First days of your broken heart (57)
chocolateflavourAntwerp, Antwerpen Belgium27 Threads 13 Polls 155 Poststhat took hours to finish!!!!
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I was very nervous, cried alot, felt alone, moved out, but felt like I wasn't there, couldn't get in touch with that part of reality. Went through all the emotions of work, going home, cooking...but wasn't real. Went to counseling, to pull myself back into life...was very hard, cried extra hard, and eventually I could feel myself again..
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the first day of a broken heart is exactly the same as every day thereafter it sucks
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chocolateflavour:
Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?
Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?
No, because those first few days/weeks were so painful my brain has blocked a lot of memories out. I do remember nearly throwing a major fit in a supermarket because someone accused me of queue jumping.
And Godsgift, what you said sums it up completely.
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The day I received the papers for divorce from my first wife, I took a 2 lb sledge to my wedding band. I think that if she had been there in front of me, I would've been tempted to hit her with it as that is how mad I was. There was no warning she was filing.
This separation from Shelia, I was more hurt than mad. After talking to her the other night, we're going to take things slow and see where things go.
Earl
This separation from Shelia, I was more hurt than mad. After talking to her the other night, we're going to take things slow and see where things go.
Earl
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Raynew1959: The day I received the papers for divorce from my first wife, I took a 2 lb sledge to my wedding band. I think that if she had been there in front of me, I would've been tempted to hit her with it as that is how mad I was. There was no warning she was filing.
This separation from Shelia, I was more hurt than mad. After talking to her the other night, we're going to take things slow and see where things go.
Earl
This separation from Shelia, I was more hurt than mad. After talking to her the other night, we're going to take things slow and see where things go.
Earl
Was quite some time after the divorce from my first wife that I wanted anything to do with a female
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No matter how profund your hurt, it will dwell in your past.
Once your open to new awaikinings your back to live again.
Even if he/she broke your heart, when things are over they are gone for good.
Be sure if there is still love they will look for it, fight for it ! If it is not there; you can not make it be there.
Time is the best healer of all in those first days of your broken heart!!
Once your open to new awaikinings your back to live again.
Even if he/she broke your heart, when things are over they are gone for good.
Be sure if there is still love they will look for it, fight for it ! If it is not there; you can not make it be there.
Time is the best healer of all in those first days of your broken heart!!
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chocolateflavour: It is honestly true that the first days you knew you broke / separated / divorced with your love / partner / boyfriend / girlfriend / husband / wife or even with your "you-think-could-be-future-mate", is the most difficult one EVER in your life, no matter how many times you experienced the same in your life. Some said it is the lowest moment in their lives, don't know what to do next with everything uncertain.
Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?
Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?
The first day and many more after. I just shut everyone out and cried myself to sleep...
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chocolateflavour: It is honestly true that the first days you knew you broke / separated / divorced with your love / partner / boyfriend / girlfriend / husband / wife or even with your "you-think-could-be-future-mate", is the most difficult one EVER in your life, no matter how many times you experienced the same in your life. Some said it is the lowest moment in their lives, don't know what to do next with everything uncertain.
Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?
Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?
Yes and no.
Sometimes people just decide together that it won't work so it is amicable.
Sometimes people remember only the good things about the other person and not the bad things or the reasons they called it quits in the first place. They romanticize it. Truthfully, it will never be the way they want it or they would still be in that relationship.
The trick is to not let it go so far that you actually "hate" the other person. Let it go.
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Zellarrone1: about the first days of being broke being the hardest.. I find the middle days and also the final days of being broke a nitemare too
Yeah, it's been a year and a half since my wife divorced me after 35 years. I'm not too sure that I'll ever recover. Too long of a time and I'm too old to care. I'm only here for the forums and not interested in finding someone new. I'm really not datable material anyway.
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6 months into a separation, it feels worse than the first days when I went into complete denial. What works for me is sleeping the pain away.
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Godsgift: Oh God don't remind me of that horrible black place. That terrible inner emptyness. The knowledge that your life will never be the same again. Waking up alone in the morning and realising that it's not a dream and trying to find the willingness and energy to face the day.
