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Mar 23, 2010 9:38 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
wave Me again batting

What will it take or does it take for YOU to actually fall in love again..?

What need's to be in place, do you think, for this magical fairly ellusive experiance to happend again in your life?

We are all different with what we need to feel THAT feeling.

Sharing is Caring bouquet

Deb lips
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Mar 23, 2010 9:43 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
sweetlyscented1: Me again

What will it take or does it take for YOU to actually fall in love again..?

What need's to be in place, do you think, for this magical fairly ellusive experiance to happend again in your life?

We are all different with what we need to feel THAT feeling.

Sharing is Caring

Deb
Geez, I know exactly what it is but I can't...put it into words. There never seems to be any awkwardness. the first kiss just happens. You never seem to run out of things to talk about. You have problems but getting past them is like falling off a log.??????????teddybear
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Mar 23, 2010 9:44 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
bob1959: Geez, I know exactly what it is but I can't...put it into words. There never seems to be any awkwardness. the first kiss just happens. You never seem to run out of things to talk about. You have problems but getting past them is like falling off a log.??????????
I hope i feel it again someday!
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Mar 23, 2010 9:44 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
sweetlyscented1: Me again

What will it take or does it take for YOU to actually fall in love again..?

What need's to be in place, do you think, for this magical fairly ellusive experiance to happend again in your life?

We are all different with what we need to feel THAT feeling.

Sharing is Caring

Deb


What needs to be in place?laugh That sounds so Western culture and strange ways of the white people---a native Indian would saylaugh

It's really so easy to fall in love---so easy, so easy---yeah-yeah!!! All it takes is having an open heart and allowing to receive what warm heart you have crossed paths with.
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Mar 23, 2010 9:49 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
StressFree: What needs to be in place? That sounds so Western culture and strange ways of the white people---a native Indian would say
It's really so easy to fall in love---so easy, so easy---yeah-yeah!!! All it takes is having an open heart and allowing to receive what warm heart you have crossed paths with.


what do you expect I am a western white person...doh and an Aussie at that......MATE laugh

Kemo sabe laugh

But NOT an Aussie out Back Chick....scold tongue
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Mar 23, 2010 9:51 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
bob1959: I hope i feel it again someday!



smitten I KNOW I will..... I have to its a MUST in my life

being IN LOVE is one of the most amazing experiances life can offer and also one of the most heartbreaking ones too....

Sighs!!!talk about extreme highs and lows doh
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Mar 23, 2010 9:59 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
sweetlyscented1: Me again

What will it take or does it take for YOU to actually fall in love again..?

What need's to be in place, do you think, for this magical fairly ellusive experiance to happend again in your life?

We are all different with what we need to feel THAT feeling.

Sharing is Caring

Deb


One thing I have learned ....."magic" is a euphoric experience always followed by repeatetive learning expereince ...doh
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Mar 23, 2010 10:01 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
jvaski: One thing I have learned ....."magic" is a euphoric experience always followed by repeatetive learning expereince ...
oh, bah humbugdoh
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Mar 23, 2010 10:04 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
felixis99: oh, bah humbug



laugh laugh laugh laugh
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Mar 23, 2010 10:06 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
sweetlyscented1: what do you expect I am a western white person... and an Aussie at that......MATE

Kemo sabe

But NOT an Aussie out Back Chick....


laugh I was just trying be funny, or amuse myselflaugh

I realize it's not easy for a lot of people to just fall in love again,considering the past or their present state of being---like how some are just not ready to fall in love if they may need some time alone to find balance and harmony within themselves. So I guess you were right, there does need to be something in place. And that is having inner-love and harmony within. If you can have this, then the probabilities for cultivating a new love goes up dramatically.
This is not absolute though since life is full of surprises and it's not out of the question that it may take a special person at the right time to show you a different door that allows in some light. And BOOM! You're falling in love!!!

It's said that we need so many reasons to be happy or fall in love. We should just be happy and fall and love, easier said than done---I know. Anything is possible though! Being is believing and believing is being!

head banger
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Mar 23, 2010 10:08 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
She would have to have three goats, a pig and a cow for her dowry.
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Mar 23, 2010 10:12 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
kkitty2
kkitty2kkitty2somewhere in Minnesota, Minnesota USA19 Threads 6 Polls 445 Posts
Big_John: She would have to have three goats, a pig and a cow for her dowry.


how about 2 goats, a cat and a puppy ? dunno
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Mar 23, 2010 10:12 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
sweetlyscented1: Me again

What will it take or does it take for YOU to actually fall in love again..?

What need's to be in place, do you think, for this magical fairly ellusive experiance to happend again in your life?

We are all different with what we need to feel THAT feeling.

