Inbox & Outbox messages gone? ( Archived) (14)

Jul 31, 2010 5:11 PM CST Inbox & Outbox messages gone?
blueisbest
blueisbestblueisbestBrisbane, Queensland Australia1 Threads 11 Posts
I have been messaging a nice male for a few days & have received lovely messages in return BUT today,have just looked in both Inbox & Outbox & there is no record of this person?I definitely haven't deleted any messages & they didn't say anything in the slightest bit inappropriate so just wonder if they've removed themselves from the site or something?I don't recall their id either so can't check that way.

Sorry if this sounds silly but it just seems odd.
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Jul 31, 2010 5:16 PM CST Inbox & Outbox messages gone?
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
blueisbest: I have been messaging a nice male for a few days & have received lovely messages in return BUT today,have just looked in both Inbox & Outbox & there is no record of this person?I definitely haven't deleted any messages & they didn't say anything in the slightest bit inappropriate so just wonder if they've removed themselves from the site or something?I don't recall their id either so can't check that way.

Sorry if this sounds silly but it just seems odd.


You've been messaging back and forth for a few days and you can't even guess at his member name? Ya know, if you can even come close, the Search function has a "Similiar" option.

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Jul 31, 2010 5:19 PM CST Inbox & Outbox messages gone?
cincity
cincitycincitytoronto, Ontario Canada9 Threads 2,496 Posts
In response to: I have been messaging a nice male for a few days & have received lovely messages in return BUT today,have just looked in both Inbox & Outbox & there is no record of this person?I definitely haven't deleted any messages & they didn't say anything in the slightest bit inappropriate so just wonder if they've removed themselves from the site or something?I don't recall their id either so can't check that way.

Sorry if this sounds silly but it just seems odd.
If all messages have disappeared then that person has been deleted by cs. If they leave on there own this does not happen.
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Jul 31, 2010 5:19 PM CST Inbox & Outbox messages gone?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
blueisbest: I have been messaging a nice male for a few days & have received lovely messages in return BUT today,have just looked in both Inbox & Outbox & there is no record of this person?I definitely haven't deleted any messages & they didn't say anything in the slightest bit inappropriate so just wonder if they've removed themselves from the site or something?I don't recall their id either so can't check that way.

Sorry if this sounds silly but it just seems odd.


he may have been removed from this site
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Jul 31, 2010 5:19 PM CST Inbox & Outbox messages gone?
merrilou
merriloumerriloucarlow, Carlow Ireland670 Posts
Hi there wave
No I don't think you are silly for asking and it is odd. I recieved an email from a guy last week and like you , I didn't delete it .. nor did I answer it ... But it diasppeared ,just like that. I thought weird... but them maybe the guy who emailed me was "mass" mailing ladies on the site. When they do that I think the site owners think "scammer" Not saying that is the case for you ... could be thoughdunno
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Jul 31, 2010 5:47 PM CST Inbox & Outbox messages gone?
blueisbest
blueisbestblueisbestBrisbane, Queensland Australia1 Threads 11 Posts
Many thanks for all the replies & suggestions-this is my 1st experience on an internet dating site so looks like I have a lot to learn.
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Jul 31, 2010 7:52 PM CST Inbox & Outbox messages gone?
EssJay
EssJayEssJayDevon, England UK63 Threads 3,340 Posts
Sounds very much like he was a scammer and CS have removed him along with all his emails.
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Jul 31, 2010 8:00 PM CST Inbox & Outbox messages gone?
Raynew1959
Raynew1959Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA120 Threads 2 Polls 2,218 Posts
I'm of the same mind as others who have posted here. Smells like a possible scammer.

If the emails disappeared, then the CS mods have deleted his profile. I have seen this happen with emails I have received from scammers I have reported
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Jul 31, 2010 8:04 PM CST Inbox & Outbox messages gone?
i got a weird for you - got a message from someone and went to replay and it says the profile doesnt exist yet there it sit in my mail box with a picture on it lol so go figure rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 31, 2010 8:04 PM CST Inbox & Outbox messages gone?
gemeh22: i got a weird for you - got a message from someone and went to replay and it says the profile doesnt exist yet there it sit in my mail box with a picture on it lol so go figure
ok please excuse the typos I have lost the ability to type rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 31, 2010 8:53 PM CST Inbox & Outbox messages gone?
adamisk
adamiskadamiskraleigh, Mississippi USA34 Threads 4 Polls 1,325 Posts
all these completely reasonable responses .... uhhhh he was abducted by aliens and it was they who erased him .
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Jul 31, 2010 10:40 PM CST Inbox & Outbox messages gone?
blueisbest
blueisbestblueisbestBrisbane, Queensland Australia1 Threads 11 Posts
adamisk: all these completely reasonable responses .... uhhhh he was abducted by aliens and it was they who erased him .


Considering he was from Georgia in the US,thats entirely possiblerolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 31, 2010 10:42 PM CST Inbox & Outbox messages gone?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
what the others have said is true

when the site boots you off your mail is removed too
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Jul 31, 2010 10:47 PM CST Inbox & Outbox messages gone?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
Is this the "New Member's Area" section ? confused
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