When yesterday you were sure what direction your life was heading, today it feels like someone has thrown in a hand grenade and even if you could find the pieces, you couldn't put it back together.
All your dreams are gone in the blink of an eye.
Nope. Never experienced that!
When yesterday you were sure what direction your life was heading, today it feels like someone has thrown in a hand grenade and even if you could find the pieces, you couldn't put it back together.
All your dreams are gone in the blink of an eye.
Nope. Never experienced that!
You sir, have taken the words right out of my mouth...
Good God, I hope I NEVER find myself in this state EVER again. It could almost be compared to the death of a loved one...
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Can't say my heart was really ever broken. I cried the first time for about an hour, but then just said screw it and moved on. The second I celebrated. 
The third I forgot about until I realized one day that I hadn't heard from him in over a week. 
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chocolateflavour:
Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?
Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?
Yep, last August went partying with my friends and a week later went on a date. Figured no point pining over a guy that would dump me for no reason.
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Godsgift: Oh God don't remind me of that horrible black place. That terrible inner emptyness. The knowledge that your life will never be the same again. Waking up alone in the morning and realising that it's not a dream and trying to find the willingness and energy to face the day.
When yesterday you were sure what direction your life was heading, today it feels like someone has thrown in a hand grenade and even if you could find the pieces, you couldn't put it back together.
All your dreams are gone in the blink of an eye.
Nope. Never experienced that!
When yesterday you were sure what direction your life was heading, today it feels like someone has thrown in a hand grenade and even if you could find the pieces, you couldn't put it back together.
All your dreams are gone in the blink of an eye.
Nope. Never experienced that!
Said So well.....
and I SO relate to every word.
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You want me to knock him off for you[/quote
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sweetie,
Thanks that would be great, but you only have to do it ONCE
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sweetie,Thanks that would be great, but you only have to do it ONCE
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In response to: It is honestly true that the first days you knew you broke / separated / divorced with your love / partner / boyfriend / girlfriend / husband / wife or even with your "you-think-could-be-future-mate", is the most difficult one EVER in your life, no matter how many times you experienced the same in your life. Some said it is the lowest moment in their lives, don't know what to do next with everything uncertain.
Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?
Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?
You've been given an opportunity to change the road you were traveling. Go shopping, get a new hair style, pamper yourself, go window shopping if you don't have money, start a new business or something. Get over it and get yourself busy because break ups are just a part of life. Of course you will need time to reflect and figure out if there is something to learn from it all. But afterwards, move on girl there are plenty of men for your picking.
Best Wishes!
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it is the lowest moment, but somehow I'm gonna pull my A@@ out of my head and move on...there are plenty of men on here, and we're all shopping at this point, they've forgotten us, so what do youd do?! I'm probably going to cry alot, lament, lick my wounds like a dog(I won't howl thank God)but we have to move on..staying lost in a puddle of love that's not meant for us, only we'ere drowning, let a friend throw you a life ring and move on...no matter how hard that is...don't drown, I feel like drowning right now but I have no control, and I don't want to control anyone...
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Readybake101: That is a cute Hush Puppy basset hound. Yeah, I went into the Connecting Singles and meandered. Then I started to miss the clonazapam -- and then i started to think about the poor again and how they live without my money --
In all honesty get a punching bag -- hang some nuts on it and kick it til the cows come home.
In all honesty get a punching bag -- hang some nuts on it and kick it til the cows come home.
LOL!Love it!
I think you have to be good to yourself in those first post break up days, and just remember that this too shall pass.
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chocolateflavour: It is honestly true that the first days you knew you broke / separated / divorced with your love / partner / boyfriend / girlfriend / husband / wife or even with your "you-think-could-be-future-mate", is the most difficult one EVER in your life, no matter how many times you experienced the same in your life. Some said it is the lowest moment in their lives, don't know what to do next with everything uncertain.
Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?
Do you still remember what did you do on the first days of your broken heart - probably to ease your emotional hurt and pain?
I'm going to be perfectly honest with you...from the first day...to...today, I can't see any easing up of the pain of a breakup...when it clearly did not have to be...and was done so selfishly
....But, I know that which does not break me only serves to make me stronger
...so stronger I will be
EarthAngel
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