For me red flags in internet are: profile without a photo, blurred or bad photos, photos look very old or scanned or made from the distance. Grammer mistakes in a huge quantity. Unable to speak without swearing or cursing. Refuses to use Skype or webcam. All of a sudden switches off a web cam and goes offline, asks for photos, photos and more photos of you. Unable to show ID documents, at least a driving licence. Struggles to remember his own surname and name, every day it is different - one day he is John, the other day he is Bill. Says he is this, that and the king of the jungle - in reality he is always between jobs...
In real life - disoderly conduct, like pushing people, swearing, loud, aggressive. Speeding while driving without any reason to do this. Disrespect to others. Not well groomed enough - smelly, unshaven, shoes are a disaster (yes, i am a shoe troll, i keep mine clean and buy only quality ones), unable to talk about anything but himself, and quite recently - red flag is also when a guy refuses to speak normally, but speaks only in poems, verse... Of course, also smoking, bad manners and alcohol.
Now you can see why I am still single. I have sky high demands.
I couldn't have written it better my self - - - - I think that only 20% of people here are genuine, and only maybe 105 really mean what they say, when looking for the other half, and can actually prove everything they are saying in one way or the other - - - -
Kaybee50: Men who start crying withing the 1st five minutes of the date and explain in excruciating detail about the last 5 years of their previous relationship, and then stop talking, grab your hand in a death grip, and look you straight in the eye and say, "You dig me. I know you dig me. We were meant to meet for a cosmic reason." And he not understanding that what he was seeing was NOT a "dig you" look, but a deer in the headlights look.
Kaybee50: Inviting me over for dinner, me arriving to a darkened room, front door ajar, no smell of food cooking. Me calling out, "Hello? Is anyone here?", and he calling out to "come back to the bedroom please". I should've raided his refrigerator as I was high-tailing it out of there...didn't even get a breadstick.
Better late,than sorry. but some people they like drama all along,till they cannot take it anymore.
mariespoodles: it's a loooooooooooooooong story, with many contradictions and family issues that happened along the way to go into any detail here chris ...
But I may give you the password from my account on CS, so you could yourself read what guys write these days. Then decide for yourself, if you would answer them if you were a woman ... I suggest, that you would not answer any ))
I shall add you as a friend, if you wish! I need a new mirror, you told your shoes do shine and can be used as one...
So send the shoes to me for a check, than i shall employ your shoes as my mirror.
demonfairy: Asks you to get rid of your friends and just spent time with him,wants to know your every move,calls you all the time to see where you are...
But I may give you the password from my account on CS, so you could yourself read what guys write these days. Then decide for yourself, if you would answer them if you were a woman ... I suggest, that you would not answer any ))
I shall add you as a friend, if you wish! I need a new mirror, you told your shoes do shine and can be used as one...
So send the shoes to me for a check, than i shall employ your shoes as my mirror.
/your shoe troll/
Hahahah of course you can add me as a friend - - - - as for my shoes I am just polishing them I'm at work and nothing to do Today there is no flying - - - - -
As for the "password offer" Thank you for the trust, if I may say so - - - - But on another note, you can forward me what kind emails you are receiving I love studying human psychology, and nature - - - often a written word, the style of the letter or a msg says allot about the person - - - - Not everything but it can say much
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but one more wont make much difference