I have been messaging a nice male for a few days & have received lovely messages in return BUT today,have just looked in both Inbox & Outbox & there is no record of this person?I definitely haven't deleted any messages & they didn't say anything in the slightest bit inappropriate so just wonder if they've removed themselves from the site or something?I don't recall their id either so can't check that way.
blueisbest: I have been messaging a nice male for a few days & have received lovely messages in return BUT today,have just looked in both Inbox & Outbox & there is no record of this person?I definitely haven't deleted any messages & they didn't say anything in the slightest bit inappropriate so just wonder if they've removed themselves from the site or something?I don't recall their id either so can't check that way.
Sorry if this sounds silly but it just seems odd.
You've been messaging back and forth for a few days and you can't even guess at his member name? Ya know, if you can even come close, the Search function has a "Similiar" option.
In response to: I have been messaging a nice male for a few days & have received lovely messages in return BUT today,have just looked in both Inbox & Outbox & there is no record of this person?I definitely haven't deleted any messages & they didn't say anything in the slightest bit inappropriate so just wonder if they've removed themselves from the site or something?I don't recall their id either so can't check that way.
Sorry if this sounds silly but it just seems odd.
If all messages have disappeared then that person has been deleted by cs. If they leave on there own this does not happen.
blueisbest: I have been messaging a nice male for a few days & have received lovely messages in return BUT today,have just looked in both Inbox & Outbox & there is no record of this person?I definitely haven't deleted any messages & they didn't say anything in the slightest bit inappropriate so just wonder if they've removed themselves from the site or something?I don't recall their id either so can't check that way.
Hi there No I don't think you are silly for asking and it is odd. I recieved an email from a guy last week and like you , I didn't delete it .. nor did I answer it ... But it diasppeared ,just like that. I thought weird... but them maybe the guy who emailed me was "mass" mailing ladies on the site. When they do that I think the site owners think "scammer" Not saying that is the case for you ... could be though
Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA2,218 posts
I'm of the same mind as others who have posted here. Smells like a possible scammer.
If the emails disappeared, then the CS mods have deleted his profile. I have seen this happen with emails I have received from scammers I have reported
i got a weird for you - got a message from someone and went to replay and it says the profile doesnt exist yet there it sit in my mail box with a picture on it lol so go figure
gemeh22: i got a weird for you - got a message from someone and went to replay and it says the profile doesnt exist yet there it sit in my mail box with a picture on it lol so go figure
ok please excuse the typos I have lost the ability to type
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Sorry if this sounds silly but it just seems odd.