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#41
Apr 25, 2010 4:53 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
bamabulldog08
bamabulldog08bamabulldog08tuscaloosa, Alabama USA24 Threads 972 Posts
bamabulldog08tuscaloosa, Alabama USA972 posts
niall69: i believe its quite possible to have feelings for some1 u have never met...ud b suprised...and it also means that you both know each other very well bfore you meet...so yes..it can happen


Not me, I don't believe you can really know someone without spending time together in the real world...professor
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#42
Apr 25, 2010 5:01 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
gleneagle
gleneaglegleneagleNew York City, New York USA36 Threads 3 Polls 1,147 Posts
gleneagleNew York City, New York USA1,147 posts
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but
wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????

I think anybody who falls in love as easily as on line might have an emotional vacuum in their lives and I for one would see it as a red flag.
However it sure beats those folks that write to lifers in jail and get married even though they never can have a normal life.
I suppose any thing is possible
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#43
Apr 25, 2010 5:08 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia3,060 posts
Ahhh so many ponder this question, and it does happen to people, but if your talking TRUE love deep real and very passionate love, then even if you meet someone at a club or at work or on line, THIS kind of deep understanding love, comes upon time spent together, sharing LIFE and its experiances, making love, experiancing life's ups and downs TOGETHER side by side...THIS IS what forges a REAL TRUE AND DEEP love connection....

Falling in love on line...well its a pre cursor to meeting and forging a life.....and lasting love together.

Yes its possible to fall in small love.....but that BIG love nah you have to share your life to know TRUE love......smitten heart wings
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#44
Apr 25, 2010 5:09 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but
wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????
wouldnt say its impossible,just because hasnt happened to me.isnt this the way to meet people todaydunno
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#45
Apr 25, 2010 5:10 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia3,060 posts
cherrybrandy: wouldnt say its impossible,just because hasnt happened to me.isnt this the way to meet people today


Morning Cherry girl wave bouquet
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#46
Apr 25, 2010 5:11 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK13,724 posts
sweetlyscented1: Ahhh so many ponder this question, and it does happen to people, but if your talking TRUE love deep real and very passionate love, then even if you meet someone at a club or at work or on line, THIS kind of deep understanding love, comes upon time spent together, sharing LIFE and its experiances, making love, experiancing life's ups and downs TOGETHER side by side...THIS IS what forges a REAL TRUE AND DEEP love connection....

Falling in love on line...well its a pre cursor to meeting and forging a life.....and lasting love together.

Yes its possible to fall in small love.....but that BIG love nah you have to share your life to know TRUE love......


Well said SS thumbs up I couldnt agree more!

I always say that love is what you get when your friendship has proved it can stand some of the tests of time and reality.......
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#47
Apr 25, 2010 5:12 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
MovinFWD
MovinFWDMovinFWDDaytona Beach, Florida USA36 Threads 3,234 Posts
MovinFWDDaytona Beach, Florida USA3,234 posts
sweetlyscented1: Ahhh so many ponder this question, and it does happen to people, but if your talking TRUE love deep real and very passionate love, then even if you meet someone at a club or at work or on line, THIS kind of deep understanding love, comes upon time spent together, sharing LIFE and its experiances, making love, experiancing life's ups and downs TOGETHER side by side...THIS IS what forges a REAL TRUE AND DEEP love connection....

Falling in love on line...well its a pre cursor to meeting and forging a life.....and lasting love together.

Yes its possible to fall in small love.....but that BIG love nah you have to share your life to know TRUE love......
That's beautifulsmitten
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#48
Apr 25, 2010 5:13 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
sweetlyscented1: Morning Cherry girl
morning to you sweet ladyteddybear almost midnight hereheart wings
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#49
Apr 25, 2010 5:14 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA8,881 posts
Jasara: Nope dont think so.. I think one can fall in love with the image of the person they have built up in their heads through emails or IM's..has to be a big anti climax when they do meet..


Not at all. Wasn't for me (quite the opposite!). smitten smitten
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#50
Apr 25, 2010 5:24 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia3,060 posts
cherrybrandy: morning to you sweet lady almost midnight here


teddybear almost nigh nigh time for you all...teddybear
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#51
Apr 25, 2010 5:29 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but
wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????


