Most of us on here make all kinds of friends...some we are a little more than friends with...
My question is...until it becomes "exclusive"..even if you are "chatting" regular with someone on here...do you still "window shop" (chat and meet with other men/women on the site??)
Whole experience was not what I expected especially how condusive it is to making friends. I think I do better at romance in the "real world", but so pleased about the quality people I've met in a short time. "Whomever" will just have to understand.
I don't have a problem with that one...i too would not mind saying that i'm with someone and am just here for the forums...nothing wrong with still making friends...as for the flirting...well i guess it would be curbed to a certain point..but i would not stop altogether...its part of my personality...and isn't that what attracted him in the first place...my personality??
well i have been "exclusie" with my guy for about what 10mths now
i dont consider myslef window shopping i do however considre myself friends with alot of people here and love to "chat" with my friends yes and when someone questions me i let them know that i am with someone and thats that
I can walk and chew gum at the same time.....I believe many on here have for lack of a better word, "clandestine" relationship. only they know, regardless of location or exclusivity , the thought that I cannot communicate,partticpate in discussions,with others it's hard to picture myself in that type of relationship with anyone anywhere. Now if you're asking about more than just "regular" chatting. Email me with the list of"different" types of chatting....curiousity
to window shop if that means to instigate a dialog outside of forums...on one on one basis each instance is unique in itself. a blanket rule no meeting or communicating with someone new ...to me is absurd.
I'll continue to chat with people even when I do find someone...but that's CHATTING, not FLIRTING. I don't even wait until it's "exclusive" to stop flirting with other men; I stop that as soon as I see a potential for something permanent happening, all the way until I know for sure, one way or the other, where it's going to go.
It's not the other men are not going to be around when I get back and, even if they're not, no biggie. There will be others to flirt with in the future, I'm sure.
I find it hard to have a meaningful conversation with another girl,cause I have one that I want to be with.I feel like i'm doing something wrong if I do,so I just don't do it.I guess that i'm waiting to see where this relationship is gonna go.So far so good
All I can say is dont close doors that you may want to reopen at some point, now if youve met and theres an offline relationship that you BOTH want then thats different. Nothing wrong with flirting if youre in an "online relationship"...Things arent always as they seem...Trust me on this one folks..Much love to you all
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My question is...until it becomes "exclusive"..even if you are "chatting" regular with someone on here...do you still "window shop" (chat and meet with other men/women on the site??)