The big city or what? ( Archived) (29)

Oct 17, 2010 6:08 PM CST The big city or what?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
I have a job offer in Madrid, the big capital city where I have a lot of friends and will earn a lot more money. however, I have many friends here who I will miss dearly, and it will be a lot more expensive to live in the big city.

Hey ho what should I do and why?
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Oct 17, 2010 6:14 PM CST The big city or what?
darren9030
darren9030darren9030Peterborough, Cambridgeshire, England UK56 Threads 1 Polls 9,665 Posts
JAN_is: I have a job offer in Madrid, the big capital city where I have a lot of friends and will earn a lot more money. however, I have many friends here who I will miss dearly, and it will be a lot more expensive to live in the big city.

Hey ho what should I do and why?



Madrid's a dive. Stay where you are i say . The sea air is much healthier thumbs up
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Oct 17, 2010 6:36 PM CST The big city or what?
Hi Jan, thats a Big decision, and I am afraid only you can Make that decision, Look at The Siituation,
STUDY THE Situation,

see if you think it will Benifit You More Or Not....

and think of weather You WANT to.....do it

Sometimes Change helps, ...

Positive change...



Then weigh it Out...

Hope that Helpswave
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Oct 17, 2010 6:39 PM CST The big city or what?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Jan
I would try the big city for a change and enjoy the city, museums, concerts, ....and the teaching and after that I would decide to stay there or come back to a smaller place.

Nothing is forever!

wine
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Oct 17, 2010 6:50 PM CST The big city or what?
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
JAN_is: I have a job offer in Madrid, the big capital city where I have a lot of friends and will earn a lot more money. however, I have many friends here who I will miss dearly, and it will be a lot more expensive to live in the big city.

Hey ho what should I do and why?


You'll have to decide what you value most.

Whatever you do, decisions like that tend to affect the whole rest of your life. So make sure what you want.
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Oct 17, 2010 6:53 PM CST The big city or what?
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
JAN_is: I have a job offer in Madrid, the big capital city where I have a lot of friends and will earn a lot more money. however, I have many friends here who I will miss dearly, and it will be a lot more expensive to live in the big city.

Hey ho what should I do and why?


I vote for Madrid.

But only because it's the only city in Spain I've spent much time in. I was there for a month and a half, and I really loved it. I spent an afternoon in Segovia, and that was cool too. And I know this has nothing to do with your personal situation, but....

applause Madrid
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Oct 17, 2010 6:55 PM CST The big city or what?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
JAN_is: I have a job offer in Madrid, the big capital city where I have a lot of friends and will earn a lot more money. however, I have many friends here who I will miss dearly, and it will be a lot more expensive to live in the big city.

Hey ho what should I do and why?
Option C

forget about money, forget about friends ,shave your head and join the Hare Krishna...grin
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Oct 17, 2010 6:57 PM CST The big city or what?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
JAN_is: I have a job offer in Madrid, the big capital city where I have a lot of friends and will earn a lot more money. however, I have many friends here who I will miss dearly, and it will be a lot more expensive to live in the big city.

Hey ho what should I do and why?
friends will always get in touch. You're not going to lose them. The cmoforting thing about big cities is there's a nook for everyone. But are you ready for the big city rush?teddybear
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Oct 17, 2010 6:58 PM CST The big city or what?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
RayfromUSA: You'll have to decide what you value most.

Whatever you do, decisions like that tend to affect the whole rest of your life. So make sure what you want.


That´s what I´m afraid of. I´ve been moving around the world quite contentedly for the past 10 years and finally decided to settle here in Murcia, Spain, albeit with a two year work contract in Russia inbetween. However, I do have itchy feet from time to time which was fine in the past, but I´m getting a bit too old to contemplate major moves now I think. dunno
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Oct 17, 2010 7:02 PM CST The big city or what?
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
JAN_is: I have a job offer in Madrid, the big capital city where I have a lot of friends and will earn a lot more money. however, I have many friends here who I will miss dearly, and it will be a lot more expensive to live in the big city.

