Double Dating (90)
gillyloves69: if you're going to meet somebody like that then let them know upfront in advance ...and THERE WILL BE PART OF YOUR ANSWER BEFORE YOU MEET
but always remember darling ' NEVER LOVE ANYBODY MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOURSELF ' and thats before you step out your front door to meet anybody
prepare yourself for possible rejection by building a buffer before we contact him...
if you say that you're going to be in london or what ever city the guy is in on bussiness for the weekend or a few days or so
and could meet up with him on your way to somewhere else if you've both got time...and see what he says first
then you can take things from there
but if he does'nt even want to meet you even if you're near his part off town just passing through to say a quick hello ...then drop him like a bad habit darling...and cancel the trip
i've got some stories to tell you once "the real talking" starts
but no rush
but always remember darling ' NEVER LOVE ANYBODY MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOURSELF ' and thats before you step out your front door to meet anybody
prepare yourself for possible rejection by building a buffer before we contact him...
if you say that you're going to be in london or what ever city the guy is in on bussiness for the weekend or a few days or so
and could meet up with him on your way to somewhere else if you've both got time...and see what he says first
then you can take things from there
but if he does'nt even want to meet you even if you're near his part off town just passing through to say a quick hello ...then drop him like a bad habit darling...and cancel the trip
i've got some stories to tell you once "the real talking" starts
but no rush
gilly, I'm off to bed now, but I want to say, you never do let anyone here down.
You are always such a sweetheart. And quite a wise one under that tin foil!
Can we clone you???
venere08: gilly, I'm off to bed now, but I want to say, you never do let anyone here down.
You are always such a sweetheart. And quite a wise one under that tin foil!
Can we clone you???
You are always such a sweetheart. And quite a wise one under that tin foil!
Can we clone you???
YOU'RE SO SWEET DARLING !
I DID'NT WANT TO RUIN SYMBOLS THREAD BY START SAYING TO " HELLO TO OTHER PEOPLE "
rusty_knight: Maybe, ultimately, one should quit feeling sorry for oneself and move on - as it does tend to get rather boring after a certain amount of time!
Yeah yeah Rusty no one forces you to read these things.
symbolistartist: Yeah yeah Rusty no one forces you to read these things.
No need to attack me for expressing a personal opinion; you've expressed your angst now almost ad infinitum and I feel in a good mood and would like to read something positive for a change!
rusty_knight: No need to attack me for expressing a personal opinion; you've expressed your angst now almost ad infinitum and I feel in a good mood and would like to read something positive for a change!
For god's sakes then go to another thread!!!! I have nothing fun to say here today, can't you respect that? Let me have my sad day and while people are still commenting I have to comment back.
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symbolistartist: For god's sakes then go to another thread!!!! I have nothing fun to say here today, can't you respect that? Let me have my sad day and while people are still commenting I have to comment back.
hi symbol ! if you were to start work on a new collage this weekend ..
1.what would you call it ?
2. why ?
3. what would you decide to portray in the piece ?
4. what materials would you use ?
5. what colours what you use ?
6. what type of music would you listen to whilst you were creating this piece ?
7. how long do you think it would take to complete a work of art like this ?
8. have ever thought of creating that type of work before ?
9. where would you exibit it ?
10. what type of people do you think would enjoy looking at it ?
gillyloves69: YOU'RE SO SWEET DARLING !
I DID'NT WANT TO RUIN SYMBOLS THREAD BY START SAYING TO " HELLO TO OTHER PEOPLE "
I DID'NT WANT TO RUIN SYMBOLS THREAD BY START SAYING TO " HELLO TO OTHER PEOPLE "
Thanks Gilly, that's thoughtful of you.
gillyloves69: hi symbol ! if you were to start work on a new collage this weekend ..
1.what would you call it ?
2. why ?
3. what would you decide to portray in the piece ?
4. what materials would you use ?
5. what colours what you use ?
6. what type of music would you listen to whilst you were creating this piece ?
7. how long do you think it would take to complete a work of art like this ?
8. have ever thought of creating that type of work before ?
9. where would you exibit it ?
10. what type of people do you think would enjoy looking at it ?
