Jealousy (271)
Boban1: nope... your not....
Don't make me chase you, Bo!
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Great thread and topic fair dues to you.
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Conrad73: This one got off to an early start!
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lostinspace: Great thread and topic fair dues to you.
Thank you, Lostinspace
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P.S. I meant
for a compliment AND for a great input/thoughts on a topic.
for a compliment AND for a great input/thoughts on a topic.
Laura25: Thank you, Lostinspace
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jvaski:
Good morning, J.
You didn't like this one?
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false pride? ego?
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Laura25: Jealousy is a normal human emotion.
Just like any other -- love, fear, sadness, joy, anger, etc., etc.
Why is that most CSers try so hard convincing each other
that they themselves never experience this *dirty* emotion and
don't want anything to do with those who do feel this emotion?
Hypocrisy?
Denial?
Popcorn?
Just like any other -- love, fear, sadness, joy, anger, etc., etc.
Why is that most CSers try so hard convincing each other
that they themselves never experience this *dirty* emotion and
don't want anything to do with those who do feel this emotion?
Hypocrisy?
Denial?
Popcorn?
ah well noone's perfect. Any pop corn left?
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Laura25: Good morning, J.
You didn't like this one?
You didn't like this one?
I don't think kids should be embracing each other like that until they're a little older ......
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As I lay on the settee last night trying to sleep I was extremely madly insanely jealous of the giant moth who had my king size bed all to itself...
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boomboom_uk: As I lay on the settee last night trying to sleep I was extremely madly insanely jealous of the giant moth who had my king size bed all to itself... ..
I am extremely madly insanely jealous of your giant king size bed...
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lostinspace: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Irl5Nt6ENF4
Love it!
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Laura25: Excellent point, Ruben.
What about the other way around? You are the one trying to communicate it to 'her'...
It's a very touchy subject and there is a probability that it can come across as accusation, mistrust, or even resentment. No matter how you word it.
Especially if attraction to other people is not an imaginary thing.
What about the other way around? You are the one trying to communicate it to 'her'...
It's a very touchy subject and there is a probability that it can come across as accusation, mistrust, or even resentment. No matter how you word it.
Especially if attraction to other people is not an imaginary thing.
True, communication is not easy, but I think for a good relationship to have a chance at longevity, communication has to be built and strengthened.
The problem with not communicating jealousy, is that the jealous person may started doing strange things like, being rude to your family or friends, slamming doors in their face when walking into a store and many things because of jealousy. Of course, I am talking about a very jealous person. But people do strange things to those that they are jealousy about.
When two people get together they must agree, when communicating that nothing is too far out or strong and both have to give each other allot of rope and really try to understand. If I were communicating with someone and they told me they were jealous, I would ask them to explain why and those answers give me the way to dig deeper and reassure the person that jealousy may be normal, but that it's not necessary by giving them reasons.
Again, I know it's not easy, but in the end, if the person really cares, then they will make an effort.
One of the reasons for normal jealousy is the fact that many people do not express their love to their BF or spouse enough. If both partners told each other how much they meant to each other their would be less jealousy, less arguments as less communication would be necessary. Then there would also be more love making which also reduces cheating!! Anyway TMHO!
I have to remind myself to close my quotations!!
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HealthyLiving: Good answers Rube! You have a mature outlook like I would want a man to have. I have written my previous profiles stating, "He can not be jealous. If another man looks at me from across the room, think to yourself, 'Eat your heart out, she's with me'."
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HL
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm... lmao!
It's explicitly stating a requirement for a potential partner to be a jealous type, no?
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jvaski:
I meant You and I dummy .......
Let's just work it out with mail .......
I meant You and I dummy .......
Let's just work it out with mail .......
You are no dummy, J.! 
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hello woman
im not quoting you quoting me so i can quote you
im gonna save that space for another poster
i will just say im not necessarily ashamed of my feelings but i do strive to be well-less bogged down by such things, for my own sake and there are character defects that i like to keep an eye on in myself but i dont have a standard of perfection that i beat myself up with anymore so im ok
i think introspection and awareness about me is good for me to keep growing but really man woman jealousy
i dunno ive felt hurt if i wasnt chosen but...i dunno-isnt being jealous having a twinge of fear that you will be left for someone else? i dont have that
i say fekem- they can go if they like
im not quoting you quoting me so i can quote you
im gonna save that space for another poster
i will just say im not necessarily ashamed of my feelings but i do strive to be well-less bogged down by such things, for my own sake and there are character defects that i like to keep an eye on in myself but i dont have a standard of perfection that i beat myself up with anymore so im ok
i think introspection and awareness about me is good for me to keep growing but really man woman jealousy
i dunno ive felt hurt if i wasnt chosen but...i dunno-isnt being jealous having a twinge of fear that you will be left for someone else? i dont have that
i say fekem- they can go if they like
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mindfful: hello woman
im not quoting you quoting me so i can quote you
im gonna save that space for another poster
i will just say im not necessarily ashamed of my feelings but i do strive to be well-less bogged down by such things, for my own sake and there are character defects that i like to keep an eye on in myself but i dont have a standard of perfection that i beat myself up with anymore so im ok
i think introspection and awareness about me is good for me to keep growing but really man woman jealousy
i dunno ive felt hurt if i wasnt chosen but...i dunno-isnt being jealous having a twinge of fear that you will be left for someone else? i dont have that
i say fekem- they can go if they like
im not quoting you quoting me so i can quote you
im gonna save that space for another poster
i will just say im not necessarily ashamed of my feelings but i do strive to be well-less bogged down by such things, for my own sake and there are character defects that i like to keep an eye on in myself but i dont have a standard of perfection that i beat myself up with anymore so im ok
i think introspection and awareness about me is good for me to keep growing but really man woman jealousy
i dunno ive felt hurt if i wasnt chosen but...i dunno-isnt being jealous having a twinge of fear that you will be left for someone else? i dont have that
i say fekem- they can go if they like
"i think introspection and awareness"
I think so too. That's about it.
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