What's the point of writing (41)
waytoomuch4uPortland, Oregon USA1 Threads 1 PostsI am just wondering how many people really want to date on this site. I have given up on writing to men. It seems to be a waste of time. The ones that write me don't read my profile and write me from all around the world. How do you date someone you have to fly to see? I just wanted to know what's the point of writing if there is no answer. I answer back even if they live far away or I don't feel they are a match. Seems like a right thing to do.
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waytoomuch4u: I am just wondering how many people really want to date on this site. I have given up on writing to men. It seems to be a waste of time. The ones that write me don't read my profile and write me from all around the world. How do you date someone you have to fly to see? I just wanted to know what's the point of writing if there is no answer. I answer back even if they live far away or I don't feel they are a match. Seems like a right thing to do.
Hi
Sometimes people will reply, sometimes they won't, that is just the way it is. It takes time to find someone with things in commom i guess. Participating in the forums, blogs etc is a good way of knowing people and them to get to know you.
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it's a process 
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plainlyjune: it's a process
It worked for me!!
I met my love right here!!
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Margarete: Hi
Sometimes people will reply, sometimes they won't, that is just the way it is. It takes time to find someone with things in commom i guess. Participating in the forums, blogs etc is a good way of knowing people and them to get to know you.
Sometimes people will reply, sometimes they won't, that is just the way it is. It takes time to find someone with things in commom i guess. Participating in the forums, blogs etc is a good way of knowing people and them to get to know you.
You can get to know allsorts of folk here some really good down to the bad ones. But it is your choice who you get to know well and yes posting on the forums letss folk know you......It is fun as well getting to hear and exchange views with folk from different countries...JMO
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patmac: You can get to know allsorts of folk here some really good down to the bad ones. But it is your choice who you get to know well and yes posting on the forums letss folk know you......It is fun as well getting to hear and exchange views with folk from different countries...JMO
but watch out for this one
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dunno ... but keep trying :)
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waytoomuch4u: I am just wondering how many people really want to date on this site. I have given up on writing to men. It seems to be a waste of time. The ones that write me don't read my profile and write me from all around the world. How do you date someone you have to fly to see? I just wanted to know what's the point of writing if there is no answer. I answer back even if they live far away or I don't feel they are a match. Seems like a right thing to do.
Not everybody is looking for their soulmate on this site...some people just come to talk,have fun,shoot the breeze,make a few friends;
...but I SENSE the majority are looking for the one,or at least to date,and if you're not looking for it,you're either a scammer or a player...
Pathetic.
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waytoomuch4u: I am just wondering how many people really want to date on this site. I have given up on writing to men. It seems to be a waste of time. The ones that write me don't read my profile and write me from all around the world. How do you date someone you have to fly to see? I just wanted to know what's the point of writing if there is no answer. I answer back even if they live far away or I don't feel they are a match. Seems like a right thing to do.
You just have to keep at it. Eventually you will find what you seek, its just the seeking that seems to stretch into eternity
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waytoomuch4u: I am just wondering how many people really want to date on this site. I have given up on writing to men. It seems to be a waste of time. The ones that write me don't read my profile and write me from all around the world. How do you date someone you have to fly to see? I just wanted to know what's the point of writing if there is no answer. I answer back even if they live far away or I don't feel they are a match. Seems like a right thing to do.
Winners never quit and quitters never win
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Amity: but watch out for this one morning lovey
Who me I'm a quiet wee lad, I nver say a lot
Honest, just possibly have a laugh every now and then..... ------ This thread is Archived ------
patmac: Who me I'm a quiet wee lad, I nver say a lot Honest, just possibly have a laugh every now and then.....
you are lovely..xxx------ This thread is Archived ------
waytoomuch4u: I am just wondering how many people really want to date on this site. I have given up on writing to men. It seems to be a waste of time. The ones that write me don't read my profile and write me from all around the world. How do you date someone you have to fly to see? I just wanted to know what's the point of writing if there is no answer. I answer back even if they live far away or I don't feel they are a match. Seems like a right thing to do.
Well, all i can say is, Just be positive all the time and expect less and base on my observation, the less you expect , the more chances you can find......
.....Just enjoy in everything you do and have fun..... 
.....It works for me.....
....The reason i expect less is, so that frustration can be avoided as i dont message any guy first unless they message me first and i reply....Maybe i dont have the guts to message them first as Im a shy type of a person .....and in a addition to that, at least the fun is still there as you wait for the right guy to come but just dont expect so much so you dont get frustrated..
Love find its way and oppps...yesss..i bump on someone....
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thewall2: Not everybody is looking for their soulmate on this site...some people just come to talk,have fun,shoot the breeze,make a few friends;
...but I SENSE the majority are looking for the one,or at least to date,and if you're not looking for it,you're either a scammer or a player...Pathetic.
...but I SENSE the majority are looking for the one,or at least to date,and if you're not looking for it,you're either a scammer or a player...Pathetic.
Oi! I'm neither a scammer, nor a player, but neither am I looking for it. If love comes my way, great. If not, great.
Friendship is good, though. I'd be a very unhappy bunny without friends.
Jac xxx
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waytoomuch4u: I am just wondering how many people really want to date on this site. I have given up on writing to men. It seems to be a waste of time. The ones that write me don't read my profile and write me from all around the world. How do you date someone you have to fly to see? I just wanted to know what's the point of writing if there is no answer. I answer back even if they live far away or I don't feel they are a match. Seems like a right thing to do.
Dear Waytoomuch,
You are quite right, the distance factor is the main problem on CS or any similar site. How can you build a relationship with someone you cannot actually meet tomorrow or next week or next month? That's a very important question. Even more important though is the answer: somehow, you can. Love (or attraction, if you will) transcends mileage.
It's quite reasonable to hope to meet someone who lives within 25 or 50 or 100 miles of you. But love is not reasonable. My own sweetheart's profile specifies men within 100 miles. Yet we live 800 miles apart. Neither of us planned this, of course. But that is what happened and now we try to work out the obstacles, rather than let the obstacles stymie us.
I mean to give you heart here, but I might as well add, if it is obvious a contact knows nothing of your profile beyond name and pic, they are not worth your time.
Please don't give up hope. CS can work, as I and Trulee (and others) can attest. I've not viewed your profile myself, but your statement that you reply to all indicates a sensitive and caring person. If you give it time I believe you will find someone to love here. How long that might be no one can guess. But it does happen, and it might be tomorrow.
With best wishes,
D'Agosto
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Veritaas: Ones thread and posting history speaks for itself, you sure about the occasional part there!
Occasional.......every day, on occasional threads...... ------ This thread is Archived ------
patmac: Occasional.......every day, on occasional threads......
Oh, we have the occasional chat...lol
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Merriweather: Oh, we have the occasional chat...lol
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waytoomuch4u: I am just wondering how many people really want to date on this site. I have given up on writing to men. It seems to be a waste of time. The ones that write me don't read my profile and write me from all around the world. How do you date someone you have to fly to see? I just wanted to know what's the point of writing if there is no answer. I answer back even if they live far away or I don't feel they are a match. Seems like a right thing to do.
you don't say how long you've been a member on this site - but i think you should keep trying, who knows 'he' might join tomorrow and oops you missed him! tag yourself and yes, chat on the forums, it's time consuming to reply to all who mail you and some are scammers of course, but it does raise your chances of finding new friends and possibly more than friends...don't give up..
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