Forgive and Forget.... (81)
las63: I tend to forgive and not forget.Which leaves me to question if I really did forgive in the first place.
forgiveness is a choice and once you decide to forgive someone it is like a wound that over time begins to heal and the place of the hurt-wound is no longer sore the pain of it is not there anymore ,you will have remembrance of it but the pain is lesson somehow,,,,,,unforgiveness towards someone is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die 
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leni0822: well,we have a different views of life,how can i forgive myself? i didnt done harm to that girl...so i just simply forget it and move on.there are many things,,,good things for me to face.and i promise to myself not to deal with a**hole people....thanks for your reply
Yes, be kind to yourself. You have learned a good lesson in how to stay away form nasty people. Just tell yourself that it is alright that you didn't see her as a bad person until it was too late. Be proud of your courage in the face of the hurt she caused. Love yourself for being kind when she was bad to you.
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markizamkd25: How to learn to forgive and forget?
Is it something that can be learned?
Is it something that can be learned?
Unless you develop amnesia then you can never forget. Forgiveness is a process.You can't just say to someone I forgive you and it's done.You have to go one actively trying to forgive that person over and over every time something brings back the memory of their betrayal or hurt.
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markizamkd25: How to learn to forgive and forget?
Is it something that can be learned?
Is it something that can be learned?
Never
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jvaski: Do unto others - before that have the chance to do unto you !
can it be saidabout animals too? I mean can a horse bexpected to ride the rider one day?
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markizamkd25: How to learn to forgive and forget?
Is it something that can be learned?
Is it something that can be learned?
I forgive, but never forget
if you hurt me you won't get the second chance
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I think if you drag around baggage like not forgiving someone your living in the past. You will only hurt yourself, Its easy to become trapped in it. Learn your lessons and move on.
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jvaski: Do unto others - before that have the chance to do unto you !
Oh the ole get them before they get you kinda game
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You only harm yourself by not f&f. Get on with better things.
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markizamkd25: How to learn to forgive and forget?
Is it something that can be learned?
I hope not Is it something that can be learned?
My motto is "Never forget and always try to get even whenever possible" 
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Dreamyone: I forgive, but never forget
if you hurt me you won't get the second chance
isnt that unforgiving?if you hurt me you won't get the second chance
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i was hurt by my ex beyond belief, when i put my faith in him he ran too other women ,it was very hard to pick myself up again but i had to do it for my boys , im just getting to the stage where i want to see men again after 4 years but im getting it hard to trust them, im scared of giving them my whole self i really dont want to be crumpled again
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ican,t forgive......but i can forget.for me that,s easyier.
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markizamkd25: isnt that unforgiving?
Erasing memory is usually beyond most of us.
Ask anyone who's been in a war zone.
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forget, no.
forgive , yes.
It takes time sometimes though.
forgive , yes.
It takes time sometimes though.
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It's almost impossible to forget
That technology is not invented as yet
But you should certainly forgive before sudden death
Humans are MUCH more than noisy chiwawa pets
Read the bible and heed the words from Nazareth
When you forgive, forgiveness YOU shall get!
That technology is not invented as yet
But you should certainly forgive before sudden death
Humans are MUCH more than noisy chiwawa pets
Read the bible and heed the words from Nazareth
When you forgive, forgiveness YOU shall get!
In response to: How to learn to forgive and forget?
Is it something that can be learned?
Is it something that can be learned?
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if u forget the past we cannot learn from it..i do forgive and but dont forget just to remind myself for future reference 
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In response to: How to learn to forgive and forget?
Is it something that can be learned?
Is it something that can be learned?
The people i love i can forgive absolutely anything without necessarily forgetting .those i do not care for cannot hurt me they can only make me angry or annoy me.
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