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Mar 6, 2011 11:41 AM CST Do you think that men ...
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada3 Threads 869 Posts
ironman57321: Damn,I love that pic
I am glad you like my pic. You are so sweet!!!kiss
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Mar 6, 2011 11:42 AM CST Do you think that men ...
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
I think that men just adore spoiling us women and when they are out with friends they call us nags,thet cant appear soft to their mates..grin
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Mar 6, 2011 11:44 AM CST Do you think that men ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
lovely4u7da: what a good thread, it was never about being or having balance look at the eastern world they have the man doing their thing and the woman doing what the man wants them to and they stay married longer, dont have a lot of issues

When we let women's lib in it cost us something and now we see what the price is and cant afford it

Let our men be men and help us it is not going to hurt us or cost us anything to let them be just what God created them to be MEN
our western mind set(attitude I got it) is why many of us are along

It is going to take the woman to turn this thing around we started it we should finish it


Show me a society where there was no woman's lib and the man has complete power over the woman AND there are no issues of that power being abused.

I personnaly CAN afford the price of my freedom. And so can many women I know. Equality is simple, or at least it should be ... It's the way the human brain works that isn't, especially when things get worked out by the ego instead of the heart.
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Mar 6, 2011 11:44 AM CST Do you think that men ...
ironman57321
ironman57321ironman57321Russellville,Ar., Arkansas USA247 Posts
Christmas1: I am glad you like my pic. You are so sweet!!!
blushing kiss
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Mar 6, 2011 11:45 AM CST Do you think that men ...
ironman57321
ironman57321ironman57321Russellville,Ar., Arkansas USA247 Posts
scottyburd: I think that men just adore spoiling us women and when they are out with friends they call us nags,thet cant appear soft to their mates..
thumbs up
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Mar 6, 2011 11:47 AM CST Do you think that men ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
mnowsa: oh...sorry! i haven't decided just yet as to which part i should agree with!


laugh chicken
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Mar 6, 2011 11:48 AM CST Do you think that men ...
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
EagleWoman: There are extemists on every subject and area. Woman's lib is not about extremism it's a bout a man and woman doing the same job earning the same money. It's about a woman not having to have her's husband's written consent before studying, opening a bank account or buying land or property. It's about a woman being able to makes decisions that pertain to herself or her body without needing permission from her husband etc...

Let's not get confused about what women's lib was and is about!!

Women's lib was and is about:
A.) Enabling the other half of the population to pay taxes too
B.) Enabling children to believe and realize that government is their provider and family instead of mom and pop (promotes socialism) wave
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Mar 6, 2011 11:50 AM CST Do you think that men ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
scottyburd: I think that men just adore spoiling us women and when they are out with friends they call us nags,thet cant appear soft to their mates..




Is that men's psychology in 1 sentence Scotty? laugh Sounds soooooooooooooo easy!!!
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Mar 6, 2011 11:52 AM CST Do you think that men ...
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
EagleWoman: Is that men's psychology in 1 sentence Scotty? Sounds soooooooooooooo easy!!!


Jeez lass it is easy.....listen to the men carefully..bouquet
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Mar 6, 2011 11:53 AM CST Do you think that men ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
galrads: Women's lib was and is about:
A.) Enabling the other half of the population to pay taxes too
B.) Enabling children to believe and realize that government is their provider and family instead of mom and pop (promotes socialism)


Was that the hidden agenda in europe? And does it work like that in all socialist regimes?
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Mar 6, 2011 11:54 AM CST Do you think that men ...
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
anywho, will you women make up your minds please? some of you women want to do everything on your own while some of you want us men to do everything. you know we men get confused very easilydoh laugh
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Mar 6, 2011 11:56 AM CST Do you think that men ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
scottyburd: Jeez lass it is easy.....listen to the men carefully..


So do you reckon I should get off my "little miss independent" box and allow a "nice" man to spoil me and take care of me? laugh
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Mar 6, 2011 11:58 AM CST Do you think that men ...
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
EagleWoman: So do you reckon I should get off my "little miss independent" box and allow a "nice" man to spoil me and take care of me?


i saw you were asking for a nice man, so i cameblushing
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Mar 6, 2011 12:00 PM CST Do you think that men ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
mnowsa: anywho, will you women make up your minds please? some of you women want to do everything on your own while some of you want us men to do everything. you know we men get confused very easily


Communication Mnowsa!!! When you meet a woman as her "Do you like to do everything on your own or do you like the man to do everything?" laugh

Me I'd like a balance. Trouble is I'm happier with a shovel in the garden than doing housework!! So as Jac said if we could share both that would be great!!
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Mar 6, 2011 12:01 PM CST Do you think that men ...
marabu
marabumarabuOcala, Florida USA2 Threads 33 Posts
What DIY stands for? I am not good at acronyms
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Mar 6, 2011 12:01 PM CST Do you think that men ...
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
EagleWoman: So do you reckon I should get off my "little miss independent" box and allow a "nice" man to spoil me and take care of me?


Why not try it....you could be amazed lass...hug
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Mar 6, 2011 12:09 PM CST Do you think that men ...
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
What DIY stands for? I am not good at acronyms[/
DIY = Do It Yourself
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Mar 6, 2011 12:09 PM CST Do you think that men ...
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
talking about my situation:

single mum, well paid full time job, homeowner and having a car.

maximum freedom.

if something is to be fixed around the house, I pay for it.
if my car breaks, I pay for it.
if my boss is mad at me, I pay for it.
if my girl is mad at me, I pay for it....bigtime

no need for a man really because I pay for all the things that need to be fixed or replaced.

but there is one thing that can't be paid for and that is love.

after a hard days work, there is the love of my child and my cat.
that is priceless.

not sure about the love of a man. so far, I've never met a man who does things for me out of love. In a way, I always had to pay.

so where is the balance in that?

good thread.
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Mar 6, 2011 12:19 PM CST Do you think that men ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
scottyburd: Why not try it....you could be amazed lass...


Don't know Scotty!!!

I became little miss independent after I split up from father of my children. When we met I was totally dependent on him in a foreign country. As time went by and I started finding my feet and working and therefore less "dependent" on him, with own circle of friends and may be the odd activity without him, he couldn't adjust to the changes. Eventually, we separated.

Since then I have stayed away from "being taken care of" by any man.

Not sure it's something I could contemplate wave
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Mar 6, 2011 12:21 PM CST Do you think that men ...
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
carenza: talking about my situation:

single mum, well paid full time job, homeowner and having a car.

maximum freedom.

if something is to be fixed around the house, I pay for it.
if my car breaks, I pay for it.
if my boss is mad at me, I pay for it.
if my girl is mad at me, I pay for it....bigtime

no need for a man really because I pay for all the things that need to be fixed or replaced.

but there is one thing that can't be paid for and that is love.

after a hard days work, there is the love of my child and my cat.
that is priceless.

not sure about the love of a man. so far, I've never met a man who does things for me out of love. In a way, I always had to pay.

so where is the balance in that?

good thread.


May be the balance is coming in your next relationship Carenza? hug
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