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Feb 16, 2011 8:15 AM CST for men only....
Frankinstien
FrankinstienFrankinstienSan Juan, Puerto Rico1 Threads 1,521 Posts
reb56: the golden rule works for me.
It does for me too. It's a shame more don't share that opinion. . . . . . handshake
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Feb 16, 2011 8:15 AM CST for men only....
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
In response to: why men hurt the good women and love the bad ones?
cause we woman tend to go for the bad guysmumbling
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Feb 16, 2011 8:17 AM CST for men only....
TrueBlue1986
TrueBlue1986TrueBlue1986Sale, South Manchester, Cheshire, England UK1,322 Posts
joyaepace: This is a very interesting comment. So, in the men's view a good girl is an easy available one, and the bad girl is not. But it is often thought to be other way round, that the bad girls are easy come, easy go. Could you elaborate?


In my opinion it may be easy to get into the knickers of bad girls but getting into their hearts is a whole different story.

The good girls on the other hand won't drop them but they'll fall in love with you left, right and centre, and will carry on giving when they really shouldn't - this is where they go wrong.
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Feb 16, 2011 8:30 AM CST for men only....
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
TrueBlue1986: In my opinion it may be easy to get into the knickers of bad girls but getting into their hearts is a whole different story.

The good girls on the other hand won't drop them but they'll fall in love with you left, right and centre, and will carry on giving when they really shouldn't - this is where they go wrong.


Well, it seems then that men like women who are more like themselves - dropping knickers easily, but keeping their hearts shut. Probably it answers the question why guys go for bad girls - they want to chase impossible for some reason. But why?

I agree that women should give less and demand more from men. Our love sometimes may be too overwhelming and we have problems to control our hearts. That is woman's emotionality. Strange world - when you give, you are rejected, and when you hold back, you are chased! confused
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Feb 16, 2011 8:38 AM CST for men only....
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
joelle2107: why men hurt the good women and love the bad ones?
That has been a question I've wondered about my whole life... lol
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Feb 16, 2011 8:40 AM CST for men only....
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
TrueBlue1986: In my opinion it may be easy to get into the knickers of bad girls but getting into their hearts is a whole different story.

The good girls on the other hand won't drop them but they'll fall in love with you left, right and centre, and will carry on giving when they really shouldn't - this is where they go wrong.
ya untill we get burned enough to where we not only dont drop our knickers but we dont fall in love easily either..As a matter of fact, I have a concrete wall built up so high, I'm not sure if it will ever be torn down..
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Feb 16, 2011 8:42 AM CST for men only....
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
chococherrie: cause we woman tend to go for the bad guys
nah not me, they give me indigestion.. lol
i gave up bad boys a long time ago..
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Feb 16, 2011 8:46 AM CST for men only....
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
Swissblueeyes: nah not me, they give me indigestion.. lol
i gave up bad boys a long time ago..
well im trying to quit rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 16, 2011 8:47 AM CST for men only....
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
chococherrie: well im trying to quit
laugh
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Feb 16, 2011 8:48 AM CST for men only....
joelle2107
joelle2107joelle2107Jakarta, Indonesia170 Threads 36 Polls 5,561 Posts
chococherrie: cause we woman tend to go for the bad guys


not me at my age Choco...wave
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Feb 16, 2011 9:13 AM CST for men only....
estate
estateestatePERTH, Tayside, Scotland UK2 Threads 1,664 Posts
Good woman????????

Swap you my hen with teeth for one of those!!

laugh laugh laugh

grin
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Feb 16, 2011 9:15 AM CST for men only....
TrueBlue1986
TrueBlue1986TrueBlue1986Sale, South Manchester, Cheshire, England UK1,322 Posts
Swissblueeyes: ya untill we get burned enough to where we not only dont drop our knickers but we dont fall in love easily either..As a matter of fact, I have a concrete wall built up so high, I'm not sure if it will ever be torn down..


I've seen that happen. My Mum was much the same when she was divorced from my Dad. It's like people will easily go from one extreme to the other but finding the balance is difficult.
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Feb 16, 2011 9:16 AM CST for men only....
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
joelle2107: why men hurt the good women and love the bad ones?


Cause the bad ones are nasty in bed ! grin beer
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Feb 16, 2011 10:00 AM CST for men only....
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
joelle2107: why men hurt the good women and love the bad ones?
Not all men, just some.
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Feb 16, 2011 10:38 AM CST for men only....
estate: Good woman????????

Swap you my hen with teeth for one of those!!


Good women are everywhere and some right in front of you. peace
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Feb 16, 2011 10:57 AM CST for men only....
Looking_Heart
Looking_HeartLooking_HeartSPRINGFIELD, Missouri USA15 Threads 5 Polls 592 Posts
you only hurt the ones you love dunno
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Feb 16, 2011 11:08 AM CST for men only....
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
Looking_Heart: you only hurt the ones you love


Or the ones who love you! The others will not be hurt.
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Feb 16, 2011 11:10 AM CST for men only....
Looking_Heart: you only hurt the ones you love
Could never understand that myself confused
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Feb 16, 2011 11:39 AM CST for men only....
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
TrueBlue1986: I think because 'bad' boys/girls do their own thing and care less for what others think which creates an impression of independence, which symbolises strength.

I also think that one of the reasons why women like bad boys is that the average modern man is quite effeminate. Call it old-fashioned, but if ever a woman was being threatened she'd want a man who would and could fight for her, and if I was a Woman I wouldn't get that impression from a lot of men today.


May be. But the woman's ideal is (or used to be) a strong 'good' man, like the heroes in 50s movies. Humphrey Bogart's characters, for example. And not that the 'bad' guys are not effeminate. Nobody defined here what they mean by good or bad guys and girls actually. That would be useful.
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Feb 16, 2011 11:40 AM CST for men only....
taff1
taff1taff1Malta, Majjistral Malta18 Threads 1,592 Posts
joelle2107: why men hurt the good women and love the bad ones?


It's the other way around mate.
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