ardera: Hi Guys, First time posting on the internationals so "Hi" from this little island called Ireland
In answer to you original question, yes! With the state of our economy, inept government and newspapers constantly printing doom and gloom, I think I will be by myself for the "foreseeable" future.
Not a happy reply, I know, but.... anyway, hope you are all keeping well in cyberworld.
welcome home mate if the politicians and the powers that be can't organise the country or even themselves, is it really wise to allow them to have anything to do with your love life there are some lovely ladies in Ireland,
JeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)6,482 posts
Whenever I start feeling lonely and stuff I start thinking about how lucky I am. Being alone has it's advantages. You can get away with things that you normally wouldn't do in the presence of another person. I can be a bit more of a slob if I want too. I don't have to put the seat back down. All sorts of cool guy stuff.
Mystyr: Do you feel that your chances of success in finding the one person in this world that belongs in your arms will never be there, and that your life will remain lonely and empty until life is no more?
I know this is a gloomy seriously negative depressing thread, but its also something that crosses some of our minds and its a possibility that we might face if we don't change something about our selection processes and ourselves.
how do you feel and if there is something you could do about fixing your situation to draw that one you would love to you, what would it be???
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No, I don't feel like that. I've got plenty of other things going on in my life to sit wondering where my 'soulmate' is. Like most people on here, I would like to meet someone but I don't see the point in directing all my thoughts to the subject. Your life is only lonely and empty if you allow it to be, make an effort to meet people in the real world and get involved in your local community. You have far more chance of meeting someone in your locality than you do on sites such as this.
YesWho: I still do things that I enjoy doing. I go bowling, danceing and swimming. I know a couple of the women that have some health problems and yes they are pretty.
That's more than most people do. So get out there, YesWho
Jeeepers: Whenever I start feeling lonely and stuff I start thinking about how lucky I am. Being alone has it's advantages. You can get away with things that you normally wouldn't do in the presence of another person. I can be a bit more of a slob if I want too. I don't have to put the seat back down. All sorts of cool guy stuff.
Do you feel that your chances of success in finding the one person in this world that belongs in your arms will never be there, and that your life will remain lonely and empty until life is no more?
No, not at all. I have met three perfect mate/companions, when I was 17, 36, and last year. It's true that none of the three has lasted till now. But three is enough to prove there could be a fourth. So I remain optimistic.
I know this is a gloomy seriously negative depressing thread, but its also something that crosses some of our minds and its a possibility that we might face if we don't change something about our selection processes and ourselves.
how do you feel and if there is something you could do about fixing your situation to draw that one you would love to you, what would it be???
There I am in a quandary. I was just too young to appreciate her the first time. The second time...let me just say, not only men can be commitment-phobic. Most recently, the nature of the relationship itself was the difficulty. So, no pattern, no easy solution.
I know there are people here that really truly and sincerely feel, and would like to share.SHARE
boomboom_uk: we are all responsible for our own happiness..only you can sort it Ard..get the suit on an go mingle lots of lovely people out their who would love the company too..you wont find them in front of a puter tho...sometimes that is the reason for isolation too...hugs too you...
Totally, agree with you. Happiness is in your control. Trying to shut out external factors from pulling you down is the hard part. Have met some very nice people on these forums and it is a good way to met new people / friends. Know what you mean about the real world v's the cyber world, fresh air has is benefits.
Problem with the suit - phone boxes are all gone Keep getting funny looks as I put my underwear on over my spandex
SUNSHINEB0Y: welcome home mate if the politicians and the powers that be can't organise the country or even themselves, is it really wise to allow them to have anything to do with your love life there are some lovely ladies in Ireland,
Hi Sunshineboy
lol no, wouldn't trust them to run a bath
True, lot of lovely Irish girls around (and international, let not forget them)
LONG456christchurch, Canterbury New Zealand261 posts
Mystyr: Do you feel that your chances of success in finding the one person in this world that belongs in your arms will never be there, and that your life will remain lonely and empty until life is no more?
I know this is a gloomy seriously negative depressing thread, but its also something that crosses some of our minds and its a possibility that we might face if we don't change something about our selection processes and ourselves.
how do you feel and if there is something you could do about fixing your situation to draw that one you would love to you, what would it be???
I know there are people here that really truly and sincerely feel, and would like to share.SHARE
Yes, i feel i will never find that someone. But i can always hope for the best,
Even those ones,who can work,drive,or been absolutely healthy, after reaching a certain age,their chances are almost none.-
YesWho: I don't think that I'll ever find someone to be in a relationship with. Theres no way to fix the health problems that I have. I can't work or drive anymore.
colorbluedubai, Dubai United Arab Emirates14 posts
wow. at least its not me alone in this world.
it is often than not a very common thing for people to feel this way. that sometimes, you just gave up. and just let the universe decide for you. cause, most of the decisions that you made turns out wrong. or hurtful. or sometimes your Mr./Ms. Right one will leave you after all. leaving you alone, a lot older and a lot scared jumping again in another relationship.
i am 28, so, if i start to date now and have a relation before the year ends, ill be 29 then. so ill wait for maybe another 2 years before this new relation blossoms to marriage (if this goes as a serious one).but what f it fails, then i wasted 2 youthful years of my life. go back to my cave and reassess again? scary thing but true.
Further down your post,a post by Trueheart,saying something about Mohhamet's mountain,which means,"if the mountain cannot reach you (find you),you reach(find) the mountain.
vyoleta: I do, most of the time. But not because I think I will never find the special someone, but because I think that he is not doing a damn thing to find me.
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In answer to you original question, yes! With the state of our economy, inept government and newspapers constantly printing doom and gloom, I think I will be by myself for the "foreseeable" future.
Not a happy reply, I know, but.... anyway, hope you are all keeping well in cyberworld.
welcome home mate
if the politicians and the powers that be can't organise the country or even themselves, is it really wise to allow them to have anything to do with your love life
there are some lovely ladies in Ireland,