlin, Wisconsin USA785 posts
kill with kind-ness angel devil
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Feb 28, 2009 7:42 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA13,695 posts
moonlove: Sometims, i am afraid they will find the way to make you look bad for some reasons coz things like that can happen with jealousy..thanks for advice..


You'll only look bad if you respond to them in a mean way, Moonlove. If you ignore it or stay nice, you can't look bad.

hug
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#17
Feb 28, 2009 7:43 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
moonloveOPchiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand650 posts
Tamarin: Just carry on your everyday life don't give them a second thought basically ignore them....they are not worth your time or energy...


i brobably know that..i am somewhat afraid those people like that..maybe less of selfconfidence, thanks for nice adviceteddybear
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Feb 28, 2009 7:48 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
krimsa
krimsakrimsaMiddleton, New Hampshire USA6 Threads 2 Polls 1,345 Posts
krimsaMiddleton, New Hampshire USA1,345 posts
moonlove: Please advice me, how can i deal with people who mean to me without reasons? Coz i don't want to act the same way like they act, please give me nice advice..


Mean to you in person? Can you explain the circumstances surrounding this? If you are referring to online people, eh, who cares, block em. That’s what the magic "delete" button is all about. They aren’t worth the time or effort. cool
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Feb 28, 2009 7:56 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
moonloveOPchiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand650 posts
HJFinAZ: Did you ever think it possible that another being mean has absolutely nothing to do with you??


thanks for so nice and so smart advicing but i am not that smart..hehe, anyway thanks so muchteddybear
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Feb 28, 2009 8:24 AM CST How can we deal with people who mean to us without reasons?
somechick
somechicksomechickCincinnati, Ohio USA106 Threads 11,116 Posts
somechickCincinnati, Ohio USA11,116 posts
moonlove: Please advice me, how can i deal with people who mean to me without reasons? Coz i don't want to act the same way like they act, please give me nice advice..



When someone is being mean to you ,you should realize that the problem lies with them not with you.

Just keep on being the nice person you are and try to ignore that person.
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