Are women's household skills valuable? ( Archived) (23)

Sep 2, 2010 3:06 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
imsophie1
imsophie1imsophie1Knox, Pennsylvania USA23 Threads 501 Posts
"According to the U.N. Human Development Report of 1995, the annual value of women's unwaged work worldwide is about $11 trillion."

Looks like my ex owes me some back wages for 23 years. I have to agree with him now. He told me many years ago that he could never afford to pay me. He worked (truck driver) while I took care of everything else in our lives.
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Sep 2, 2010 3:28 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
imsophie1
imsophie1imsophie1Knox, Pennsylvania USA23 Threads 501 Posts
Here's another tidbit:

"The average housewife has been calculated to walk 594 miles a year in the course of her duties."
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Sep 2, 2010 3:30 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
imsophie1: Here's another tidbit:

"The average housewife has been calculated to walk 594 miles a year in the course of her duties."


And you dont count th amount a man contributes to the household. In his efforts to keep a winging woman happy.
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Sep 2, 2010 3:51 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
imsophie1
imsophie1imsophie1Knox, Pennsylvania USA23 Threads 501 Posts
My ex didn't have a whining woman. He was home about 6 days a month. During his hours at home he was catered to. I did his laundry, cooked his favorite meals, baked his favorite snacks to take on the road when he left for work again, let him sleep in, provided him with a heated towel after his showers, and kept him supplied with fishing gear and R/C planes so he could relax. I raised our 3 girls, took care of house and yard, maintained our vehicles, did all the barn work, cared for 15 horses and 3 dogs.

I was grateful for his dedication to providing the financial means for our family to have a good life. Our girls and I let him know every chance we got how much we loved and appreciated him. The only breaks I got were when I was hospitalized. Once I got home, the work started again, even after major surgery when I wasn't supposed to do anything.

At that point in my life, it was all a labor of love for my family.
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Sep 2, 2010 3:52 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
tomcatwarne: And you dont count th amount a man contributes to the household. In his efforts to keep a winging woman happy.


roll eyes
Have you got anything nice to say about females?
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Sep 2, 2010 3:54 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
imsophie1: Here's another tidbit:

"The average housewife has been calculated to walk 594 miles a year in the course of her duties."


That's nearly two miles a day...I didn't think an average kitchen was that big.


shock
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Sep 2, 2010 3:54 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
afterbam
afterbamafterbamP.A., Pennsylvania USA18 Threads 2,006 Posts
imsophie1: My ex didn't have a whining woman. He was home about 6 days a month. During his hours at home he was catered to. I did his laundry, cooked his favorite meals, baked his favorite snacks to take on the road when he left for work again, let him sleep in, provided him with a heated towel after his showers, and kept him supplied with fishing gear and R/C planes so he could relax. I raised our 3 girls, took care of house and yard, maintained our vehicles, did all the barn work, cared for 15 horses and 3 dogs.

I was grateful for his dedication to providing the financial means for our family to have a good life. Our girls and I let him know every chance we got how much we loved and appreciated him. The only breaks I got were when I was hospitalized. Once I got home, the work started again, even after major surgery when I wasn't supposed to do anything.

At that point in my life, it was all a labor of love for my family.


GREAT!!! WOMAN!!...thumbs up Pure Gold...bouquet
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Sep 2, 2010 4:11 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada31 Threads 2,419 Posts
tomcatwarne: And you dont count th amount a man contributes to the household. In his efforts to keep a winging woman happy.
What is a winging woman? Does she wing you in head when you are mouthy? Men contribute....ha! grin
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Sep 2, 2010 4:20 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
jeffc320
jeffc320jeffc320burnley, Lancashire, England UK11 Threads 461 Posts
Christmas1: What is a winging woman? Does she wing you in head when you are mouthy? Men contribute....ha!


A whinging woman to me is one who moans and whines about everything without making much of an effort herself. I have lived with said type of woman.
I cooked, cleaned, did DIY(lots of major stuff), sorted the garden out, worked damn hard in my job, took her to the caribbean on holidays, paid for her meals and drinks, etc i could go on and on and on. All she did was moan. Nothing i did was good enough.

Who needs a woman like that ?

Me neither.
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Sep 2, 2010 8:29 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
imsophie1: "According to the U.N. Human Development Report of 1995, the annual value of women's unwaged work worldwide is about $11 trillion."