Hey ho what should I do and why?



Madrid is far better than many others...if you have friends there, you could by word of mouth find a nice loft or something...do they have rent-control??laugh
The cultural benefits would be much greater than where you are now. Poolside performances of the arts and letters can leave a lot to be desired.... Take a break and go for the urban drudge and chic; the glitter and the seamy and if you can swing it, escape on week-ends back to Murcia and go for a swim...or does Madrid have nice bath-houses..?laugh
(one last consideration: can you get home safely if you are drung, wild and silly or is Murcia better able to deal with you during any binges you go on...rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 17, 2010 7:04 PM CST The big city or what?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
go for it

you can always switch back if ya dont burn ya bridges right?

pen to paper girl
pro and con listthumbs up
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Oct 17, 2010 7:07 PM CST The big city or what?
dvx_76
dvx_76dvx_76mosta, Majjistral Malta5 Threads 433 Posts
Go for it - you ll still be in Spain. I'm travelling half europe to live and work in a big city.
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Oct 17, 2010 7:15 PM CST The big city or what?
Yash124g
Yash124gYash124gEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK9 Threads 1 Polls 1,237 Posts
JAN_is: I have a job offer in Madrid, the big capital city where I have a lot of friends and will earn a lot more money. however, I have many friends here who I will miss dearly, and it will be a lot more expensive to live in the big city.

Hey ho what should I do and why?


Congratulations on being offered a new job Jan.. wine

As for your decision, depends if you want a change or not, a new challenge and if the higher wage, combined with the higher costs, make the move & upheaval worth it or not.

Even then, if income will be roughly the same, it is still worth considering as you will meet more people and I'd expect more socialising opportunities.. cheering Flights will be easier and cheaper to UK as well I think.

Good thing is you have friends there already who can advise on best places to find a new place and everything else, but as others has said, it is down to how you see the pros and cons from where you are just now.. Whatever you choose, am sure we will all support you.. elephant thumbs up
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Oct 17, 2010 7:31 PM CST The big city or what?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
Yash124g: Congratulations on being offered a new job Jan..

As for your decision, depends if you want a change or not, a new challenge and if the higher wage, combined with the higher costs, make the move & upheaval worth it or not.

Even then, if income will be roughly the same, it is still worth considering as you will meet more people and I'd expect more socialising opportunities.. Flights will be easier and cheaper to UK as well I think.

Good thing is you have friends there already who can advise on best places to find a new place and everything else, but as others has said, it is down to how you see the pros and cons from where you are just now.. Whatever you choose, am sure we will all support you..


Hi Yash. wave

And thank you. It is well worth considering, but I´m not sure about it. Flights are of course much easier from Madrid than here in the South East of Spain, but my friends here do not want me to move away, so I´m not really getting impartial advics. I´ve been here for 7 years and they have got to know me well, some much more than others, during that time, and I have a relatively good job.

It´s itchy feet, (not so itchy as in the past as I want to remain in Spain) more money, but a more expensive standard of living and the unknown of course. dunno
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Oct 17, 2010 7:31 PM CST The big city or what?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
Yash124g: Congratulations on being offered a new job Jan..

As for your decision, depends if you want a change or not, a new challenge and if the higher wage, combined with the higher costs, make the move & upheaval worth it or not.

Even then, if income will be roughly the same, it is still worth considering as you will meet more people and I'd expect more socialising opportunities.. Flights will be easier and cheaper to UK as well I think.

Good thing is you have friends there already who can advise on best places to find a new place and everything else, but as others has said, it is down to how you see the pros and cons from where you are just now.. Whatever you choose, am sure we will all support you..


Hi Yash. wave

And thank you. It is well worth considering, but I´m not sure about it. Flights are of course much easier from Madrid than here in the South East of Spain, but my friends here do not want me to move away, so I´m not really getting impartial advics. I´ve been here for 7 years and they have got to know me well, some much more than others, during that time, and I have a relatively good job.

