Boban1: okay Ill start with your original post I don`t see this as a uncertainty of how to show or express love , what I see is actually losing the primate and how to cope with it
lovely4u7da: what a good thread, it was never about being or having balance look at the eastern world they have the man doing their thing and the woman doing what the man wants them to and they stay married longer, dont have a lot of issues
When we let women's lib in it cost us something and now we see what the price is and cant afford it
Let our men be men and help us it is not going to hurt us or cost us anything to let them be just what God created them to be MEN our western mind set(attitude I got it) is why many of us are along
It is going to take the woman to turn this thing around we started it we should finish it
In many instences they stay married longer because the women get killed or desfigured if they try to get away from an abusive marriage...
yhere's a difference between being men and doing "manly jobs" and having complete controle over your partner who happens to be an adult and should have equal rights of decision over anything pairtaining to the marriage and family.
I will not love my Wife any less if she is a better plumber than I am, if she repair the roof better than I do ,if I have to call her to open some jars for me ,if she provides for the family... Im still gonna express my love and my feelings the same way
It`s her attitude toward me that can break the bonding between us
Christmas1: I am so guilty of "Honey, can you lift this for me please, it is so heavy, Please honey!" It may be too heavy, but I usually manage to push or pull the object into place. But if a strong man is there why not ask??? I likes to feel his muscles.
Boban1: I will not love my Wife any less if she is a better plumber than I am, if she repair the roof better than I do ,if I have to call her to open some jars for me ,if she provides for the family... Im still gonna express my love and my feelings the same way
It`s her attitude toward me that can break the bonding between us
That Boban is as it should be both for men and women!!
lovely4u7da: what a good thread, it was never about being or having balance look at the eastern world they have the man doing their thing and the woman doing what the man wants them to and they stay married longer, dont have a lot of issues
When we let women's lib in it cost us something and now we see what the price is and cant afford it
Let our men be men and help us it is not going to hurt us or cost us anything to let them be just what God created them to be MEN our western mind set(attitude I got it) is why many of us are along
It is going to take the woman to turn this thing around we started it we should finish it
okay! ladies, am i allowed to agree with the author of this thread a little..just a little..i promise?
bellavita: Soooo True .. Women want to do it themselves, and then complain when their husbands don't do anything. Then one day they (women) wake up and realize, it's wonderful to have a man do for you
Boban1: I will not love my Wife any less if she is a better plumber than I am, if she repair the roof better than I do ,if I have to call her to open some jars for me ,if she provides for the family... Im still gonna express my love and my feelings the same way
It`s her attitude toward me that can break the bonding between us
bellavita: Soooo True .. Women want to do it themselves, and then complain when their husbands don't do anything. Then one day they (women) wake up and realize, it's wonderful to have a man do for you
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OK, you've caught me out there, I must admit ...