Love is Pointless (154)
morningmistportland, Oregon USA5 PostsYou say that you do not want to be there because of "how bitter other people were about love". Do you always live your life by what you think others feel?
navygirl1: No, I never said that. Just seeing how bitter other people were about love made me think that I didn't want to be there. I would never tell you that love is bitter and twisted; just saying it isn't for me. I do hope you find the love you are looking for.
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Weimarlady: Nope, cos I keep hearing Droopy's voice... "I'm so happy"...
All I'm saying is that there's no need to exclude one thing or the other from life. One CAN have both.
All I'm saying is that there's no need to exclude one thing or the other from life. One CAN have both.
I just don't want to hurt anyone if I don't make it back from overseas.
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navygirl1: Just seeing how bitter other people were about love made me think that I didn't want to be there.
Yeah, and these would really be the finest examples of happy loving relationships on here...
(for the n'th time)Ok, sorry, I'm really outta here now!
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morningmist: You say that you do not want to be there because of "how bitter other people were about love". Do you always live your life by what you think others feel?
Of course not. It just gave me alot to think about and where my direction of life should be going.
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navygirl1: No, I never said that. Just seeing how bitter other people were about love made me think that I didn't want to be there. I would never tell you that love is bitter and twisted; just saying it isn't for me. I do hope you find the love you are looking for.
No need to justify yourself..... most people believe you have a negative attitude. This is a dating site and you're saying you don't wish to date. Fine; leave it at that and get on with your goals.
You can always post here and keep in touch with friends and I think by now you've made your stand 100% clear.
Many of us have failed in relationships.......... many of us have also felt bitter in the past. I do NOT believe that people in general are as bitter as you make out - they are just hurting and human, dammit!
Try and post positive stuff now............. like tell us all about your goals in life for a start - maybe people can them warm to you more if you have something more interesting to say!
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Weimarlady: Yeah, and these would really be the finest examples of happy loving relationships on here... (for the n'th time)
Ok, sorry, I'm really outta here now!
Ok, sorry, I'm really outta here now!
Okay, take care.
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RobertC2: No need to justify yourself..... most people believe you have a negative attitude. This is a dating site and you're saying you don't wish to date. Fine; leave it at that and get on with your goals.
You can always post here and keep in touch with friends and I think by now you've made your stand 100% clear.
Many of us have failed in relationships.......... many of us have also felt bitter in the past. I do NOT believe that people in general are as bitter as you make out - they are just hurting and human, dammit!
Try and post positive stuff now............. like tell us all about your goals in life for a start - maybe people can them warm to you more if you have something more interesting to say!
You can always post here and keep in touch with friends and I think by now you've made your stand 100% clear.
Many of us have failed in relationships.......... many of us have also felt bitter in the past. I do NOT believe that people in general are as bitter as you make out - they are just hurting and human, dammit!
Try and post positive stuff now............. like tell us all about your goals in life for a start - maybe people can them warm to you more if you have something more interesting to say!
If you don't like this post, then why did you come on here?
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navygirl1: If you don't like this post, then why did you come on here?
Quit before I say something equally offensive back to you!
I've made my point and I won't post in your sad thread anymore - you are just totally negative, and you have really irritated me now!
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Blues63: We're not all bitter...some are sad...You will do what you feel you have to. You have my best wishes. Please look after yourself. I have a fondness for you, and I really do feel saddened by this news. All the best to you my friend
Thanks but nothing to be sad of my friend. Its all good. It was just a view point of mine and the last thing I wanted to do is upset anyone.
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RobertC2: Quit before I say something equally offensive back to you!
I've made my point and I won't post in your sad thread anymore - you are just totally negative, and you have really irritated me now!
I've made my point and I won't post in your sad thread anymore - you are just totally negative, and you have really irritated me now!
Oh well, you see it negative, I see it as making something positive out of my life.
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rohaan: The "trick" is to not give in to bitterness and doubt. Besides, if you are a bright, optimistic person you really don't WANT to be like that, anyway. Life is a challenge, that's for sure. There is one very fortunate man out there for you, Navygirl. One very, very lucky guy, I would say. Don't give up. Don't abandon the ship! The world will always be a negative mine-field for us to navigate. There's no fixin' that. But you can be wise, careful, and still find a wonderful person. Just have to be careful, like all the rest of us. (If you give in to bitterness you have joined the ranks of what hurts you. Don't give them the satisfaction!)
Thanks for your kindd words, but its not about being hurt; just about opening my eyes. Its all good. I consider myself quite blessed with what I do have and not what I don't.
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YOu know......Ive never looked for love on these sites. And bloody ell.........Love finds me EVERY DAMN TIME!!! I told it to stop that.....but it wouldnt 
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911gypsy: YOu know......Ive never looked for love on these sites. And bloody ell.........Love finds me EVERY DAMN TIME!!! I told it to stop that.....but it wouldnt
Hello beautiful
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Lostrebel: Not everyone is hurting ,some are yes and thats the ones that you here about,the others you simply don't here about as much....Cs has had several good stoys as well......you can still hang out with us....
here=hear...
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The fact is that in order to find the one who will make love be as it should be......one must know what to look for and then like a needle in a haystack.....you must search for that needle. knowing and settling for no less and keeping your head........you will find it in time. The problem is looking in the wrong places among the wrong peoples.........There are some good people here but the tiny things that so many place so much importance on........stops true love cold. It is the spirit of the person that counts only......but each look for vanities to please their spirit and body. Confusion rules not the heart.
Don't give up! Wait and it will come.....likes when close....attract! patience!
Don't give up! Wait and it will come.....likes when close....attract! patience!
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"Love is Pointless"
But only on "dating" sites...........
But only on "dating" sites...........
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Love is point less at the hurt, point more at the love. 
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navygirl, very smart uniform btw, I've posted this before, maybe you've missed it so I post it again.
" Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want
to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an
animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all
entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness.
But in that casket - safe, dark, motionless, airless - it will change. It
will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.
To love is to be vulnerable."
C.S. Lewis
I hope you find what ever it is you seek, but to give up on something as wonderful as being in love is giving up on life. I suspect you've never been in love before, therefore you wont know what I'm talking about. My wish for you is that you experience it at least once in your life.
" Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want
to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an
animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all
entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness.
But in that casket - safe, dark, motionless, airless - it will change. It
will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.
To love is to be vulnerable."
C.S. Lewis
I hope you find what ever it is you seek, but to give up on something as wonderful as being in love is giving up on life. I suspect you've never been in love before, therefore you wont know what I'm talking about. My wish for you is that you experience it at least once in your life.
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love is just part of a life but its not the entire life,there r many more than love,life is very short so lets enjoy every moment of our life
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ogdensburgbabe: Yep, I do think that some make a "conscious" decision to be miserable, and let past hurts overcome their lives.
You have to move on, and look forward to what the future brings, rather than harping on about the past..
Hi V...
oops just never understood Y u wrote Hi V thinking it as HIV at a glanceYou have to move on, and look forward to what the future brings, rather than harping on about the past..
Hi V...
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