How long does it take to rocover? ( Archived) (33)

Jul 15, 2011 1:39 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
mehtv
mehtvmehtvAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands12 Threads 1 Polls 19 Posts
If you have a break up and your heart is broken so hard how long does it usually take to recover and become normal? May it take more than one year?
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Jul 15, 2011 1:40 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
mehtv: If you have a break up and your heart is broken so hard how long does it usually take to recover and become normal? May it take more than one year?


Yes...but ultimately, the decision is yours.
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Jul 15, 2011 1:45 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
mehtv: If you have a break up and your heart is broken so hard how long does it usually take to recover and become normal? May it take more than one year?
I think it varies for each individual person and a big factor would be if it was your decision or not. I think in that case, you've probably thought it all and worked through many of the issues in your head/heart and have come to the point that you are ready to move on.

Your partner on the other hand, may feel like they've been slam dunked.
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Jul 15, 2011 1:48 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
No one can put a time on an emotion, especially someone else.
We all deal with broken hearts in our own way. Just a suggestion, keep busy, be active, try to do things where your mind will be to busy to think about the break up. Be very active so you can fall asleep easier at night. Turn the page on that chapter of history in your life, only go back to it if there is anything that may help you to not make a mistake again. Mourn, it is a death of a relationship. So it's okay to cry or beat up a pillow but you need to move on, and only time will tell.comfort sigh
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Jul 15, 2011 2:52 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
LovelyMorticia
LovelyMorticiaLovelyMorticiaHamilton, Ontario Canada73 Posts
I think it depends on the person and the nature of the breakup...but mostly the person.
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Jul 15, 2011 2:53 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
mehtv: If you have a break up and your heart is broken so hard how long does it usually take to recover and become normal? May it take more than one year?
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Jul 15, 2011 2:53 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
seems I forgot to say something...grin
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Jul 15, 2011 2:54 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
Boban1: seems I forgot to say something...


Told you mocking was catching B..scold laugh
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Jul 15, 2011 2:57 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
AtwoZ
AtwoZAtwoZunknown, Halland Sweden199 Threads 1,699 Posts
As for "rocovering",-I don´´t know,but recovering...well...how deep where you´re feelings....

And,something tells me you´re close to my place,-Södertörn?
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Jul 15, 2011 3:04 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
scottyburd: Told you mocking was catching B..



Actually, I had some difficulties with my PC...
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Jul 15, 2011 3:06 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
In response to: If you have a break up and your heart is broken so hard how long does it usually take to recover and become normal? May it take more than one year?


two weeks....maximum...

I am serious about this.

no use of mourning for a broken heart. life is too short.
if it's not meant to be, it just isn't meant to be.

look forward always
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Jul 15, 2011 3:29 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
mehtv: If you have a break up and your heart is broken so hard how long does it usually take to recover and become normal? May it take more than one year?


you see anyone normal around here? laugh
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Jul 15, 2011 3:33 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
mitsos
mitsosmitsoslarnaca,famagusta, Nicosia Cyprus17 Threads 801 Posts
scottyburd: Told you mocking was catching B..
rolling on the floor laughing
Remind me not to mock anyone in your presence
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Jul 15, 2011 3:44 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
Boban1: Actually, I had some difficulties with my PC...


Hmmm B...laugh
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Jul 15, 2011 3:46 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
mitsos: Remind me not to mock anyone in your presence


My mother always said that to me when i was imitating folks mitsos...funny thing was...she was always hysterical with laughter...laugh
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Jul 15, 2011 4:10 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
carenza: two weeks....maximum...

I am serious about this.

no use of mourning for a broken heart. life is too short.
if it's not meant to be, it just isn't meant to be.

look forward always


wave Hey Cara....For me, if I was able to get over a love a longterm love affair, I would think that I must not have loved him as deeply as I thought.

It's the same thing when someone dies. Should you show how much you loved the person in the time you spend grieving?

I'm talking about a longterm relationship that ended unexpectedly...should you show how much you loved the person by low long you are sad?

The answer is different for everybody. Some people can say the heck with it, and find someone else, and others will look at old emails and photos and cry themself to sleep every night. There is no set rule for grieving.teddybear
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Jul 15, 2011 5:26 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
mustbnutz
mustbnutzmustbnutzKingman, Arizona USA33 Threads 5 Polls 3,730 Posts
mehtv: If you have a break up and your heart is broken so hard how long does it usually take to recover and become normal? May it take more than one year?




Just remember this...........

"hair of the dog that bit you"


A remedy that contains a small amount of whatever caused the ailment: “When Anne had a bad hangover, Paul offered her a Bloody Mary and said, ‘Have a little of the hair of the dog that bit you.’”


So when suffering from heartache get a little of "the hair of the dog that bit you" just as quick as you can muster up the courage to face the world again....cheers

PS...most people dont need a year....possibly 24 hours...heart wings I think I just fell in love again...rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 24, 2011 6:59 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
fabz4
fabz4fabz4naugatuck, Connecticut USA8 Posts
i should be recovered by now i dunno why im not though. i was in a 13yr relationship and she passed away a long time ago at the tender age of 15. i think its cause of the songs i hear on the radio or stuff i see/do that keeps bring memories back.
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Jul 24, 2011 7:00 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
We all heal in our own time and in our own way wine
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Jul 24, 2011 7:05 PM CST How long does it take to rocover?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
In response to: If you have a break up and your heart is broken so hard how long does it usually take to recover and become normal? May it take more than one year?



When your heart stops breaking.The tears quit flowing.
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