Jealousy (271)
Laura25: Jealousy is a normal human emotion.
Just like any other -- love, fear, sadness, joy, anger, etc., etc.
Why is that most CSers try so hard convincing each other
that they themselves never experience this *dirty* emotion and
don't want anything to do with those who do feel this emotion?
Hypocrisy?
Denial?
Popcorn?
I am Not jealous Just like any other -- love, fear, sadness, joy, anger, etc., etc.
Why is that most CSers try so hard convincing each other
that they themselves never experience this *dirty* emotion and
don't want anything to do with those who do feel this emotion?
Hypocrisy?
Denial?
Popcorn?
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mindfful: oh yes that one is
hi jac
hi jac
Hi, minfful
How you doin'?
Jac xxx
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jac379: Hi, minfful
How you doin'?
Jac xxx
so soHow you doin'?
Jac xxx
starvin
im off to the shops
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mindfful: so so
starvin
im off to the shops
starvin
im off to the shops
Hey mind!If youse headin' out, wanna grab me a snack.. something spicy!!
Prefferably over 6 feet tall too!! ;)
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Raven0: Hey mind!
If youse headin' out, wanna grab me a snack.. something spicy!!
Prefferably over 6 feet tall too!! ;)
hossenfeffer....you did say 6 foot ...the human is only 5'9"....If youse headin' out, wanna grab me a snack.. something spicy!!
Prefferably over 6 feet tall too!! ;)
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What a topic. This CSer can not say she has never been jealous
I can't even say I have never done anything stupid because of it But I can say age has mellowed me greatly. Now I know when I feel the twinge that it is a lot of times my over active imagination. So since I have gotten tired of appologizing to people I do not react like I use too. 
What a topic. This CSer can not say she has never been jealous I can't even say I have never done anything stupid because of it But I can say age has mellowed me greatly. Now I know when I feel the twinge that it is a lot of times my over active imagination. So since I have gotten tired of appologizing to people I do not react like I use too. ------ This thread is Archived ------
I was once in a relationship which contained an intense element of jealousy... he would interrigate me 'bout the who's and what's of every man that even as mush are looked my way to discover him cheating on me not once (took him bk after begging me for a mth) but twice... I learnt a huge lesson that day... it's not just that he didn't trust me... it was the fact that he knew what he was doing behind my bk and I think he believed that if he was cheating I musta been too!! or more like, I must of been and was his justification to do the same... bla bla bla... for whatever reason I think if ya don't trust urself then how r you gonna trust others... it's a huge trust thing in my opinion and I'm glad I don't possess an ounce of it 
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Sometimes..and it's rare..I do get jealous but I find that taking a step back and reassessing the situation or communicating my feelings ratioanally usually eleviates this. I think poor behaviour due to jealousy is what is untolerable here.
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mariespoodles: I was once in a relationship which contained an intense element of jealousy... he would interrigate me 'bout the who's and what's of every man that even as mush are looked my way to discover him cheating on me not once (took him bk after begging me for a mth) but twice... I learnt a huge lesson that day... it's not just that he didn't trust me... it was the fact that he knew what he was doing behind my bk and I think he believed that if he was cheating I musta been too!! or more like, I must of been and was his justification to do the same... bla bla bla... for whatever reason I think if ya don't trust urself then how r you gonna trust others... it's a huge trust thing in my opinion and I'm glad I don't possess an ounce of it
Jealousy that is... not trust
got all the trust in me that I need hahaha!!
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Northof7:
Well the people who say they don't feel jealousy in one form or another are likely liars.
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Well the people who say they don't feel jealousy in one form or another are likely liars.
...
Absolutely agree.
Jealousy can be observed in children as young as half-year old, hence it's not a learnt behavior.
Northof7: ...
That said I have felt jealousy and it can be a hard feeling to control.
Once you learn to control it you will become a better person. If you are jealous of someone or something talk to your partner about it, don't let it eat at you to the point of an argument and a break-up.
Of course this is just an old country boy's life experience. Some people I am sure feel different and they should. We all have different feelings, that's what makes us different.
