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Mar 29, 2011 8:23 AM CST men today
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
vinny1967: This should be good
Yah, I think so too. cheers popcorn popcorn popcorn
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Mar 29, 2011 8:25 AM CST men today
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
vinny1967: This should be good


laugh cheers .... get in there Vinny ....tongue

The media and our http://www access magnifies everything. The good and the bad. The bad just seems to stimulate more gossip.grin wine
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Mar 29, 2011 8:29 AM CST men today
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
RDM59: .... get in there Vinny ....

The media and our http://www access magnifies everything. The good and the bad. The bad just seems to stimulate more gossip.


I dont know about you R but am sick of being categorised doh

Will mail you shortly mate as have some bad/good news.

cheers

galrads: Yah, I think so too. cheers popcorn


We may get thirsty with all that popcorn laugh

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Mar 29, 2011 8:30 AM CST men today
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
vinny1967: I dont know about you R but am sick of being categorised

Will mail you shortly mate as have some bad/good news.


We may get thirsty with all that popcorn
ditto.
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Mar 29, 2011 8:31 AM CST men today
lilmamma71
lilmamma71lilmamma71St. Louis, Missouri USA31 Threads 1,345 Posts
OP you asked what we ladies, think of the average man today and yet, you launch into a gamut of information about p*dophile, murderers, rapists, etc. and those are men I would hardly consider "average."

Trust is earned, seeing is believing and maybe stop watching so many Lifetime movies, just a thought.dunno
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Mar 29, 2011 8:32 AM CST men today
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
nanners2863: As far as trusting, a person can only do that over time.


wave Hi Nann ....grin bouquet

A wee question if I may. So how much time is that exactly ? 1 year, 3,6 ? .... When do you know, when do you make that decision and decide there is "trust" and security. See what I'm getting at.wine
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Mar 29, 2011 8:33 AM CST men today
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
vinny1967: I dont know about you R but am sick of being categorised

Will mail you shortly mate as have some bad/good news.


We may get thirsty with all that popcorn


You sure you mean that?

What if you were categorised as a great guy and a genteman? Would you hate THAT category? grin
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Mar 29, 2011 8:33 AM CST men today
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
vinny1967: I dont know about you R but am sick of being categorised

Will mail you shortly mate as have some bad/good news.


We may get thirsty with all that popcorn


blues

yay


thumbs up
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Mar 29, 2011 8:35 AM CST men today
lilmamma71
lilmamma71lilmamma71St. Louis, Missouri USA31 Threads 1,345 Posts
Hi R..I know you directed that question at Nanners, but I'd also like to take a moment to answer, just for myself. I will trust until a person gives me a reason not too, but I am also not a fool and am aware of red flags.

Full trust is earned over time, by both men and women, give it too soon and some will take advantage, don't give it and run the risk of never knowing how good it feels to have total faith and trust in someone else. It's hard to discern, but with time and showing the other person you are what you claim and being honest goes a long, long way, JMHO.teddybear
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Mar 29, 2011 8:36 AM CST men today
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Any thoughts on why so many men seem to be going off the rails and how does a single woman learn to trust men these days.


me thinks tis to do with stress,

People get angry too quickly and men and stress dont seem to be good marriage partners..

either stress from work, or financial, or simply that being a man does not mean much in these days of equality... Girls have learnt to do it for themselves.. and men just dont have solid roles any more..

so that equates to fear....

fear equates to anger

anger equates to ............. def not being a gentleman..


The strength of a man comes from within, not without..

JMO

lips
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Mar 29, 2011 8:36 AM CST men today
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
RDM59: Hi Nann ....

A wee question if I may. So how much time is that exactly ? 1 year, 3,6 ? .... When do you know, when do you make that decision and decide there is "trust" and security. See what I'm getting at.
Hey love!! I see your point and can only say that it's up to the individual. We all have that little voice that nags us when something isn't wrong (always thought it was my moms voice laugh )and a person has to listen to that voice. Too many people want to be in love and will over look the obvious signs. A person true nature will be revealed over a period of time, how long is again is up to the individual involved, but a person can only put on a persona for so long before cracks begin to appear and the true person emerges.
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Mar 29, 2011 8:37 AM CST men today
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
nanners2863: Hey love!! I see your point and can only say that it's up to the individual. We all have that little voice that nags us when something isn't wrong (always thought it was my moms voice )and a person has to listen to that voice. Too many people want to be in love and will over look the obvious signs. A person true nature will be revealed over a period of time, how long is again is up to the individual involved, but a person can only put on a persona for so long before cracks begin to appear and the true person emerges.
doh When something isn't "RIGHT" sorry bout that..
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Mar 29, 2011 8:38 AM CST men today
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
RDM59: Hi Nann ....

