Why do men ask to meet and promise to call and then don't call? (64)
sultryash: Maybe some men play games maybe not ....but we women have to remember that some guys get just as shy and nervous about asking a woman out or even calling to say hi, as some women get about going on a date too.
Dont write him off, maybe he will call/text you later....maybe just trying to rack up the nerve to do it
Dont write him off, maybe he will call/text you later....maybe just trying to rack up the nerve to do it
I don't think this guy is shy. In response to my hello e-mail he immediately suggested we meet and first thing this morning said would text later today. He says he doesn't go out much but it sounds like a player to me. Not so inclined to hold my breath waiting for his text.
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missingLondon: I don't think this guy is shy. In response to my hello e-mail he immediately suggested we meet and first thing this morning said would text later today. He says he doesn't go out much but it sounds like a player to me. Not so inclined to hold my breath waiting for his text.
Maybe you should have chatted to him for a while before u both decided to meet up
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SoldierByte: I do try to let my girlfriends know
that I really do care..
---SoldierByte---
A few days ago after you had very kindly talked with me, you took some very offensive talk from another member. I am sorry that your being nice to me resulted in you getting insulted.that I really do care..
---SoldierByte---
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missha72: Maybe you should have chatted to him for a while before u both decided to meet up
Missha I worked with the guy briefly aeons ago. I just said hi how are you, he said let's meet!
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sultryash: Maybe some men play games maybe not ....but we women have to remember that some guys get just as shy and nervous about asking a woman out or even calling to say hi, as some women get about going on a date too.
Dont write him off, maybe he will call/text you later....maybe just trying to rack up the nerve to do it
Dont write him off, maybe he will call/text you later....maybe just trying to rack up the nerve to do it
I'm shy, but if I say something I do it.......otherwise is just palin rude.
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Swissblueeyes: it is very rare that a guy online cant get the nerve to write.
my advise to the op is to carry on with her life because if a man is "really" interested he will call, write, ect.
i do by the way have a friend who used to live in malta who i think these two would be a nice match?
dont wanna play matchmaker here but hes a nice guy and she seems nice..seems a shame these two are spending the holidays alone.
my advise to the op is to carry on with her life because if a man is "really" interested he will call, write, ect.
i do by the way have a friend who used to live in malta who i think these two would be a nice match?
dont wanna play matchmaker here but hes a nice guy and she seems nice..seems a shame these two are spending the holidays alone.
Hey I've played matchmaker in the past and they got married. Feel free to set me up. If I don't like the guy I won't lead him on because I'm a straightforward person.
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NCC1968: I'm shy, but if I say something I do it.......otherwise is just palin rude.
Exactly!!!!
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Manners cost nothing 
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NCC1968: I'm shy, but if I say something I do it.......otherwise is just palin rude.
I agree
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rohaan: A few days ago after you had very kindly talked with me, you took some very offensive talk from another member. I am sorry that your being nice to me resulted in you getting insulted.
I took care of that jerk..!!
I have pals of all genders, race's, cultures and
on BOTH sides of the law..
YOU know that sir..
you've always been a friend, pal, and
decent to me..
and your reputation is one I envy..
your relationship with
other's is your concern..
AND...
as you notice..
YOU and I have the pals here..
My "social" skills may (o-k they do
)leave a bit to be desired..
but hell..
I do love bustin the heads of them creeps..
---SoldierByte--- 
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And women can do exactly the same, its not a gender issue.
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morgan5: And women can do exactly the same, its not a gender issue.
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Whether a man or a woman does it, it's still plain rude to promise to do something and then not do it.
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SoldierByte: I took care of that jerk..!!
I have pals of all genders, race's, cultures and
on BOTH sides of the law..
YOU know that sir..
you've always been a friend, pal, and
decent to me..
and your reputation is one I envy..
your relationship with
other's is your concern..
AND...
as you notice..
YOU and I have the pals here..
My "social" skills may (o-k they do )
leave a bit to be desired..
but hell..
I do love bustin the heads of them creeps..
---SoldierByte---
I have pals of all genders, race's, cultures and
on BOTH sides of the law..
YOU know that sir..
you've always been a friend, pal, and
decent to me..
and your reputation is one I envy..
your relationship with
other's is your concern..
AND...
as you notice..
YOU and I have the pals here..
My "social" skills may (o-k they do )
leave a bit to be desired..
but hell..
I do love bustin the heads of them creeps..
---SoldierByte---
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missingLondon: Hey I've played matchmaker in the past and they got married. Feel free to set me up. If I don't like the guy I won't lead him on because I'm a straightforward person.
Ok..I will put in a good word to him..Hes a sweet nice man who does work in malta and im pretty sure he will be back when the weather gets better..hes not that far from you right now either but not in the same exact country..hopefully you two will hit it off.. ------ This thread is Archived ------
SoldierByte: I took care of that jerk..!!
I have pals of all genders, race's, cultures and
on BOTH sides of the law..
YOU know that sir..
you've always been a friend, pal, and
decent to me..
and your reputation is one I envy..
your relationship with
other's is your concern..
AND...
as you notice..
YOU and I have the pals here..
My "social" skills may (o-k they do )
leave a bit to be desired..
but hell..
I do love bustin the heads of them creeps..
---SoldierByte---
You are so my hero. I have pals of all genders, race's, cultures and
on BOTH sides of the law..
YOU know that sir..
you've always been a friend, pal, and
decent to me..
and your reputation is one I envy..
your relationship with
other's is your concern..
AND...
as you notice..
YOU and I have the pals here..
My "social" skills may (o-k they do )
leave a bit to be desired..
but hell..
I do love bustin the heads of them creeps..
---SoldierByte---
Hey, nobody is looking at my "Flawed and Fractured Fairy Tales" thread--it's good! and I spent some time on it!
Come on folks, humor me!
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I don't know. There are men who get in contact, email every day, twice or more a day... asking about future plans, flirting, carrying on, wanting photos, phone numbers, private email addresses, a date to meet up... and then suddenly BOF, out of the blue, they disappear.
I haven't a clue why they even get in touch to begin with, let alone why they disappear.
Pillocks? Probably...
I haven't a clue why they even get in touch to begin with, let alone why they disappear.
Pillocks? Probably...
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wordsmith99: I don't know. There are men who get in contact, email every day, twice or more a day... asking about future plans, flirting, carrying on, wanting photos, phone numbers, private email addresses, a date to meet up... and then suddenly BOF, out of the blue, they disappear.
I haven't a clue why they even get in touch to begin with, let alone why they disappear.
Pillocks? Probably...
in my opinion they are playing the game..make a list of all the women they want to meet..meet them then pick the best out of the litter then date that one for awhile or untill they score touchdown in bed, then move on and do the same thing over again..lol..forget about the tossers. life is too short to let anyone take your joy away.I haven't a clue why they even get in touch to begin with, let alone why they disappear.
Pillocks? Probably...
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NCC1968: I'm shy, but if I say something I do it.......otherwise is just palin rude.
Was that a freudian slip, or is this a new Americanism for a higher level of rudeness ?
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Dont write him off, maybe he will call/text you later....maybe just trying to rack up the nerve to do it
my advise to the op is to carry on with her life because if a man is "really" interested he will call, write, ect.
i do by the way have a friend who used to live in malta who i think these two would be a nice match?
dont wanna play matchmaker here but hes a nice guy and she seems nice..seems a shame these two are spending the holidays alone.