Looks like my ex owes me some back wages for 23 years. I have to agree with him now. He told me many years ago that he could never afford to pay me. He worked (truck driver) while I took care of everything else in our lives.

laugh ya I worked outside the home and took care of all the household chores but my ex didnt view that as work..lol. My dad said whats wrong with that man? Doesnt he see that house chores are work too? I had a very lazy ex for sure..
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Sep 2, 2010 8:37 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
You did not live there? You did not eat or use the things he provided? Was your work worth more than minimum wage and did you have an agreement as such to it? The next husband you get....work out wages....I bet your asking price will not be meet. You will work as such for a practical wage above the expenses you create......rent....use of appliances......utilities.........
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Sep 2, 2010 8:38 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
All should be fair.....a balance between work and house work.grin
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Sep 2, 2010 8:41 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: All should be fair.....a balance between work and house work.

I had a job outside the home "and" did all the household chores and my ex didnt see the chores around the house as work even though he did nothing to help around the house..Plus he was way more messy than I would ever be..Even if he ever did help ( which he never did) it still wouldnt have been equal or fair because he was such a slob.
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Sep 2, 2010 8:51 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Swissblueeyes: ya i dont think he ever cleaned a toilet in his whole life..He definitely thinks any cooking, cleaning, ect is a womans job that he felt he was entitled to just getting done for him. As far as money goes he spent it as soon as we got it..There were so many other things he did that made it virtually impossible for me to want to stay with him..
There are still too many guys with mommies they call wives....doh
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Sep 2, 2010 8:53 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
Christmas1: What is a winging woman? Does she wing you in head when you are mouthy? Men contribute....ha!
laugh laugh
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Sep 2, 2010 9:01 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
A housewife's work is really incomparably difficult. It's a 24/7 job without days off. Keeping everything clean and ready for use by all members of the family. Making sure clothes are cleanly pressed, that there's always food on the table(lucky if you have a good provider, if you don't then it's your obligation for the kids' sake), being practical, learning all kinds of conservation techniques to make everything manageable.
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Sep 2, 2010 9:27 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
imsophie1: My ex didn't have a whining woman. He was home about 6 days a month. During his hours at home he was catered to. I did his laundry, cooked his favorite meals, baked his favorite snacks to take on the road when he left for work again, let him sleep in, provided him with a heated towel after his showers, and kept him supplied with fishing gear and R/C planes so he could relax. I raised our 3 girls, took care of house and yard, maintained our vehicles, did all the barn work, cared for 15 horses and 3 dogs.

I was grateful for his dedication to providing the financial means for our family to have a good life. Our girls and I let him know every chance we got how much we loved and appreciated him. The only breaks I got were when I was hospitalized. Once I got home, the work started again, even after major surgery when I wasn't supposed to do anything.

At that point in my life, it was all a labor of love for my family.
wine heart wings thanks sophie

it's amazing how many people don't understand that and think we're freeloading as stay-homes. I had 4 children (and most of their friends all at once - me time? Is that a foreign language)?laugh

I had girl friends tell me that they had gone back to work to get a breakconfused doh


Oh, and my ex? ya, he thought I was freeloading...very mad
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Sep 3, 2010 5:26 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
curiousgeorge2
curiousgeorge2curiousgeorge2magnolia, Mississippi USA11 Threads 5 Polls 488 Posts
imsophie1: "According to the U.N. Human Development Report of 1995, the annual value of women's unwaged work worldwide is about $11 trillion."

Looks like my ex owes me some back wages for 23 years. I have to agree with him now. He told me many years ago that he could never afford to pay me. He worked (truck driver) while I took care of everything else in our lives.


HMMMMM,......... I am so confussed ! I thought MARRIAGE was supposed to be a TEAM EFFORT........
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Sep 3, 2010 5:31 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
curiousgeorge2
curiousgeorge2curiousgeorge2magnolia, Mississippi USA11 Threads 5 Polls 488 Posts
imsophie1: "According to the U.N. Human Development Report of 1995, the annual value of women's unwaged work worldwide is about $11 trillion."

Looks like my ex owes me some back wages for 23 years. I have to agree with him now. He told me many years ago that he could never afford to pay me. He worked (truck driver) while I took care of everything else in our lives.


I am a single Parent, I raise 2 young boys and I am crippled,
I do NOT have a Maid ! my house is clean,... my boys are on the honor roll. and I do the yard as well !

" I am also " EXHAUSTED ! ........sleep cheers
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Sep 3, 2010 5:49 PM CST Are women's household skills valuable?
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
curiousgeorge2: HMMMMM,......... I am so confussed ! I thought MARRIAGE was supposed to be a TEAM EFFORT........

Yeah, a team, where you're the players AND the coach all rolled up in onerolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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