It´s itchy feet, (not so itchy as in the past as I want to remain in Spain) more money, but a more expensive standard of living and the unknown of course. dunno
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Oct 17, 2010 7:31 PM CST The big city or what?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
Yash124g: Congratulations on being offered a new job Jan..

As for your decision, depends if you want a change or not, a new challenge and if the higher wage, combined with the higher costs, make the move & upheaval worth it or not.

Even then, if income will be roughly the same, it is still worth considering as you will meet more people and I'd expect more socialising opportunities.. Flights will be easier and cheaper to UK as well I think.

Good thing is you have friends there already who can advise on best places to find a new place and everything else, but as others has said, it is down to how you see the pros and cons from where you are just now.. Whatever you choose, am sure we will all support you..


Hi Yash. wave

And thank you. It is well worth considering, but I´m not sure about it. Flights are of course much easier from Madrid than here in the South East of Spain, but my friends here do not want me to move away, so I´m not really getting impartial advics. I´ve been here for 7 years and they have got to know me well, some much more than others, during that time, and I have a relatively good job.

It´s itchy feet, (not so itchy as in the past as I want to remain in Spain) more money, but a more expensive standard of living and the unknown of course. dunno
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Oct 17, 2010 7:31 PM CST The big city or what?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
Yash124g: Congratulations on being offered a new job Jan..

As for your decision, depends if you want a change or not, a new challenge and if the higher wage, combined with the higher costs, make the move & upheaval worth it or not.

Even then, if income will be roughly the same, it is still worth considering as you will meet more people and I'd expect more socialising opportunities.. Flights will be easier and cheaper to UK as well I think.

Good thing is you have friends there already who can advise on best places to find a new place and everything else, but as others has said, it is down to how you see the pros and cons from where you are just now.. Whatever you choose, am sure we will all support you..


Hi Yash. wave

And thank you. It is well worth considering, but I´m not sure about it. Flights are of course much easier from Madrid than here in the South East of Spain, but my friends here do not want me to move away, so I´m not really getting impartial advics. I´ve been here for 7 years and they have got to know me well, some much more than others, during that time, and I have a relatively good job.

It´s itchy feet, (not so itchy as in the past as I want to remain in Spain) more money, but a more expensive standard of living and the unknown of course. dunno
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Oct 17, 2010 7:32 PM CST The big city or what?
Carinas
CarinasCarinassomewhere, Victoria Australia26 Threads 306 Posts
I know how is to live in a big city, because I live in suburbs a big city in Australia.
To live in a big city you can have advantages and disadvantages,the decision is yours and depends on what you want.
Listen to both voices ,reason and heart
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Oct 17, 2010 7:38 PM CST The big city or what?
Yash124g
Yash124gYash124gEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK9 Threads 1 Polls 1,237 Posts
Just go for it, as you clearly need more money for a new keyboard!! rolling on the floor laughing Or can you get that from the office?? hole

As for your friends, I was referring to the ones you know in Madrid, and I suppose another consideration is the contract and the company itself, as it seems the larger more international firms are more likely to have unexpected job losses, though you are probably fine working in a specialised field, and I think you have a pet also, (dog), but cannot remember 100%.. hug
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Oct 17, 2010 7:43 PM CST The big city or what?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
JAN_is: Hi Yash.

And thank you. It is well worth considering, but I´m not sure about it. Flights are of course much easier from Madrid than here in the South East of Spain, but my friends here do not want me to move away, so I´m not really getting impartial advics. I´ve been here for 7 years and they have got to know me well, some much more than others, during that time, and I have a relatively good job.

It´s itchy feet, (not so itchy as in the past as I want to remain in Spain) more money, but a more expensive standard of living and the unknown of course.
Jan is your new job with the BBC.......Bloody repeats....wink rolling on the floor laughing grin cheers
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