blipper2000: but youre not gonna go on a date looking bedraggled???????????? come on now throw me a bone here ya dont have to wear makeup to look good i know
I certainly wear make up when I go on a date. At my age, I need all the help I can get.
navygirl1: No you are not annoying me at all. After all its just a discussion about our personal experiences. Yes I always call or have him call me before we meet; then doesn't show up. I call to find out why, but he won't answer. I always thought that maybe he found someone else more attractive after he made the date with me but didn't respect me enough to break it. Who knows why they do this?
dont ever think that now theres a million years why it doesnt work out ive chated online with people for ages and then been blanked without any good reason i can think of ,it happens to everyone
blipper2000: dont ever think that now theres a million years why it doesnt work out ive chated online with people for ages and then been blanked without any good reason i can think of ,it happens to everyone
It has just happened to me before. Hey, I don't begrudge a guy who finds a more attractive woman; after all he wants to be happy but just call. I may be hurt but I will go over it. As you say, I can't beat myself up over it.
navygirl1: It has just happened to me before. Hey, I don't begrudge a guy who finds a more attractive woman; after all he wants to be happy but just call. I may be hurt but I will go over it. As you say, I can't beat myself up over it.
youve gotta believe youre the most attractive girl out there, its all in the head
navygirl1: It has just happened to me before. Hey, I don't begrudge a guy who finds a more attractive woman; after all he wants to be happy but just call. I may be hurt but I will go over it. As you say, I can't beat myself up over it.
youve gotta believe youre the most attractive girl out there, its all in the head
blipper2000: youve gotta believe youre the most attractive girl out there, its all in the head
If I beleived that I was the most attractive girl out there then that would make me very vain. I believe I am a good woman and would be a good catch for a man. After all beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
blipper2000: but youre not gonna go on a date looking bedraggled???????????? come on now throw me a bone here ya dont have to wear makeup to look good i know
No, I try not to!
But, blipper, where does bedraggled come into it? I must have missed something in your original post.
blipper2000: youve gotta believe youre the most attractive girl out there, its all in the head
You are placing so much importance on exterior attractiveness, which we know can mean different things to different people. In the end, once the person opens his/her mouth, that's what really counts. What comes out!
venere08: You are placing so much importance on exterior attractiveness, which we know can mean different things to different people. In the end, once the person opens his/her mouth, that's what really counts. What comes out!
I don't think that is what he is trying to say. Its how we perceive ourselves. If I am going around thinking I am unattractive then it damages my self esteem. So if I am with a guy and I don't think much of myself whether it be looks or otherwise, of course the guy won't want to be with me. We are all initially attracted to that person's looks and it doesn't have to be drop dead good looking but its what we find attractive.
venere08: You are placing so much importance on exterior attractiveness, which we know can mean different things to different people. In the end, once the person opens his/her mouth, that's what really counts. What comes out!
i didnt say good lookin i said attractive ,big difference,theres many average lookin girls who have that twinkle in there eye as theres many goodlookin girls who wreck my head
blipper2000: i didnt say good lookin i said attractive ,big difference,theres many average lookin girls who have that twinkle in there eye as theres many goodlookin girls who wreck my head
Well said. My friends always say that when I walk into a room, I catch everyone's attention. There are way more beautiful women there but there is something about me that captures their attention. That makes me feel good about who I am and yes there I say attractive.
But, blipper, where does bedraggled come into it? I must have missed something in your original post.
try to keep up you you said you wouldnt wear makeup ,too muc makeup is unattractive if you ask me anyway ,i was saying you haveto try and give a good impression on a date call me sallow but i like a girl to at least make some effort if not for me then to show they have a littl epride in themselves
blipper2000: i didnt say good lookin i said attractive ,big difference,theres many average lookin girls who have that twinkle in there eye as theres many goodlookin girls who wreck my head
my ex was fat,bald and most girls would ask why I was attracted to him..he had that twinkle... ...
blipper2000: i didnt say good lookin i said attractive ,big difference,theres many average lookin girls who have that twinkle in there eye as theres many goodlookin girls who wreck my head
You've lost me. Where did I say 'good looking' or 'average looking?
Anyway, this is way off topic, so I will scuttle off, particularly as I have nothing further to contribute right now.
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come on now
throw me a bone here
ya dont have to wear makeup to look good i know
I certainly wear make up when I go on a date. At my age, I need all the help I can get.