That said I have felt jealousy and it can be a hard feeling to control.
Once you learn to control it you will become a better person. If you are jealous of someone or something talk to your partner about it, don't let it eat at you to the point of an argument and a break-up.
Of course this is just an old country boy's life experience. Some people I am sure feel different and they should. We all have different feelings, that's what makes us different.
Great advice, North.
I don't think we've met yet. Welcome to CS.
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Great song...brings back memories.
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rubendario: It can be, but it can be communicated in a positive loving way. 'Your paying too much attention to that guy, I'm jealous!! Can be said with loving eyes and a big smile! If I had someone that communicated like that I would say. "So, it may appear, but your the only one for me, your like no other"(to put it mildly, I don't want to get too sappy here!) If there is a will, there is always a way.
It's also true that we are all also insecure in one way, degree or another. We are insecure about our hair, weight, and a host of many things, but communicating those insecurities will allow our significant other to play them down, reduce them as flows of unique beauty, what makes them special and above everyone else.
Communication to me, is the key to everything, why try to read someone's mind, when they can tell you exactly what their thinking and if negative, it can be talked-out and remedied.
It's also true that we are all also insecure in one way, degree or another. We are insecure about our hair, weight, and a host of many things, but communicating those insecurities will allow our significant other to play them down, reduce them as flows of unique beauty, what makes them special and above everyone else.
Communication to me, is the key to everything, why try to read someone's mind, when they can tell you exactly what their thinking and if negative, it can be talked-out and remedied.
Excellent point, Ruben.
What about the other way around? You are the one trying to communicate it to 'her'...
It's a very touchy subject and there is a probability that it can come across as accusation, mistrust, or even resentment. No matter how you word it.
Especially if attraction to other people is not an imaginary thing.
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thewall2: Great song...brings back memories.
Great song!
Hi Wall
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Laura25: Great song! Hi Wall
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Ocee35:
Exageration.
They say... "I don't get jealous."
They mean... "I haven't assualted anyone over
my petty insecurities, for several months."
Exageration.
They say... "I don't get jealous."
They mean... "I haven't assualted anyone over
my petty insecurities, for several months."
Applause!
Occee!
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Happygolucky4u: ooooooooooo What a topic. This CSer can not say she has never been jealous I can't even say I have never done anything stupid because of it But I can say age has mellowed me greatly. Now I know when I feel the twinge that it is a lot of times my over active imagination. So since I have gotten tired of appologizing to people I do not react like I use too.
Great post and
thank you for your honesty, HGL!
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mariespoodles: I was once in a relationship which contained an intense element of jealousy... he would interrigate me 'bout the who's and what's of every man that even as mush are looked my way to discover him cheating on me not once (took him bk after begging me for a mth) but twice... I learnt a huge lesson that day... it's not just that he didn't trust me... it was the fact that he knew what he was doing behind my bk and I think he believed that if he was cheating I musta been too!! or more like, I must of been and was his justification to do the same... bla bla bla... for whatever reason I think if ya don't trust urself then how r you gonna trust others... it's a huge trust thing in my opinion and I'm glad I don't possess an ounce of it
Sounds as if heeither projected his own rotten attitude on you,
or was trying to manipulate you -- ya know what they say about attack being the best form of defense...
Hope all is well with this fabulous new guy you are seeing now, Marie.
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Boban1:
Well I do have an opinion about it....but Im sure that you have heard it before....
Well I do have an opinion about it....but Im sure that you have heard it before....
My other fave poster... 
Shoot, Bo!
Your view-point I am very interested to hear. 
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strict:
i feel it just when somebody is important for me and my heart is beating for her like this
but it is a wide topic, some may be crazy,paranouid,narsist ,...
i feel it just when somebody is important for me and my heart is beating for her like this
but it is a wide topic, some may be crazy,paranouid,narsist ,...
Yes.
Absolutely!
You said it, Strict.
The range is very wide, and degree/depth of this emotion depends on many factors – from normal to undesirable, to abnormal, to psychotic.
To simplify this matter we won't discuss psychotic disorders here.
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