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May 25, 2011 4:35 AM CST Widowed:
SUNSHINEB0Y
SUNSHINEB0YSUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 Posts
trueheart1941: hi....S.....thats good to hear.........


Thanks TH, best thing that's happened to me in ages, I'm excitedbanana
I'tll be a real break to get out for something other than necessaties.cheers
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May 25, 2011 4:43 AM CST Widowed:
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: Thanks TH, best thing that's happened to me in ages, I'm excited
I'tll be a real break to get out for something other than necessaties.
thumbs up i really....hope this works for both of you ...you deserve..it ....peter....cheers cheers
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May 25, 2011 4:50 AM CST Widowed:
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: Thanks TH, best thing that's happened to me in ages, I'm excited
I'tll be a real break to get out for something other than necessaties.



applause wine To new biginnings!!!!! hug
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May 25, 2011 4:56 AM CST Widowed:
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
EagleWoman: To new biginnings!!!!!


thumbs up thumbs up
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May 25, 2011 4:59 AM CST Widowed:
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: I feel I should quallify that statement as it could be misleading.
I want to make it clear that you are not the primary "sniper" that I mentioned S4E but you were mentioned in the mail, her comment was very funny and was meant to be but I can't post it here because I know you would take it the wrong way.
I'd also like to make it clear to EVERYBODY that I don't feel agressive towards ANYBODY but, and just as others have had to post in the past, I will defend myself, when I can be bothered, and am quite capable of it!



I know you wernt being horrible to me ,cause ive only just got here .

Ive been making a cup of tea .


cheers
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May 25, 2011 5:04 AM CST Widowed:
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y:
I Thank god for eircom, and I pray for good weather.


dunno .. didn't you mean Aircon ?

I can imagine you farmers having odour problems, a draw back in your line of work I suppose.

laugh tongue


thumbs up ... Best of luck on your date Sunnyboy ......cheers

Hope she's a real Babe ( you've seen the movie yeh ? )....laugh
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May 25, 2011 5:23 AM CST Widowed:
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: I feel I should quallify that statement as it could be misleading.
I want to make it clear that you are not the primary "sniper" that I mentioned S4E but you were mentioned in the mail, her comment was very funny and was meant to be but I can't post it here because I know you would take it the wrong way.
I'd also like to make it clear to EVERYBODY that I don't feel agressive towards ANYBODY but, and just as others have had to post in the past, I will defend myself, when I can be bothered, and am quite capable of it!
broken heart










hehe have great time sweetyyay
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May 25, 2011 7:07 AM CST Widowed:
SUNSHINEB0Y
SUNSHINEB0YSUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 Posts
RDM59: .. didn't you mean Aircon ?

I can imagine you farmers having odour problems, a draw back in your line of work I suppose.

... Best of luck on your date Sunnyboy ......

Hope she's a real Babe ( you've seen the movie yeh ? )....


Hi rd and thanks (confused I think), I could really do with babe here sometimeslaugh bloody dogs, listen to me then please themselves as to whether they want to do or not do thingsrolling on the floor laughing sound familiarroll eyes
Nobody knows how hard us farmers have itlaugh odours aren't the only problems, whenever I go to a hot country I can tell who are the people from ireland from behind, all the hairs are worn off the backs of our calf muscles by the welliesrolling on the floor laughing


No I meant eircom, I guess it's short for communications eirann, it's my isp and onetime I was giving out my email addy over the fone (with a bit of a sniffle), my pal wrote it down as eircod, that seemed quite apt toorolling on the floor laughing but the mail didn't get thrudoh
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May 25, 2011 7:11 AM CST Widowed:
SUNSHINEB0Y
SUNSHINEB0YSUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 Posts
chococherrie: hehe have great time sweety


oohhh no, I didn't considder that I could be about to make a horrible mistake uh oh should I forget the date and start looking into flights?blues





nah, I can't, she sounds lovely, gotta go and meet hersad flower
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May 25, 2011 7:19 AM CST Widowed:
SUNSHINEB0Y
SUNSHINEB0YSUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 Posts
EagleWoman: To new biginnings!!!!!

Thank you ladies
and everybody,
cs is amazing.
All I need now is for a miracle to happen and make up with the op, the final proof that there is a god
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May 25, 2011 8:11 AM CST Widowed:
single4ever
single4eversingle4everCalgary, Alberta Canada1,109 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: You are not the first one to complain that the only mail you get is from scammers, I'm sorry that no "real" men don't find you attractive enough to contact, I'm not going to venture any suggestion about why this could be, I don't know you and I don't want to, but in a strange way I owe you some thanks, this morning when I opened up I had a string of mail, three negative, four positive, one from a lady within driving distance of me, she initially contacted me saying that she'd noticed "a certain member" (not quote) sniping at me in several threads over a while and was sympathetic, I replied and one thing has led to another, we're talking about a date for saturday
This is a strange world huh?
I Thank god for eircom, and I pray for good weather.


