Dont need to lower my standards (55)
GeorgiaBay: Im getting the feeling off guys lately, that my standards should be alot lower because im expecting a baby.
I dont think sooo!! lol
i wish people would read my profile before actually sending a message, theyre usually the ones that are totally opposite of what im looking for!!
e.x
too old (50 year old men hitting on an 18 year old?!)
From another country...
Or genuinely obese.
Tell me if im being shallow but come on. Its like a train of messages from the same sort of guys.
SO.
I give up!! :)
I dont think sooo!! lol
i wish people would read my profile before actually sending a message, theyre usually the ones that are totally opposite of what im looking for!!
e.x
too old (50 year old men hitting on an 18 year old?!)
From another country...
Or genuinely obese.
Tell me if im being shallow but come on. Its like a train of messages from the same sort of guys.
SO.
I give up!! :)
we all get that dont worry
chillax
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GeorgiaBay: Im getting the feeling off guys lately, that my standards should be alot lower because im expecting a baby.
I dont think sooo!! lol
i wish people would read my profile before actually sending a message, theyre usually the ones that are totally opposite of what im looking for!!
e.x
too old (50 year old men hitting on an 18 year old?!)
From another country...
Or genuinely obese.
Tell me if im being shallow but come on. Its like a train of messages from the same sort of guys.
SO.
I give up!! :)
I dont think sooo!! lol
i wish people would read my profile before actually sending a message, theyre usually the ones that are totally opposite of what im looking for!!
e.x
too old (50 year old men hitting on an 18 year old?!)
From another country...
Or genuinely obese.
Tell me if im being shallow but come on. Its like a train of messages from the same sort of guys.
SO.
I give up!! :)
don't lower your standards, i didn't read your profile but you know what you are looking for and what you want to make you happy
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Wanna go out.
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mastic55: Wanna go out.
Just kidding,best of luck with the baby.------ This thread is Archived ------
You absolutely don't need to lower your standards! A child is more reason to keep those standards up. Don't worry, you will find that someone who not only loves and accepts you for who you are , but also is thrilled to have your package deal. Don't ever settle for less than what is right for you and your baby.
And yes we all get those same kinds of messages, but to be fair, they are searching too.
And yes we all get those same kinds of messages, but to be fair, they are searching too.
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GeorgiaBay: Im getting the feeling off guys lately, that my standards should be alot lower because im expecting a baby.
I dont think sooo!! lol
i wish people would read my profile before actually sending a message, theyre usually the ones that are totally opposite of what im looking for!!
e.x
too old (50 year old men hitting on an 18 year old?!)
From another country...
Or genuinely obese.
Tell me if im being shallow but come on. Its like a train of messages from the same sort of guys.
SO.
I give up!! :)
I dont think sooo!! lol
i wish people would read my profile before actually sending a message, theyre usually the ones that are totally opposite of what im looking for!!
e.x
too old (50 year old men hitting on an 18 year old?!)
From another country...
Or genuinely obese.
Tell me if im being shallow but come on. Its like a train of messages from the same sort of guys.
SO.
I give up!! :)
OK... bye ....
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LilGravy: You absolutely don't need to lower your standards! A child is more reason to keep those standards up. Don't worry, you will find that someone who not only loves and accepts you for who you are , but also is thrilled to have your package deal. Don't ever settle for less than what is right for you and your baby.
And yes we all get those same kinds of messages, but to be fair, they are searching too.
Speaking of a package deal,WOW.And yes we all get those same kinds of messages, but to be fair, they are searching too.
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GeorgiaBay: Im getting the feeling off guys lately, that my standards should be alot lower because im expecting a baby.
I dont think sooo!! lol
i wish people would read my profile before actually sending a message, theyre usually the ones that are totally opposite of what im looking for!!
e.x
too old (50 year old men hitting on an 18 year old?!)
From another country...
Or genuinely obese.
Tell me if im being shallow but come on. Its like a train of messages from the same sort of guys.
SO.
I give up!! :)
I dont think sooo!! lol
i wish people would read my profile before actually sending a message, theyre usually the ones that are totally opposite of what im looking for!!
e.x
too old (50 year old men hitting on an 18 year old?!)
From another country...
Or genuinely obese.
Tell me if im being shallow but come on. Its like a train of messages from the same sort of guys.
SO.
I give up!! :)
Your standards shouldn´t drop at all, and as others have said, we all get the too old, too young, or simply haven´t paid any attention to profile interest.
However, as you are expecting a baby you should also recognise that your success rate at finding someone is significantly reduced.
Thats life, and the odds are stacked against many people for a whole host of other reasons.
Good luck.
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I read your profile. dont give up. egnore what the have to say. and you dont have to lower your standerds from imature guys. not all guys are that way.
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GeorgiaBay: Im getting the feeling off guys lately, that my standards should be alot lower because im expecting a baby.
I dont think sooo!! lol
i wish people would read my profile before actually sending a message, theyre usually the ones that are totally opposite of what im looking for!!
e.x
too old (50 year old men hitting on an 18 year old?!)
From another country...
Or genuinely obese.
Tell me if im being shallow but come on. Its like a train of messages from the same sort of guys.
SO.
I give up!! :)
I dont think sooo!! lol
i wish people would read my profile before actually sending a message, theyre usually the ones that are totally opposite of what im looking for!!
e.x
too old (50 year old men hitting on an 18 year old?!)