I think there are certain steps to falling in love, meeting online is just one of those steps. Meeting in RL another. While some have gotten 'lucky' that the fantasy was the same as the reality there is a saying we have here:

See me and come live with me is two different things.

If the reality always fitted the bill then CS should have become a ghost town by now.wine
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#52
Apr 25, 2010 5:37 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Big_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA9,767 posts
englishelegance: I think you can be very attracted to a person youv'e never met, but no i don't think you can fall in love without meeting and really getting to know the person first.


I agree with this.
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#53
Apr 25, 2010 5:39 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia3,060 posts
Big_John: I agree with this.


yay Hi big john....of course you agree and I know why giggle

and I dont blame you one bit teddybear
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#54
Apr 25, 2010 5:49 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
equiyaunknown, Ontario Canada4,055 posts
wordking: i thought that was crap but i was talking to a woman on the phone never met her , but she swore she was in love called me day and night in love texed me 10 times a day i changed my number


I would too. I think that's craziness rather than love from her. That woman was or is sick and too needy.
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#55
Apr 25, 2010 5:50 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
canuckken
canuckkencanuckkenAirdrie, Alberta Canada7 Threads 141 Posts
canuckkenAirdrie, Alberta Canada141 posts
I think it is quite possible. I see very little difference between spending time with someone in person or online accept for the physical. If someone puts their best foot forward online they can do it in person. If someone is not honest online they can also be dishonest face to face. I do not have a good definition for love but I believe it happens when you spend time with someone and get to know that person, period. Some people spend long hours online getting to know someone and are disappointed after the meeting. But how many people think they are in love, get married and then end up saying he is not the man or woman I thought they were.
Love means different things to different people and it is not just a feeling. Just because you have something going on through Internet does not mean it is infatuation or lust. There can be an emotional, spiritual and I believe even a love connection through use of a keyboard, mic. and web cam.
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#56
Apr 25, 2010 6:00 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA8,881 posts
canuckken: I think it is quite possible. I see very little difference between spending time with someone in person or online accept for the physical. If someone puts their best foot forward online they can do it in person. If someone is not honest online they can also be dishonest face to face. I do not have a good definition for love but I believe it happens when you spend time with someone and get to know that person, period. Some people spend long hours online getting to know someone and are disappointed after the meeting. But how many people think they are in love, get married and then end up saying he is not the man or woman I thought they were.
Love means different things to different people and it is not just a feeling. Just because you have something going on through Internet does not mean it is infatuation or lust. There can be an emotional, spiritual and I believe even a love connection through use of a keyboard, mic. and web cam.


thumbs up You're quite correct, despite your country-affiliation, Canuck. laugh wave
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#57
Apr 25, 2010 6:04 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
mjamesnapa, California USA779 posts
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but
wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????


You can't; it takes time; some more than others but you are right,
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#58
Apr 25, 2010 6:06 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
chattymary: i seen people on this site fall head over heals ven wanna marry each other but they havin even met yet.you can get to know someone and really like someone enough to wanna meet and see how it goes but
wat im asking is can u fall in love with a person u have never met??????

Yes, you can fall in love with someone you have never met, but to fall in "real" love...... the one that lasts a lifetime is something else...... you need to meet and spend a lot of time together.
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#59
Apr 25, 2010 6:06 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK13,724 posts
canuckken: I think it is quite possible. I see very little difference between spending time with someone in person or online accept for the physical. If someone puts their best foot forward online they can do it in person. If someone is not honest online they can also be dishonest face to face. I do not have a good definition for love but I believe it happens when you spend time with someone and get to know that person, period. Some people spend long hours online getting to know someone and are disappointed after the meeting. But how many people think they are in love, get married and then end up saying he is not the man or woman I thought they were.
Love means different things to different people and it is not just a feeling. Just because you have something going on through Internet does not mean it is infatuation or lust. There can be an emotional, spiritual and I believe even a love connection through use of a keyboard, mic. and web cam.


Your words remind me of that "reason, season or lifetime" saying;

A R E A S O N A S E A S O N O R A L I F E T I M E

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

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#60
Apr 25, 2010 6:06 PM CST how can ya fall in love if ya never met
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
jeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
equiya: I would too. I think that's craziness rather than love from her. That woman was or is sick and too needy.
Or simply obsessed wink
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