1.what would you call it ?
2. why ?
3. what would you decide to portray in the piece ?
4. what materials would you use ?
5. what colours what you use ?
6. what type of music would you listen to whilst you were creating this piece ?
7. how long do you think it would take to complete a work of art like this ?
8. have ever thought of creating that type of work before ?
9. where would you exibit it ?
10. what type of people do you think would enjoy looking at it ?
That's no bad question at all, maybe you should become a teacher?
However in this state of mind... can't really focus on anything whatsoever. I've been thinking voodoo dolls with nails in them... However as this is as rightly pointed out a public forum I can't tell you more than that. I think that could actually be a good subject matter for a collage however I'm afraid I wouldn't want to display it because it would be too explicit and a bit "banal". "The emancipation of Eve" is actually a similar subject matter. What I'd call it now? Hm... Maybe "What Fate has in Store for Mankind". Maybe an apocalyptic theme where only the once who are willing to let go of their old ways can rise to the level of the brave new world... No women in that picture though. I'm not going to be too explicit about why this comes to mind at this moment. Music? Perhaps Golfrapp's Utopia.
I will stick to my collages but I've been hoping to get going with some experiments with texture. Alas, I'm going for the stuff I know best at the moment because my attention span hasn't been too good. Right now I'm doing one about not listening to other people's dogmas. I really need to finish it. The trick is to be obscure enough so people can envision what they like depending on who they are but explicit enough so that some sense can be derived from it.
Or maybe I should just do a "healing piece" - last year I did one which portrays a birdlooking pair of scissors cutting off a bond. I'm not very good at spontaneous stuff, that would almost require some form of seminar where I'd have to deliver a therapeutic piece.
But you know the funny thing is I had an amazing dream last night. It had many fantastic symbols of self-empowerement, for instance it was my birthday (=the birth of something new) but the strangest thing was that I was wanting to sing Ave Maria by Schubert, and that has always been my favourite song. What is funny about that is that my real life name means the same, that is Hail to Mary (Mary being the caretaker but also a symbol of compassion and unconditional love). Oh NO they are playing it on TV right now! Talk about synch...
symbolistartist: Thanks Gilly, that's thoughtful of you.
i'll say one good thing about symbol ..you've got a lot to say for yourself ( what ever you're talking about )! i'd rather listen to you talking about just one thing for the day than listen to some people talking about twenty other things for the day
BECAUSE THE SHALLOW DEPTH OF THE 20 OTHER THINGS WOULD'NT CUT ANY ICE WITH ME WITH SOME PEOPLE !
gillyloves69:
BECAUSE THE SHALLOW DEPTH OF THE 20 OTHER THINGS WOULD'NT CUT ANY ICE WITH ME WITH SOME PEOPLE !
BECAUSE THE SHALLOW DEPTH OF THE 20 OTHER THINGS WOULD'NT CUT ANY ICE WITH ME WITH SOME PEOPLE !
My opinion too. But I don't complain about it. I just don't visit the bores.
symbolistartist: That's no bad question at all, maybe you should become a teacher?
However in this state of mind... can't really focus on anything whatsoever. I've been thinking voodoo dolls with nails in them... However as this is as rightly pointed out a public forum I can't tell you more than that. I think that could actually be a good subject matter for a collage however I'm afraid I wouldn't want to display it because it would be too explicit and a bit "banal". "The emancipation of Eve" is actually a similar subject matter. What I'd call it now? Hm... Maybe "What Fate has in Store for Mankind". Maybe an apocalyptic theme where only the once who are willing to let go of their old ways can rise to the level of the brave new world... No women in that picture though. I'm not going to be too explicit about why this comes to mind at this moment. Music? Perhaps Golfrapp's Utopia.
I will stick to my collages but I've been hoping to get going with some experiments with texture. Alas, I'm going for the stuff I know best at the moment because my attention span hasn't been too good. Right now I'm doing one about not listening to other people's dogmas. I really need to finish it. The trick is to be obscure enough so people can envision what they like depending on who they are but explicit enough so that some sense can be derived from it.