A wee question if I may. So how much time is that exactly ? 1 year, 3,6 ? .... When do you know, when do you make that decision and decide there is "trust" and security. See what I'm getting at.


I know question wasn't for me ...

My opinion on that one is that it becomes apparent very quickly if someone does what they say they're gonna do, info shared ckecks out, respect of each other and each other's space is happening, taking responsibility for one's actions (instead of blaming others) etc...

All of that, I think becomes apparent fairly quick ...

wave
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Mar 29, 2011 8:45 AM CST men today
stormeee
stormeeestormeeeflorence, Tuscany Italy1 Threads 2 Posts
to the men on here that wrote these silly responses...I WAS NOT ASKING FOR YOUR INPUT but in true fashion you made fun of something that was important to a woman. You thought this so effing funny. Thank you. Sooooooo typical. Thanks for confirming that a lot of men are nitwits.
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Mar 29, 2011 8:46 AM CST men today
stormeee
stormeeestormeeeflorence, Tuscany Italy1 Threads 2 Posts
to the men on here that wrote these silly responses...I WAS NOT ASKING FOR YOUR INPUT but in true fashion you made fun of something that was important to a woman. You thought this so effing funny. Thank you. Sooooooo typical. Thanks for confirming that a lot of men are nitwits.
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Mar 29, 2011 8:49 AM CST men today
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
stormeee: to the men on here that wrote these silly responses...I WAS NOT ASKING FOR YOUR INPUT but in true fashion you made fun of something that was important to a woman. You thought this so effing funny. Thank you. Sooooooo typical. Thanks for confirming that a lot of men are nitwits.
wow The men on here didn't say anything horrible, they could have seeing as you attacked men in general, but they didn't. It appears that you have this huge hate on for most men. doh
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Mar 29, 2011 8:49 AM CST men today
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
stormeee: to the men on here that wrote these silly responses...I WAS NOT ASKING FOR YOUR INPUT but in true fashion you made fun of something that was important to a woman. You thought this so effing funny. Thank you. Sooooooo typical. Thanks for confirming that a lot of men are nitwits.


Actually that's where you are wrong ...

Might have come accross to you as nitwits, but the men who have responded (however you perceived their responses) happen to be some of the nicest guys on CS as far as I am aware from their contributions on the forums
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Mar 29, 2011 8:49 AM CST men today
blarneykite
blarneykiteblarneykiteSomewhere, Carlow Ireland31 Threads 3,901 Posts
stormeee: to the men on here that wrote these silly responses...I WAS NOT ASKING FOR YOUR INPUT but in true fashion you made fun of something that was important to a woman. You thought this so effing funny. Thank you. Sooooooo typical. Thanks for confirming that a lot of men are nitwits.
There are at least the same number of psychotic women out there as there are men...... The only difference is that the crimes that you refer to about men in your OP are now being reported on when women committ them... They have always happened but only now are they being reported upon... If you don't want comments then dont post a thread, as once you do it a public thread and anyone can post as they pleasegrin
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Mar 29, 2011 8:50 AM CST men today
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
stormeee: to the men on here that wrote these silly responses...I WAS NOT ASKING FOR YOUR INPUT but in true fashion you made fun of something that was important to a woman. You thought this so effing funny. Thank you. Sooooooo typical. Thanks for confirming that a lot of men are nitwits.

Before you put up a thread ,expecting a discussion ,you have to be prepared for all kind of responses

PS. From now on we will behave liar liar liar liar
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Mar 29, 2011 8:55 AM CST men today
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
EagleWoman: You sure you mean that?

What if you were categorised as a great guy and a genteman? Would you hate THAT category?


On here it doesnt mean much laugh

I see the OP has signed off. Pity , while I found the opening post to be offensive, I would have liked to hear more from her as regards her selection process laugh

wave bouquet
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