Were you in shock when you left your partner? (99)
It was like a huge sigh of relief. Some girls from work took me out to celebrate.
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wayward19: I ask this question based on my experience in finding out my partner was cheating and discovered it when it was too late to do anything. I moved out of town to get away. I was in shock, unable to think clearly and took a couple of years or so to get a grip of myself. Were you in shock when you left your partner?
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No, he was the one in shock! He never thought I would find the strength to leave 
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manroe23: No, iam so lucky that iam broke up with him but that's 2 years ago though
Lucky Guy ...wooo Hooo 
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Jillll: It was like a huge sigh of relief. Some girls from work took me out to celebrate.
the shock was the girls took you out and you had to pay, joking!
i hope you celebrated good
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wayward19: I ask this question based on my experience in finding out my partner was cheating and discovered it when it was too late to do anything. I moved out of town to get away. I was in shock, unable to think clearly and took a couple of years or so to get a grip of myself. Were you in shock when you left your partner?
I was in shock after I realized how happy I was without him. Life has never been better. It was good riddance. Hope it works out for you too.
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I wasn't in shock, more like a big sigh of relief. I told him I was leaving two years before I actually did.
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Replacing the fuse with a 10mm cable and than throwing the hair dryer in my bath? Yes, it was a bit of a shock.
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wayward19: I ask this question based on my experience in finding out my partner was cheating and discovered it when it was too late to do anything. I moved out of town to get away. I was in shock, unable to think clearly and took a couple of years or so to get a grip of myself. Were you in shock when you left your partner?
She was in shock,I threw a hairdryer into the bath with her.
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No, i was in prison 
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mijas36: She was in shock,I threw a hairdryer into the bath with her.
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Honestly, I was shocked that she left me, but then, that when I was a self centred adult baby in his early 20's who thought the entire world revolved around him, thanks to her, I realised that the world did not a)revolve around me and b) owe me anything, I dont know where she is these days but I hope that she is happy and gets nothing but the good things in life coming her way.
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I didn't leave. I got left. And yes, it hurt tremendously. For years. I don't know what you think you're doing asking people this, but you hit a nerve. (some things are just too personal.)
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wayward19: I ask this question based on my experience in finding out my partner was cheating and discovered it when it was too late to do anything. I moved out of town to get away. I was in shock, unable to think clearly and took a couple of years or so to get a grip of myself. Were you in shock when you left your partner?
I wonder if this is a gender thing - because I hear a lot of men are shocked when their spouse leaves them.... I don't hear this so much from women - must be the company I keep.
I think distance is important sometimes to develop clearer thinking- although this is not in all cases.
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In response to: I ask this question based on my experience in finding out my partner was cheating and discovered it when it was too late to do anything. I moved out of town to get away. I was in shock, unable to think clearly and took a couple of years or so to get a grip of myself. Were you in shock when you left your partner?
Not shock as such, more a sense of disappointment in that I couldn't make it work, we both tried hard but when we did separate it was almost a relief, the tension had lifted and I felt I could breath again. We get on well as friends and put our energies into ensuring our children are protected from any negative aspects of our choice to divorce.
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If you cared deeply then the break up HAS to cause shock or numbness. All the bravado in the world does not cover the hurt over the break up.
How you deal with the devastation is quite another thing. Bereavement takes sometime to get over.....there is no shortcut!!!!
How you deal with the devastation is quite another thing. Bereavement takes sometime to get over.....there is no shortcut!!!!
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It was more like a big sigh of relief when I left him.
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Its over 6 years ago and I still don't forgive her. I hear she is getting married again 
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chatonlyman2: Its over 6 years ago and I still don't forgive her. I hear she is getting married again
So,are you still in shock then?Did she have a lucky escape?
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