todger: You smooth talking S.O.B .... I could fall in love with you every day
But who I want dont want me and dont know what they are missing and its not unrequited love before you say it
Hola.... Awwwwww come here and gimme a hug everyday... I understand what your saying, I have been there before Sadly we can't love enough for two, All we can do is move forward, you know what they say, Where one door closes another one opens.
I am the SAME romantic person in the real world as you put it,and with my choosen partner, and I dont feel expressing my inner most thoughts and feelings and my romantic ideals as WASTED on CS at all, in fact I find it liberating and enjoyable.
You are different and thats good.....no one is saying your not a romantic person... you just choose to express it, when and where you choose.....as do I
your always so serious
I´m not so serious in reality, though I agree I may appear so here. The oldies on CS know me better thankfully.
Perhaps what I really meant to say is that being overly romantic with everybody as some are here, kind of waters down the emotion and it loses its allure. In addition it can, and indeed has on many occasions, be misinterpreted by some as more than it actually is...ie playful flirting.
trish123: Yep, I always say that two people attract each other as individuals and then often they go on to stifle each other with demands to change.....
I was falling in love too soon, skipping over the being friends stage, so l was driving them away. One of the answers to that l came up with was to make a profile that was almost bland.
What need's to be in place, do you think, for this magical fairly ellusive experiance to happend again in your life?
Deb
for me, it's not really a "what" but a "who"... ...i know that my life has to be in a certain bit of order for someone to want me but, wanting someone else will happen when that right gal comes along...i just hope i have my life in order when she does come along...and i hope i have'nt passed her by, somewhere on the steet, already... ...ok, now i'm depressed...
Daish: What will it take or does it take for YOU to actually fall in love again..?
What need's to be in place, do you think, for this magical fairly ellusive experiance to happend again in your life?
We are all different with what we need to feel THAT feeling.
Sharing is Caring
Deb
I have no idea what it will take for me to fall in love again. I'm not sure what happened the first time. I know that I would like to experience it again but my circumstances have changed so much since the first time that I almost doubt it will happen ever again...lol. I'm not complaining, my only relationship lasted 29 years, 22 of them married to her. I think what all this comes down to is, I think, working on it or putting things in place may not be the best way to go. Live your life and keep your eyes and emotions open to the possibility, but don't push it. It will just happen when the time is right.
Hey! aren't you the taco lov'in guy? I figured your response to this thread would be simple. "Make me some awesome tacos and I'll love ya forever" !!!!
You did not say what kind of love. So I can tell you in all honesty I fall in love everyday I love people and life. Like you said sharing is caring. And love is a state of mind. A willingness to allow yourself to look at this wonderful world. Thank you for the wonderful topic.
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But who I want dont want me and dont know what they are missing and its not unrequited love before you say it
Hola.... Awwwwww come here and gimme a hug everyday... I understand what your saying, I have been there before Sadly we can't love enough for two, All we can do is move forward, you know what they say, Where one door closes another one opens.
Good luck to you my friend..