From another country...
Or genuinely obese.
Tell me if im being shallow but come on. Its like a train of messages from the same sort of guys.
SO.
I give up!! :)
Sheesh...what about the baby?
In order of priority, that would seem by far to be the highest, no?------ This thread is Archived ------
caspatch: don't lower your standards, i didn't read your profile but you know what you are looking for and what you want to make you happy
hey cas
what..you cannot take 2 mins to read the girls profile???...shame on you!
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Ambrose2007: Sheesh...what about the baby? In order of priority, that would seem by far to be the highest, no?
My sentiments exactly, J.
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GeorgiaBay: Im getting the feeling off guys lately, that my standards should be alot lower because im expecting a baby.
I dont think sooo!! lol
i wish people would read my profile before actually sending a message, theyre usually the ones that are totally opposite of what im looking for!!
e.x
too old (50 year old men hitting on an 18 year old?!)
From another country...
Or genuinely obese.
Tell me if im being shallow but come on. Its like a train of messages from the same sort of guys.
SO.
I give up!! :)
I dont think sooo!! lol
i wish people would read my profile before actually sending a message, theyre usually the ones that are totally opposite of what im looking for!!
e.x
too old (50 year old men hitting on an 18 year old?!)
From another country...
Or genuinely obese.
Tell me if im being shallow but come on. Its like a train of messages from the same sort of guys.
SO.
I give up!! :)
Actually darlin..you're havin a baby..its the best n worst times in life...but I would really say you need to be focusing on that..not on a dating site...JMO.
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Never lower your standards for a guy, You are going to be a mother, that is the number one priority, You and that precious baby will find a wonderful guy to fall in love with.. Keep the faith , hold on tight cause the next few months or so will be your most important time of your life..
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No you dont need to lower your standards.....you better off waiting for the right man...rather than picking someone you dont really want for the sake of it...
and as for the guys out of the age range etc...... we all get it...even if you put...wanted man...over 5'10'' dark haired, fit, and in the same country.... you will still get messages from... a 4'11'' balding, hugely overweight guy from the moon!!.... some just cant read....
good luck
and as for the guys out of the age range etc...... we all get it...even if you put...wanted man...over 5'10'' dark haired, fit, and in the same country.... you will still get messages from... a 4'11'' balding, hugely overweight guy from the moon!!.... some just cant read....
good luck
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solsticemoon: Actually darlin..you're havin a baby..its the best n worst times in life...but I would really say you need to be focusing on that..not on a dating site...JMO.
I'm sorry darlin..but I don't understand if ur expectin, what ur doing on a datin site..ok so the father might be outta the picture..but grow some balls gel..ur gonna need em..bringing up a child is'nt easy and mostly you have to do it without any guys in the picture...sorry sweets but the kid comes first!!
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xxfrecklesxx: No you dont need to lower your standards.....you better off waiting for the right man...rather than picking someone you dont really want for the sake of it...
and as for the guys out of the age range etc...... we all get it...even if you put...wanted man...over 5'10'' dark haired, fit, and in the same country.... you will still get messages from... a 4'11'' balding, hugely overweight guy from the moon!!.... some just cant read....
good luck
and as for the guys out of the age range etc...... we all get it...even if you put...wanted man...over 5'10'' dark haired, fit, and in the same country.... you will still get messages from... a 4'11'' balding, hugely overweight guy from the moon!!.... some just cant read....
good luck
And they have the same right to exist on this planet... just like everybody els... so why would`nt they message her???
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xxfrecklesxx: No you dont need to lower your standards.....you better off waiting for the right man...rather than picking someone you dont really want for the sake of it...
and as for the guys out of the age range etc...... we all get it...even if you put...wanted man...over 5'10'' dark haired, fit, and in the same country.... you will still get messages from... a 4'11'' balding, hugely overweight guy from the moon!!.... some just cant read....
good luck
and as for the guys out of the age range etc...... we all get it...even if you put...wanted man...over 5'10'' dark haired, fit, and in the same country.... you will still get messages from... a 4'11'' balding, hugely overweight guy from the moon!!.... some just cant read....
good luck
hey J..
how r u?
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Ambrose2007: Sheesh...what about the baby? In order of priority, that would seem by far to be the highest, no?
I believe her expected child is her highest priority as her profile shows she wants to take things slowly. She wants to get to know the person very well, before getting serious & also probably stems from her previous partner.
Is it wrong to look for someone who will provide help, support & comfort?
Or, (never been a parent myself), the fact that when a child does arrive, they then become the centre of your whole universe and require your constant attention that you need to fully settle before seeking a future partner as you do not need another life-changing factor affecting parenthood at such a critical stage?
Think latter answer is correct as life is already complicated enough raising a new one.
Her biggest complaint is that men contact her without checking her profile of what she seeks, but can see that the majority of women seem to receive this form of nuisance..
Good luck to both mother & child anyway
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I dont think sooo!! lol
i wish people would read my profile before actually sending a message, theyre usually the ones that are totally opposite of what im looking for!!
e.x
too old (50 year old men hitting on an 18 year old?!)
From another country...
Or genuinely obese.
Tell me if im being shallow but come on. Its like a train of messages from the same sort of guys.
SO.
I give up!! :)