Sharing is Caring

Deb


Not much - but a whole heckuva lot, Sweetlyscented. It will have to be a lot feeling it right away, and a lot of it will have to come from him. I'm pretty bruised. I am needy, but not in a co-dependent yucky way. But in a way that will require maturity, honesty and loyalty in a partner ~ I've had a lot of ups & downs...............so it will have to be more ups than downs, and the passion - he only has eyes for me - HAS to be there. I need that. And I am honest about that & my other shortcomings. Not that there's a lot of them, but I have my share. I need to be accepted for who I am. I don't want someone I will want to "change" and I do not want anyone to try to change me. I'm pretty frisky & foxy as is.

My age cannot be an issue -even a passing mention of it is an instant no turning back turn off - it has to be a not noticed, not cared about non issue. I just had a guy tell me that he can't believe I'm the age I am. I know it was meant as a compliment as I do look young for my age, but even mentioned in a complimentary way, it is a NO - an instant turn off. Why? It shows he's age concious............unacceptabledunno
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Mar 23, 2010 10:21 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
Daish
DaishDaishRonan, Montana USA1 Threads 11 Posts
What will it take or does it take for YOU to actually fall in love again..?

What need's to be in place, do you think, for this magical fairly ellusive experiance to happend again in your life?

We are all different with what we need to feel THAT feeling.

Sharing is Caring

Deb

I have no idea what it will take for me to fall in love again. I'm not sure what happened the first time. I know that I would like to experience it again but my circumstances have changed so much since the first time that I almost doubt it will happen ever again...lol. I'm not complaining, my only relationship lasted 29 years, 22 of them married to her. I think what all this comes down to is, I think, working on it or putting things in place may not be the best way to go. Live your life and keep your eyes and emotions open to the possibility, but don't push it. It will just happen when the time is right.
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Mar 23, 2010 10:22 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
Big_John: She would have to have three goats, a pig and a cow for her dowry.


HEY that sort of thing belongs in another thread rolling on the floor laughing are you looking at marrying the whole 5 of them.....doh laugh
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Mar 23, 2010 10:24 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
It's a simple question to answer...just not so easy to find...

The right man. A man who is a little bit smarter, stronger and better able to deal with things then I am.

A man that I admire and trust enough to give every aspect of myself to knowing that his strength protects me.

A man that shares my irreverent sense of humour and my sensual nature while experiencing as much living as can be sucked up in a lifetime.



I know... not quite what you expected....laugh
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Mar 23, 2010 10:43 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
cgedvr
cgedvrcgedvrSo. Cal, California USA40 Threads 2,088 Posts
jbibiza: It's a simple question to answer...just not so easy to find...

The right man. A man who is a little bit smarter, stronger and better able to deal with things then I am.

A man that I admire and trust enough to give every aspect of myself to knowing that his strength protects me.

A man that shares my irreverent sense of humour and my sensual nature while experiencing as much living as can be sucked up in a lifetime.
I know... not quite what you expected....
Stop it....your becoming so much hotter than several of the women on this siteblushing lol
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Mar 23, 2010 10:57 PM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
cgedvr: Stop it....your becoming so much hotter than several of the women on this site lol



laugh Easy to say when you're thousands of miles away...where were you 10 years ago when I still lived in CA? tongue laugh
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Mar 24, 2010 5:25 AM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
BootyliciousGal
BootyliciousGalBootyliciousGalAyia Napa, Famagusta Cyprus60 Threads 1,534 Posts
felixis99: Not much - but a whole heckuva lot, Sweetlyscented. It will have to be a lot feeling it right away, and a lot of it will have to come from him. I'm pretty bruised. I am needy, but not in a co-dependent yucky way. But in a way that will

require maturity, honesty and loyalty in a partner ~ I've had a lot of ups & downs...............so it will have to be more ups than downs, and the passion - he only has eyes for me - HAS to be there. I need that. And I am honest about that & my other shortcomings. Not that there's a lot of them, but I have my share. I need to be accepted for who I am. I don't want someone I will want to "change" and I do not want anyone to try to change me. I'm pretty frisky & foxy as is.

My age cannot be an issue -even a passing mention of it is an instant no turning back turn off - it has to be a not noticed, not cared about non issue. I just had a guy tell me that he can't believe I'm the age I am. I know it was meant as a compliment as I do look young for my age, but even mentioned in a complimentary way, it is a NO - an instant turn off. Why? It shows he's age conscious


Hi felix wave

You we are definitely on the same page in what you say above and you echo my thoughts exactly thumbs up sad flower
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Mar 24, 2010 5:41 AM CST Falling In LOVE!!!
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
StressFree: What needs to be in place? That sounds so Western culture and strange ways of the white people---a native Indian would say

It's really so easy to fall in love---so easy, so easy---yeah-yeah!!! All it takes is having an open heart and allowing to receive what warm heart you have crossed paths with.


Yep, I always say that two people attract each other as individuals and then often they go on to stifle each other with demands to change.....
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