Dreamyone: Well I got an email from a guy's mom telling me her son loved me and wanted to marry him. I am 52 and he is 54 Then he wanted me to talk to her on the IM and I was so shocked I thought what the hell? I am still in shock and I have never met him IN PERSON!!!! That was this afternoon
MerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia11,403 posts
I reckon I must have a bit of bull in me... cos I tossed lotsa red flags for so long...
I kept trying to juggle them into an orderly place so that they did not appear constantly out of place... to my detriment.. of course... why I kept at it for so long I wont know..
felixis99: no, not really. Perhaps there's a need for clarification - being on good terms with exes is one thing - having a close communication going is another
a person is really not ready to move on if they are wrapped up in the life pf an ex the red flag potential of this is HUGE
ok, so one of mine calls me every couple of weeks, is that too often for you
almera03: ok, so one of mine calls me every couple of weeks, is that too often for you
my ex husband and I share a 9 year old daughter and we get along better now then when we were married. and we actually communicate.. but neither one of us would ever think of getting back together..
Merriweather: I reckon I must have a bit of bull in me... cos I tossed lotsa red flags for so long...
I kept trying to juggle them into an orderly place so that they did not appear constantly out of place... to my detriment.. of course... why I kept at it for so long I wont know..
so bloody partisan of me...
I agree - any "red flag" is also dependent on the surrounding circumstances if u car e about someone
I don't hold onto a lot of "conditions" either
at the same time I know myself and the things that would trip my trigger - and avoid those as much as I can
felixis99: and a man who forgot to shave and put on deoderant and wears t shirts - old faded ones everywhere
grooming is important
I can understand being clean and smelling nice, but why does a guy have to shave his face?
I mean if it's well kept then you already know about it...
Unless you're talkin about people with ugly beards that got food and whatever else in them....ahh what are they called... ah yes, Flavor savers.... YUCKY!
country_lady67: my ex husband and I share a 9 year old daughter and we get along better now then when we were married. and we actually communicate.. but neither one of us would ever think of getting back together..
but I would not take your word for it if you behaved otherwise if you were a man I was dating....been burned on that line before
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glad ya loves me but I certainly hope u didn't really do such a thorough review