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Apr 13, 2011 12:42 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
your girlfriend/boyfriend absolutely despises your best
friend of many years, and doesn't want you to hang out with
them for whatever reason.
she/he tries to give some kind of ultimatum.

what do you do?
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Apr 13, 2011 12:45 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
pikengren: your girlfriend/boyfriend absolutely despises your best
friend of many years, and doesn't want you to hang out with
them for whatever reason.
she/he tries to give some kind of ultimatum.

what do you do?

shoot the both ...grin
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Apr 13, 2011 12:45 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
pikengren: your girlfriend/boyfriend absolutely despises your best
friend of many years, and doesn't want you to hang out with
them for whatever reason.
she/he tries to give some kind of ultimatum.

what do you do?


I would tell my b/f that that person was my friend long before he came along and I'm not giving up that friend.
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Apr 13, 2011 12:45 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Boban1: shoot them both ...
grin
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Apr 13, 2011 12:46 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
i wouldnt have a girlfriend or boyfriend or anyone that close in my life with a need to control my other relationships.

sometimes they seem to not be that way and then later are exposeduh oh

i am diplomatic but let me tell you
from experience

those friends and kids are still in my life today
whereas aforementioned gfs/bfs are long gone

the people in my life were just a handy excuse for them

i cannot think of a situation wherein i would issue any such ultimatum- your relationships arent all my business unless they affect me directly or my safety or the sanctity of my home

i know how to have boundaries or request them from you

no need for ultimatums
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Apr 13, 2011 12:46 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
Boban1: shoot the both ...


you are a problem solver. grin
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Apr 13, 2011 12:49 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
Boban1: shoot the both ...
way to keep it simplecool


dig a deep holethumbs up
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Apr 13, 2011 12:51 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
pikengren: your girlfriend/boyfriend absolutely despises your best
friend of many years, and doesn't want you to hang out with
them for whatever reason.
she/he tries to give some kind of ultimatum.

what do you do?


It's important what the reason is.

My guess is, in a situation like that, the person who wants the other one to dump the best friend is probably jealous of the time he/she is giving to the best friend
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Apr 13, 2011 12:51 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
mindfful: way to keep it simple dig a deep hole

axe and shovel are always in my van...giggle
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Apr 13, 2011 1:06 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
Conorco
ConorcoConorcoMaynooth, Kildare Ireland646 Posts
Boban1: axe and shovel are always in my van...


which do you shoot them with, the axe or the shovel?
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Apr 13, 2011 1:19 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
Faithe
FaitheFaithePortland, Victoria Australia5 Threads 4,169 Posts
Conorco: which do you shoot them with, the axe or the shovel?


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 13, 2011 1:20 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Conorco: which do you shoot them with, the axe or the shovel?

I run them over with my van
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Apr 13, 2011 1:22 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
pikengren: your girlfriend/boyfriend absolutely despises your best
friend of many years, and doesn't want you to hang out with
them for whatever reason.
she/he tries to give some kind of ultimatum.

what do you do?

I would put my partner first.He is more important then anyone.My boyfriend is very fair and levelheaded so if he hated someone,and I can't think of anyone he hates,I would have to believe there is a very good reason.
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Apr 13, 2011 1:47 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
singin4U
singin4Usingin4UJonesboro, Georgia USA1 Threads 126 Posts
maryrachelle: I would put my partner first.He is more important then anyone.My boyfriend is very fair and levelheaded so if he hated someone,and I can't think of anyone he hates,I would have to believe there is a very good reason.


I knew a man who had 3 wives. Two of them died from eating poison mushrooms and the third from a gunshot wound. When asked about the one who died from a gunshot wound he replied "she wouldn't eat the mushrooms"!
tongue
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Apr 13, 2011 2:07 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
singin4U: I knew a man who had 3 wives. Two of them died from eating poison mushrooms and the third from a gunshot wound. When asked about the one who died from a gunshot wound he replied "she wouldn't eat the mushrooms"!
???dunno
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Apr 13, 2011 2:07 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
singin4U: I knew a man who had 3 wives. Two of them died from eating poison mushrooms and the third from a gunshot wound. When asked about the one who died from a gunshot wound he replied "she wouldn't eat the mushrooms"!
???dunno
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Apr 13, 2011 2:12 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
singin4U: I knew a man who had 3 wives. Two of them died from eating poison mushrooms and the third from a gunshot wound. When asked about the one who died from a gunshot wound he replied "she wouldn't eat the mushrooms"!
hello you sweetest of creaturespurple heart

lookin foxy as alwayswave
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Apr 13, 2011 3:10 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
Rumyet
RumyetRumyetBaku, Azerbaijan118 Threads 16 Polls 1,860 Posts
ha-ha.u r in the wrong site to ask abt bf/gf laugh cheers
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Apr 13, 2011 3:16 AM CST your girlfriend/boyfriend
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
it depends if the reasons he gives are valid or not...dunno
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