Or maybe I should just do a "healing piece" - last year I did one which portrays a birdlooking pair of scissors cutting off a bond. I'm not very good at spontaneous stuff, that would almost require some form of seminar where I'd have to deliver a therapeutic piece.
But you know the funny thing is I had an amazing dream last night. It had many fantastic symbols of self-empowerement, for instance it was my birthday (=the birth of something new) but the strangest thing was that I was wanting to sing Ave Maria by Schubert, and that has always been my favourite song. What is funny about that is that my real life name means the same, that is Hail to Mary (Mary being the caretaker but also a symbol of compassion and unconditional love). Oh NO they are playing it on TV right now! Talk about synch...
However in this state of mind... can't really focus on anything whatsoever. I've been thinking voodoo dolls with nails in them... However as this is as rightly pointed out a public forum I can't tell you more than that. I think that could actually be a good subject matter for a collage however I'm afraid I wouldn't want to display it because it would be too explicit and a bit "banal". "The emancipation of Eve" is actually a similar subject matter. What I'd call it now? Hm... Maybe "What Fate has in Store for Mankind". Maybe an apocalyptic theme where only the once who are willing to let go of their old ways can rise to the level of the brave new world... No women in that picture though. I'm not going to be too explicit about why this comes to mind at this moment. Music? Perhaps Golfrapp's Utopia.
I will stick to my collages but I've been hoping to get going with some experiments with texture. Alas, I'm going for the stuff I know best at the moment because my attention span hasn't been too good. Right now I'm doing one about not listening to other people's dogmas. I really need to finish it. The trick is to be obscure enough so people can envision what they like depending on who they are but explicit enough so that some sense can be derived from it.
Or maybe I should just do a "healing piece" - last year I did one which portrays a birdlooking pair of scissors cutting off a bond. I'm not very good at spontaneous stuff, that would almost require some form of seminar where I'd have to deliver a therapeutic piece.
But you know the funny thing is I had an amazing dream last night. It had many fantastic symbols of self-empowerement, for instance it was my birthday (=the birth of something new) but the strangest thing was that I was wanting to sing Ave Maria by Schubert, and that has always been my favourite song. What is funny about that is that my real life name means the same, that is Hail to Mary (Mary being the caretaker but also a symbol of compassion and unconditional love). Oh NO they are playing it on TV right now! Talk about synch...
PART ONE
NOW THERE'S GOING TO BE A LOT TO TALK ABOUT HERE
BUT I THINK I'LL SAVE IT UNTIL LATER OR TOMMOROW ..AND WATCH A MOVIE FIRST
i bet you don't remember the last five movies that you saw...and can even talk about 2 of them
gillyloves69: PART ONE
NOW THERE'S GOING TO BE A LOT TO TALK ABOUT HERE
BUT I THINK I'LL SAVE IT UNTIL LATER OR TOMMOROW ..AND WATCH A MOVIE FIRST
i bet you don't remember the last five movies that you saw...and can even talk about 2 of them
NOW THERE'S GOING TO BE A LOT TO TALK ABOUT HERE
BUT I THINK I'LL SAVE IT UNTIL LATER OR TOMMOROW ..AND WATCH A MOVIE FIRST
i bet you don't remember the last five movies that you saw...and can even talk about 2 of them
Now that was a funny question but I probably could remember them... as I have watched very few films lately. Have a nice time!
(Oh and the comment about complaining about bores was not directed to you)
In a nutshell whats going on here.....
Phoenix: In a nutshell whats going on here.....
It must be love!
rusty_knight: It must be love!
See for me Double dating is a four some...
symbolistartist: That's no bad question at all, maybe you should become a teacher?
However in this state of mind... can't really focus on anything whatsoever. I've been thinking voodoo dolls with nails in them... However as this is as rightly pointed out a public forum I can't tell you more than that. I think that could actually be a good subject matter for a collage however I'm afraid I wouldn't want to display it because it would be too explicit and a bit "banal". "The emancipation of Eve" is actually a similar subject matter. What I'd call it now? Hm... Maybe "What Fate has in Store for Mankind". Maybe an apocalyptic theme where only the once who are willing to let go of their old ways can rise to the level of the brave new world... No women in that picture though. I'm not going to be too explicit about why this comes to mind at this moment. Music? Perhaps Golfrapp's Utopia.
