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Oct 9, 2006 8:18 PM CST Window Shopping....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Most of us on here make all kinds of friends...some we are a little more than friends with...

My question is...until it becomes "exclusive"..even if you are "chatting" regular with someone on here...do you still "window shop" (chat and meet with other men/women on the site??)
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Oct 9, 2006 8:23 PM CST Window Shopping....
cranbrook2
cranbrook2cranbrook2brussels, Ontario Canada6 Threads 1,426 Posts
Not this guydunno wine
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Oct 9, 2006 8:24 PM CST Window Shopping....
aria_rose
aria_rosearia_rosePeninsule, New Brunswick Canada32 Threads 1,250 Posts
well you are not exclusive...

But I wouldn't go around sleeping with people...
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Oct 9, 2006 8:27 PM CST Window Shopping....
fabs_4000
fabs_4000fabs_4000White Rock, British Columbia Canada44 Threads 2,381 Posts
whats wrong with chatting? If I get "hooked up" I won't be flriting as much thats for sure
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Oct 9, 2006 8:29 PM CST Window Shopping....
nwnstar
nwnstarnwnstarConway, USA38 Threads 5,464 Posts
i'm still for the same reason i started...intelligent conversation and friends.

i happen to have found the best guy on here...but i'm still cultivating friendships. i just have no plan on sleeping with THEM, lol.
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Oct 9, 2006 8:30 PM CST Window Shopping....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
You've never been "exclusive" with anyone on here...so how do you know you wouldn't window shop??
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Oct 9, 2006 8:32 PM CST Window Shopping....
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
I think that we all do. One can't have too many friends. As for exclusive, I wish. You know the details. Paws
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Oct 9, 2006 8:49 PM CST Window Shopping....
Jonquille
JonquilleJonquillePeace is its own reward, Ontario Canada98 Threads 897 Posts
Don't know. I suppose if I really connected with someone I'd change my profile to say just here for the forums.
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Oct 9, 2006 8:54 PM CST Window Shopping....
beachfarmer
beachfarmerbeachfarmerLa Jolla, USA18 Threads 3,784 Posts
Agreed!

Whole experience was not what I expected
especially how condusive it is to making
friends. I think I do better at romance
in the "real world", but so pleased about
the quality people I've met in a short
time. "Whomever" will just have to
understand.
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Oct 9, 2006 8:55 PM CST Window Shopping....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I don't have a problem with that one...i too would not mind saying that i'm with someone and am just here for the forums...nothing wrong with still making friends...as for the flirting...well i guess it would be curbed to a certain point..but i would not stop altogether...its part of my personality...and isn't that what attracted him in the first place...my personality??grin wink
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Oct 9, 2006 9:14 PM CST Window Shopping....
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
well i have been "exclusie" with my guy for about what 10mths now

i dont consider myslef window shopping i do however considre myself friends with alot of people here and love to "chat" with my friends yes and when someone questions me i let them know that i am with someone and thats that
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Oct 9, 2006 9:18 PM CST Window Shopping....
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Read my mind. Paws
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Oct 9, 2006 9:50 PM CST Window Shopping....
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
I can walk and chew gum at the same time.....I believe many on here have for lack of a better word, "clandestine" relationship. only they know, regardless of location or exclusivity , the thought that I cannot communicate,partticpate in discussions,with others it's hard to picture myself in that type of relationship with anyone anywhere.
Now if you're asking about more than just "regular" chatting. Email me with the list of"different" types of chatting....curiousity grin

to window shop if that means to instigate a dialog outside of forums...on one on one basis each instance is unique in itself. a blanket rule no meeting or communicating with someone new ...to me is absurd.
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Oct 9, 2006 9:56 PM CST Window Shopping....
I'll continue to chat with people even when I do find someone...but that's CHATTING, not FLIRTING. I don't even wait until it's "exclusive" to stop flirting with other men; I stop that as soon as I see a potential for something permanent happening, all the way until I know for sure, one way or the other, where it's going to go.

It's not the other men are not going to be around when I get back and, even if they're not, no biggie. There will be others to flirt with in the future, I'm sure.
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Oct 9, 2006 10:33 PM CST Window Shopping....
VioladorDeLaLey
VioladorDeLaLeyVioladorDeLaLeyBajo Un Sol Feliz, USA11 Threads 4,548 Posts
gotta agree ... actually done it already ... grin
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Oct 9, 2006 10:47 PM CST Window Shopping....
somethingsexy27
somethingsexy27somethingsexy27milton, Florida USA7 Threads 63 Posts
I find it hard to have a meaningful conversation with another girl,cause I have one that I want to be with.I feel like i'm doing something wrong if I do,so I just don't do it.I guess that i'm waiting to see where this relationship is gonna go.So far so goodgrin

I hardly have time to chat to anyone else.
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Oct 9, 2006 10:51 PM CST Window Shopping....
somethingsexy27
somethingsexy27somethingsexy27milton, Florida USA7 Threads 63 Posts
If you feel like your serious with someone then you should ask him the same question and see what his take is on it.
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Oct 9, 2006 10:53 PM CST Window Shopping....
Maggalicious
MaggaliciousMaggaliciousBerlin, Wisconsin USA19 Threads 1,101 Posts
Yep, me toooooo
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Oct 9, 2006 11:07 PM CST Window Shopping....
SusieRR
SusieRRSusieRRnortheast, Ohio USA78 Threads 3 Polls 2,122 Posts
If and when it becomes "Exclusive" then I would stop shopping for a relationship.

UNTIL it become mutually exclusive, that is talked about, and understood, I will continue to look for someone to love and to love me.
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Oct 9, 2006 11:11 PM CST Window Shopping....
Missy51970
Missy51970Missy51970Goodland, Kansas USA21 Threads 1,457 Posts
All I can say is dont close doors that you may want to reopen at some point, now if youve met and theres an offline relationship that you BOTH want then thats different. Nothing wrong with flirting if youre in an "online relationship"...Things arent always as they seem...Trust me on this one folks..Much love to you all
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