No worries; I just don't worry anymore about the dating scene anyways. It was frustrating at the time and eventhough I specified I no longer want to date; I am still getting the scammers but such is life. I just block and delete now. Most times I don't even bother to check my emails anymore. I sure hope your date works out well and that you find the happiness you deserve. cheers
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May 25, 2011 8:19 AM CST Widowed:
single4ever
single4eversingle4everCalgary, Alberta Canada1,109 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: I feel I should quallify that statement as it could be misleading.
I want to make it clear that you are not the primary "sniper" that I mentioned S4E but you were mentioned in the mail, her comment was very funny and was meant to be but I can't post it here because I know you would take it the wrong way.
I'd also like to make it clear to EVERYBODY that I don't feel agressive towards ANYBODY but, and just as others have had to post in the past, I will defend myself, when I can be bothered, and am quite capable of it!


No worries; after serving 20 years in the military; I have heard all the comments and it just doesn't bother me anymore. grin
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Jun 10, 2011 7:30 PM CST Widowed:
jdc5558
jdc5558jdc5558Williamsburg, Indiana USA5 Threads 152 Posts
It is insulting that you believe we are liars. I am widowed and also an engineer. How about that. I have heard this deal before. After being on a few of these sites for a while, it has come to my attention that most of the women on here are bored housewives.
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Jun 10, 2011 8:56 PM CST Widowed:
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
jdc5558: It is insulting that you believe we are liars. I am widowed and also an engineer. How about that. I have heard this deal before. After being on a few of these sites for a while, it has come to my attention that most of the women on here are bored housewives.
This thread just goes to show that we all need to treat each person/profile individually and try not to jump to conclusions.

Sadly though, there does seem to be common themes that scammers will use to gain our trust. I've found for myself that when I invite them to webcam they will ignore my requests or make up excuses that they are unable to do this. If they have computer access, skype is a free program around the world, so they should be able to access something like this. I guess its also a matter of asking enough questions and paying attention to what they write/say.

For example, one person writing me, states that where he lives he loves to explore the province and lower mainland area ... that describes where I live and when I questioned him he was humming and hawing and trying to get out of it. Where he lives is a state with counties ..... even I know that and I don't live where he does.
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Jun 10, 2011 9:01 PM CST Widowed:
llisita777
llisita777llisita777chicago, Illinois USA74 Posts
single4ever: I was thinking there sure have been a lot of deaths with women with all these widowers contacting me. Made me wonder if they had something to do with it.
maybe rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 10, 2011 9:04 PM CST Widowed:
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
jdc5558: It is insulting that you believe we are liars. I am widowed and also an engineer. How about that. I have heard this deal before. After being on a few of these sites for a while, it has come to my attention that most of the women on here are bored housewives.


No, please dont believe that...
I am also a widow, and I work away at life best I can.
cheers
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Jun 10, 2011 9:06 PM CST Widowed:
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
jdc5558: It is insulting that you believe we are liars. I am widowed and also an engineer. How about that. I have heard this deal before. After being on a few of these sites for a while, it has come to my attention that most of the women on here are bored housewives.


I'm not a bored housewife.I'm not even a housewife anymore.
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Jun 10, 2011 9:09 PM CST Widowed:
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
jdc5558: It is insulting that you believe we are liars. I am widowed and also an engineer. How about that. I have heard this deal before. After being on a few of these sites for a while, it has come to my attention that most of the women on here are bored housewives.
no we dont,,,its just most scammers use this as their profile
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Jun 10, 2011 9:10 PM CST Widowed:
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
Ccincy: I'm not a bored housewife.I'm not even a housewife anymore.


laugh
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Jun 10, 2011 9:14 PM CST Widowed:
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
Back when I was first divorced and naive, I met a man before the days of computers. He said he was widowed and I had no reason to disbelieve him. He wined and dined me on the first date and when he took me home he wanted to come in. I said no but he convinced me that he just wanted to kiss me goodnight in private.

Turns out he wanted more than a kiss. We argued and he admitted that he wasn't a widower.

Then about eight hears ago I met a man online who also said he was widowed. We got along well but he didn't want to meet me so it ended. Awhile after that I looked up his profile and saw that it said divorced.

doh
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