TrueBlue1986Sale, South Manchester, Cheshire, England UK1,322 Posts
TrueBlue1986Sale, South Manchester, Cheshire, England UK1,322 posts
joyaepace: This is a very interesting comment. So, in the men's view a good girl is an easy available one, and the bad girl is not. But it is often thought to be other way round, that the bad girls are easy come, easy go. Could you elaborate?
In my opinion it may be easy to get into the knickers of bad girls but getting into their hearts is a whole different story.
The good girls on the other hand won't drop them but they'll fall in love with you left, right and centre, and will carry on giving when they really shouldn't - this is where they go wrong.
TrueBlue1986: In my opinion it may be easy to get into the knickers of bad girls but getting into their hearts is a whole different story.
The good girls on the other hand won't drop them but they'll fall in love with you left, right and centre, and will carry on giving when they really shouldn't - this is where they go wrong.
Well, it seems then that men like women who are more like themselves - dropping knickers easily, but keeping their hearts shut. Probably it answers the question why guys go for bad girls - they want to chase impossible for some reason. But why?
I agree that women should give less and demand more from men. Our love sometimes may be too overwhelming and we have problems to control our hearts. That is woman's emotionality. Strange world - when you give, you are rejected, and when you hold back, you are chased!
TrueBlue1986: In my opinion it may be easy to get into the knickers of bad girls but getting into their hearts is a whole different story.
The good girls on the other hand won't drop them but they'll fall in love with you left, right and centre, and will carry on giving when they really shouldn't - this is where they go wrong.
ya untill we get burned enough to where we not only dont drop our knickers but we dont fall in love easily either..As a matter of fact, I have a concrete wall built up so high, I'm not sure if it will ever be torn down..
TrueBlue1986Sale, South Manchester, Cheshire, England UK1,322 Posts
TrueBlue1986Sale, South Manchester, Cheshire, England UK1,322 posts
Swissblueeyes: ya untill we get burned enough to where we not only dont drop our knickers but we dont fall in love easily either..As a matter of fact, I have a concrete wall built up so high, I'm not sure if it will ever be torn down..
I've seen that happen. My Mum was much the same when she was divorced from my Dad. It's like people will easily go from one extreme to the other but finding the balance is difficult.
TrueBlue1986: I think because 'bad' boys/girls do their own thing and care less for what others think which creates an impression of independence, which symbolises strength.
I also think that one of the reasons why women like bad boys is that the average modern man is quite effeminate. Call it old-fashioned, but if ever a woman was being threatened she'd want a man who would and could fight for her, and if I was a Woman I wouldn't get that impression from a lot of men today.
May be. But the woman's ideal is (or used to be) a strong 'good' man, like the heroes in 50s movies. Humphrey Bogart's characters, for example. And not that the 'bad' guys are not effeminate. Nobody defined here what they mean by good or bad guys and girls actually. That would be useful.
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