Were you in shock when you left your partner? (99)
KNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 PostsNo, just angry and pissed off. 
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wayward19: I ask this question based on my experience in finding out my partner was cheating and discovered it when it was too late to do anything. I moved out of town to get away. I was in shock, unable to think clearly and took a couple of years or so to get a grip of myself. Were you in shock when you left your partner?
no, not in shock. I left because there was nothing else in the relationship ... haven't heard from her since, and don't expect/want to hear.
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yes - I auppose so. really I'd sayI was resigned that it was over. never been one to over think these things
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No shock,no relief,no disappointment,no cheating,when i told her, to get her bags and go back to her mother,.-I couldn't stand her erratic behavior.-
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NOPH.. I MOSTLY DONT LEAVE MY PARTNER.
INSTEAD, I'D SAY AND DO STUPID THINGS TO MAKE HIM LEAVE ME. 
INSTEAD, I'D SAY AND DO STUPID THINGS TO MAKE HIM LEAVE ME.
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JeanKimberley: I wonder if this is a gender thing - because I hear a lot of men are shocked when their spouse leaves them.... I don't hear this so much from women - must be the company I keep.
The principle of loyalty - particularly in terms of love fidelity - is essentially male and this why men are more shocked. Women are more familiar with the concept of fleeting emotions so they are less shocked.
This is why team sports, an army and civilisation can be relied upon and expected to be male. And it is why men can rely on their male friends, but women can't rely on her female BFF because at any moment she could talk behind her back and switch allegiances to her own social advantage... Men often feel a connection to something for better or worse, and so men carry the noble ethics of sacrifice, standing to the last man and going down with the ship.
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My wife ran off with my best friend... Gee I miss him.
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yes I was. I had a local Lutheran Church calling in on me for the first 48 hours or so. My Catholic parish basically abandoned me except for one woman there. I was in a hotel room with nothing but what could fit into a suitcase. I could not stop shaking. It probably took 2 or 3 years for me to come around but it was a few more years before I could function really well...anything approaching normal.
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wayward19: I ask this question based on my experience in finding out my partner was cheating and discovered it when it was too late to do anything. I moved out of town to get away. I was in shock, unable to think clearly and took a couple of years or so to get a grip of myself. Were you in shock when you left your partner?
No, It was the best decision I've ever made and I never looked back.
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Girljuice: No, It was the best decision I've ever made and I never looked back.
Yes, definately, she still owed me 50 quid,
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My ex couldn't leave me lol So she took a vacation.A year later she tried to have a conversation with me telling me she thinks about me everyday. I told her to get out. sure theres a lot more to the story but there is no emoticon to describe it.(middle finger in the air emoticon.
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chatonlyman2: My ex couldn't leave me lol So she took a vacation.A year later she tried to have a conversation with me telling me she thinks about me everyday. I told her to get out. sure theres a lot more to the story but there is no emoticon to describe it.(middle finger in the air emoticon.
Makes more time for the Music Bro ,
Could it get much better , I think not .
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WhistlingDixie: Makes more time for the Music Bro ,
Could it get much better , I think not .
Your Like my fathers brotherCould it get much better , I think not .
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No, the shock came when I was left with all of the bills to pay. 
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No, i just rolled over and put my arms around my girlfriends
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rebel2: No, i just rolled over and put my arms around my girlfriends
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rebel2: No, i just rolled over and put my arms around my girlfriends
Mine tapped me on the shoulder during what I thought was an excellent love making session and I looked at her and said wait your turn and she left
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chatonlyman2: Mine tapped me on the shoulder during what I thought was an excellent love making session and I looked at her and said wait your turn and she left (kidding again)
I wasn't shocked since I was the one who initiated the brake up with my LTR boyfriend, but it took me a whole year to get over..
Often people need to go apart even if love is still there..
It's been over five years, and I still get texts from him for every holiday....
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It didnt take me long to get over breaking up with my ex that is what the nearest bar is for!
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