I will stick to my collages but I've been hoping to get going with some experiments with texture. Alas, I'm going for the stuff I know best at the moment because my attention span hasn't been too good. Right now I'm doing one about not listening to other people's dogmas. I really need to finish it. The trick is to be obscure enough so people can envision what they like depending on who they are but explicit enough so that some sense can be derived from it.
Or maybe I should just do a "healing piece" - last year I did one which portrays a birdlooking pair of scissors cutting off a bond. I'm not very good at spontaneous stuff, that would almost require some form of seminar where I'd have to deliver a therapeutic piece.
But you know the funny thing is I had an amazing dream last night. It had many fantastic symbols of self-empowerement, for instance it was my birthday (=the birth of something new) but the strangest thing was that I was wanting to sing Ave Maria by Schubert, and that has always been my favourite song. What is funny about that is that my real life name means the same, that is Hail to Mary (Mary being the caretaker but also a symbol of compassion and unconditional love). Oh NO they are playing it on TV right now! Talk about synch...
However in this state of mind... can't really focus on anything whatsoever. I've been thinking voodoo dolls with nails in them... However as this is as rightly pointed out a public forum I can't tell you more than that. I think that could actually be a good subject matter for a collage however I'm afraid I wouldn't want to display it because it would be too explicit and a bit "banal". "The emancipation of Eve" is actually a similar subject matter. What I'd call it now? Hm... Maybe "What Fate has in Store for Mankind". Maybe an apocalyptic theme where only the once who are willing to let go of their old ways can rise to the level of the brave new world... No women in that picture though. I'm not going to be too explicit about why this comes to mind at this moment. Music? Perhaps Golfrapp's Utopia.
I will stick to my collages but I've been hoping to get going with some experiments with texture. Alas, I'm going for the stuff I know best at the moment because my attention span hasn't been too good. Right now I'm doing one about not listening to other people's dogmas. I really need to finish it. The trick is to be obscure enough so people can envision what they like depending on who they are but explicit enough so that some sense can be derived from it.
Or maybe I should just do a "healing piece" - last year I did one which portrays a birdlooking pair of scissors cutting off a bond. I'm not very good at spontaneous stuff, that would almost require some form of seminar where I'd have to deliver a therapeutic piece.
But you know the funny thing is I had an amazing dream last night. It had many fantastic symbols of self-empowerement, for instance it was my birthday (=the birth of something new) but the strangest thing was that I was wanting to sing Ave Maria by Schubert, and that has always been my favourite song. What is funny about that is that my real life name means the same, that is Hail to Mary (Mary being the caretaker but also a symbol of compassion and unconditional love). Oh NO they are playing it on TV right now! Talk about synch...
PART TWO
WELL WHAT ARE THE LAST MOVIES THAT YOU SAW THEN ?
AND WHAT TWO MOVIES CAN YOU FLUENTLY TALK ABOUT ?
---take good care of yourself physically, and create - write, paint
CuspofMagic: ---take good care of yourself physically, and create - write, paint
Thank you, appreciated. Don't have much to say in any sense now.
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Yeah, I do move on, been down this lane now so many times (the vaccination I was talking about) I'm better at handling it. In 99 when the 1st catastrophe occurred I cried for 6 months and developed chronic insomnia. Though that was a real life incident of course. You just never really know how you'll react. Talking here seems to help though, I feel less like a victim though continuing the search is always very arduous. I'd be more optimistic if I could move to another country first or something, but now it's not possible. Oh well, anyway.
I agree with your saying: You just never really know how you'll react. - I guess none of is totally immune to feeling disappointed and hurt. Especially when things start finally *looking* so good with a new interest. But in the end, all we can do is muster our survival instincts and keep our hopes up. As they say, it can happen when least expected. It is a beautiful addition to have a great significant other in one's life but we have to live with some drama getting there. It is solely up to us as to what extent we will let it affect how we feel about ourselves. No one is worth losing our positive energy over!